European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 5, 2007, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 40 stars and stripes thursday april 5 2007 Check list for abusive partners that scrambled word game by Henri Arnold and Mike Argirion dear Abby my son Marshall is in an abusive marriage this week while his military unit was training in another state his wife had his cell phone turned off then she cancelled his atm card so he would not have Access to Money she did All this because she was angry Marshall had to leave his training Early and Fly Home to straighten out the mess Abby she has locked him out of the House and made up allegations of physical abuse and reported them to his command i have never met any one so vindictive this has happened repeat edly during their nine year marriage have you a list of abusive characteristics in women you could print maybe if Marshall sees it hell recognize it for what it is worried sick in California dear worried sick its dear Abby been a while since i printed the warning signs of an abuser Many of them apply to both sexes 1 pushes for Quick involvement comes on Strong claiming Ive never Felt loved like this by anyone pressures the new partner for an exclusive commitment almost immediately 2 jealous excessively posses Sive Calls constantly or visits unexpectedly prevents you from going to work because you might meet checks the mileage on your car 3 controlling interrogates you intensely especially if you Are late about whom you talked to and where you were keeps All the Money insists you ask permission to go anywhere or do anything 4 unrealistic expectations expects you to be the perfect mate and meet his or her every need 5 isolation tries to Cut you off from family and friends accuses people who support you of causing trouble May deprive you of a phone or car or try to prevent you from holding a Job 6 blames others for problems or mistakes its always someone else fault if something goes wrong 1 makes others responsible for his or her feelings says you make me angry instead of i am angry or says youre hurting me by not doing what i Tell you 8 hypersensitivity is easily insulted claiming Hurt feelings when he or she is really mad rants about the injustice of things that Are just pan of life 9 past battering admits to hitting a mate in the past but says the person made him or her do it letters for this column with your name and phone number should be addressed to dear Abby to Box 69440 los Angeles Ca 90069 readers can write to Abby on the internet at Universal press Syndicate unscramble these four jumbles one letter to each Square to form four Ordinary words Tribune Media services inc All rights reserved j s s Andres just a regular Guy they la Pep the a5tronaut because he now arrange the circled letters to form the Surprise answer As suggested by the above cartoon ans yesterdays s s s s n to i i 0 co answers tomorrow jumbles Creek quilt poetry Campus answer when the Locksmith got the High Rise Job the builder became his key customer q de so f your appointment was two a cars ago whats on your Monitor you could have remm Pedmer a posit tremins to a posit resin oils me to Check computer Monitor whats that stuck Tayoor hand Speed bump to was phone Oclock doctors appoint Taedt at my Rawet pm you theres x Milf i ulll7 Nam 1w x Stop their raging Stream of i Acme a name you can Trust now online this can is s1ape for we Dan either the proud of or we Dante risk
