European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 19, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 20 the stars and stripes monday december 19,1994 old Hubby May have a new Hobby dear Ann Landers my husband Well into his 80s, seems to be collecting women s addresses. Several months ago i Wen through clydes suit pockets and found a note with the address of a woman in a City 250 Miles away. In an other suit i found $1,200. I was t spying. I was get Ting his suits ready for the cleaners today i found an other Sheet of paper with the name of a different woman who lives country. Attached to the paper was $2,000 in Don t know if Clyde is pre paring to leave me and is stash in funds for his departure or what. When i found an empty Book of Stamps i realized he must be corresponding with Sev eral women behind my Back but i Haven t seen him writing any letters. We Are hardly out of each other s sight. Should i confront Clyde about this i Don t know what to do about the Money. We both get an allowance for expenses and i m sure Clyde is accumulating this extra Cash by saving his. But we both have Access to theban accounts and i m worried. If i Tell Clyde How i found the notes and Money he will accuse me of going through his pockets. He has a very Nasty temper. We be been married for 25 years and Are planning to buy a Large Home in Arizona. I Don t want to be stuck with such a big investment if he is going to desert me for another woman. What should i do i need some advice. �. " -,." Toledo dear Toledo you say Clyde who is Well into his 80s, is Corre Ann Landers spending with women you do not know and is stashing rather Large sums of Money have you considered the possibility that he has some neurological problems re suiting from the aging process i Hope you will share this information with Clyde doctor. You should also consult an attorney about the state of Clyde s finances. It May be that you need Legal Protection against what could be Clyde s mental incompetence. And . Hold off on buying that Large Home in that s the last thing you need right now. Dear Ann Landers i d like to share something with your readers that gave me a lift when i really needed it. My Mother died of a heart attack at the age of 72. She was a quiet Sweet woman who did not socialize much. During visitation hours at the funeral Home Many people arrived whom i did not recognize because i have lived in Canada and Vermont for More than 20 years. These strangers did not recognize me either. Three women walked together to the casket and stood quietly in what appeared to be deep thought. At what i considered the proper moment i approached them and introduced myself. One of the three said we Are checkers at the supermarket where your mom shopped. She was one of the few people who treated us like human beings. The least we could do is come to say de in Colchester it. Dear de what a Lovely tribute. That simple comment spoke volumes. Letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago Iii. 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate 17me of end curl mos morning exile dear Abby i have a problem that recurs every year and i would like our opinion. My husband i la Call him Paul and i have been mar ried for eight years. We have a Good marriage but Here s the problem Paul has a son by a previous marriage. His former wife has not remarried after their divorce it was their tradition for Paul to get together with his sex wife and Little Jeff on Christmas morn ing to have breakfast and watch Jeff open his gifts. Well Little Jeff is now 21 years old and that tradition instill going on. My own grown children also have commitments elsewhere so we usually get to Gether later in the Day which Means that since my marriage i have spent every Christmas morning alone. At first i could understand trying to make the idea dear Abby of his father s remarriage easier for his Young son but he s an adult now and the adjustments have been made. Jeff and i Are cordial As Are the sex wife and i and we do see each other occasionally throughout the year. My husband thinks i m out of line to feel Hurt about being excluded every year and he can t see anything rude about their behaviour. Abby if you think i m being too sensitive i la try to adjust my thinking and just get used to being alone every christinas morning. Nameless please dear nameless Little Jeff is a grown Man and i agree the adjust ment should have been made by now. It s time you were made Welcome to join your husband and his sex and Jeff instead of being left alone every Christmas morning. The squeaking wheel gets the grease so squeak up louder. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris Iii. 61054. 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