European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 16, 2007, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday april 162007 stars and stripes Page 25 return to Maiden name for mom that scrambled word game by Henri Arnold and Mike Argirion dear Abby i am separated from my husband of three years and have a Beautiful 2yearold son initially i thought id retain my married name but the More Ive been thinking about it what harm would it do if i changed it is it really going to be that con fusing or upsetting to explain to my son after All i will always be mom to him and nothing will change that i would love to take my Maiden name Back and put my husband and this chapter of my life with him behind me however we have a son who will always carry his fathers name is it selfish of me to consider reverting Back to my Maiden name mrs scorned in Illinois dear mrs scorned not in my opinion thirty years ago thinking on the subject was Dif Ferent however today with so Many women retaining their Maiden names after marriage what you have in mind is not unusual i say go for it dear Abby dear Abby i have a 16yearold son who got into trouble with the he is on probation until september the problem is he is still causing trouble and starting fights i am afraid of what will Hap pen to his younger brother who is 10 and has Down syndrome we live in a new neighbourhood and i dont want our House to get hit by gangs frantic mom in Saskatoon dear frantic mom if your older son is still causing trouble and starting fights then he is breaking probation in order to protect your younger boy and yourself his probation officer should be notified ideally your older son should receive some profession Al counselling to help him Deal with his anger issues some of which May Stem from the fact that his younger brother needs so much of your attention please see that he gets help before his behaviour escalates to the Point where someone is seriously injured dear Abby is it wrong to have a sugar daddy i am a 29year old woman who wants to go Back to school and get a degree the gentleman making the offer is an older Man i met and befriended several years ago what if there is no sex involved what if he is simply a generous Benefactor of a cause the cause being me and my educational future ambivalent in Brooklyn by dear ambivalent if there is no sex involved and he is Sim ply a generous Benefactor then he is not a sugar daddy he is your Mentor and youd be fool ish not to accept his generosity letters for this column with your name and phone number should be addressed to dear Abby to Box 69440 los Angeles Ca 90069 readers can write to Abby on the internet at Universal press Syndicate unscramble these four jumbles one letter to each Square to form four Ordinary words s Tribune Media services inc All rights reserved v j  s oooo what the zoo keeper was attracts to in the City now arrange the circled letters to form the Surprise answer As suggested by the above cartoon answer the s s s j answers tomorrow jumbles tasty quake Herald futile answer when the maid got a better offer the Matron was left in the dust gae i met a g1ri i ready god Poroo Sangud impart Ratshe support help Hurt t count on it Speed bump mows to Whf 6lass6s working for i r Tri Intro j you let that stuff dry and overuse of parenting spit As a police sent lady youre Goin downtown but it Mas oat meal would Bijou dare to explain what you were doing in a jewish families living room at s am in the Middle of july