European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 06, 1995, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 20 the stars and stripes Friday january 6,1995 lust Beer con still be a problem today s crossword Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am married to an alcoholic. May i Tell your readers something 1 paid no attention to when i was younger wish someone had wised me up. My husband Andy has always been a Beer Drinker. In fact that s All he Ever drinks. As a Young woman Inlove i did not notice that he drank seven Days a week he still does Over the 14 years we have been married we have had hundreds of fights about his drink ing the past seven years have been hell on me and on our 8-year-old daughter. I be decided staying in this marriage is Noufa Irtcher. I have begged Andy to get help but he says he does t have a problem. After All it s just a few family is sick of him. He is always drunk by the time sunday dinner comes around. My Sisters can t stand him and his own daughter has no Way of relating to him be cause he is a walking time bomb. She never knows whence la explode. Once a Long time ago Andy was kind polite and easygoing. Now he is rude obnoxious filthy mean and antagonistic. I want to Tell All the Young people who think it s just Beer that if you can t get through the Day without it you have a serious problem. Ohio dear Ohio Vav. ". I v " you told them and i thank you. Beer drunks Are the most difficult to reach because they Don t consider Beer an intoxicating beverage. Those great to ads portray Beer drinkers As Hail Fellows Good of boys who always seem to be celebrating something. They give the impression that to Knock Beer is somehow in american. Life in orphanage dear Abby there has been some talk lately about starting up the orphanages of years ago. So far Only 4 percent of the population is for them. I think the reason people Don t want them is because they Don know anything about them. They Only know what Charle Dickens wrote which in my experience Hajj not True. _ i was born in july 1933,when i was 6 months old i was placed in the Elbon Home i Portland ore., along with my sister who was 2, and my brother who was 3. At no time do any of us remember being beaten or starved. We were Well taken care of. I do remember standing on a Stool to Wash dishes and working in a Garden but it did t Hurt sister and i Learned to sew and knit there. We also got free piano and violin lessons. Quibble dear Abby act a Octal and Iok flu Taftt to m 16 la that Blyth or there fret adv 16 ill m46ush a tort log to Doc Mcc Ftp Doc. To Allim our what Hott Castol b62o 50 iwca/m6 and wr0n6t Voo cml acc two Over thai bad who just Cave Thev c it that 003h one Beer at a sitting is of. Two Beers maybe. But anything beyond that goes Over the line of recreational -. " " dear Ann Landers i Hope you can help with this problem before my Hus band totally alienates our 19-year-old daughter. Grit Cheri attends the local Community College works part time and respects our wishes. She is a kind Well adjusted Voung woman and has a Lovely Circle of friends. The problem her room is a disaster area. My Hus band feels he has the fight to go in there whenever he feels like it and inspect the room. If it does t meet his standards he yells at her As if she were a 3-year-old. I feel everyone deserves some space. Gretchen s rooms her Haven. As Long As the sloppiness does t involve other rooms in the House i Don t make an husband complains that i Don t Back him ii. He insists i should keep after Gretchen about this. It i causing quite a problem Between us. He also gets very angry when he tries to make a Call and Gretchen is on the phone and does t get off immediately. He the screams at her which is embarrassing because the per son on the other end can her him please give me your views i need help v torn mothering fort Lauderdale Fla. Pea Mother \ your husband sounds like a control Freak with a Short fuse. / r v \.first, he has no business in Gretchen s bedroom. Second a 19-year-old is no longer a child she s woman. Since Gretchen works part time she should get and pay for her own phone . I feel sorry for you when your daughter moves out. You will then become the focus of your husband s anger. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to Hor at . Box 11562, Chi Cago Iii. 60611-0562. A /. -. To Zeive a new meaning to the word \6noj?amu5f a think i the Garth / t know Noth Luj -a0out
