European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 20, 1978, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 18 the stars and stripes january modern Medicine by Michael an earlier column about the health hazards of based on James Lynch Book the broken told How Lack of human companionship and love can Lead to serious disease and premature family and social Lynch Are As important to health and longevity As or not he warns we must either learn to live together or increase our chances of dying but when our very inability to be close produces the problem we Are surrounded by forces that perpetuate our own tendencies toward it is perhaps the most per manent feature of High Speed with its soaring divorce eroding Fame of and doing your own the american tradition of free Dom and individuality has As its reverse Side Competition and so diverse Are the headwaters of isolation and loneliness that no single antidote can re Lieve their we must begin by realizing that loneliness has physical and emotional then we must learn to be unashamed of novelist Thomas Wolfe defined in his essay the Anatomy of As the Central and inevitable fact of human sex loneliness envelops everybody at one time or often when least even Little children Are not although their loneliness often goes undetected by the adult which focuses on outer behaviour and misses the quiet or sometimes noisy desperation people take Many tonics for loneliness they throw themselves into their drink too have take join smoke watch these activities the More frenetic the better disguise the problem but never quite cure the Only real remedy for loneliness is the Healing Power of human we must care and take pre one those who have family ties and nourishing relationships with their spouses or lovers can take the first step More easily than the who have one family decided to adopt an old person in a nearby nursing and Tele phone and visit her a Young mar ried couple invite a Bachelor to dinner twice a month and often introduce their single friends to one these Are not acts of Charity so much As in the very companionship that keeps people As Lynch Points can also seriously threaten their health when it As it inevitably through i or then the network of friends and constructed during better becomes a we must learn that the most important communication is Long before a baby learns to it establishes an unspoken dialogue with its when the child is frightened or his mothers presence is far More important than anything she the same mechanism operates when an adult is sick and in need of the presence of a Friend who comes to per haps a touch on the tells that person better than any words that he is cared even animals respond to human presence and for has been shown to slow a horses heart rate and produce the visible effect of calming the there is no real Way to Tell a person How to establish dialogue with be they two or four legged except to say that such communication is based on each person fails to own for Many acceptance of loneliness is More successful than a constant Battle against the development of inner re sources pleasure taken in sports that do not depend on others makes each of us better to face the reality and inevitability of  handicapped offered tips on consumer rights Washington Dpi handicapped and disabled people May have the biggest con Sumer problem i of All defective wheel braces or hearing a Public interest group to the disability rights Center has issued a Booklet to show the handicapped How to fight disreputable sales personnel and manufacturers of defective the message stand up for your Legal and Deborah a lawyer who is disabled Heads the nonprofit Center which is affiliated with consumer advocate Ralph disabled people have allowed Many manufacturers Ana retailers to take unfair advantage of them for mainly because they didst know How to enforce their she a statement accompanying the Booklet said some manufacturers of medical devices and equipment for disabled Consumers 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