European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - August 14, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse                                August 1985 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers letters dear Ann Landers a recent letter in your column signed my name is woman will undoubtedly bring Forth several thou Sand replies from my name is there is a very thin line be tween heavy petting and attempted Date and in willing to bet that a great Many male readers will spell out the women should be made aware of the ways they invite Here Are just a few telling raw jokes and using Street Lan bouncing around no Bra in Bowcut sweaters and see through wearing skirts Slit to the City limits up the Back or indulging in passionate pet Ting and lots of steamy preliminaries which give a Man reason to believe she is not Only willing but eager to go the most males will be As sexually aggressive As their partners allow them to More often than its the female who Calls the signals and decides whether she wants to hold that dear please be the rapist who is lurking in the Alley to grab any woman who happens to walk by is a far cry from the Man who makes it with the Dame after she goes to his place for has three Vodka takes off most of her indulges in re hot necking and decides when its Over that she was ill sign this victim in Pittsburgh dear Pitts at the risk of being branded a traitor to my i agree you have logic on your i Hope the women who see themselves in your letter will turn Down the voltage or not be surprised if they find themselves victims of their own dear Ann Landers will you please run a letter to my Hus band he reads you in the Miami Herald every Day without maybe if he sees it in the paper it will make an dear Joe bed is not the place to talk for an hour straight about How stupid your supervisor How the big companies Are ripping off our defense the unfair tax miserable neighbors who encourage their dogs to mess on our my brother who has owed you for a year and a half and How Tough it will be on the elderly if social Security is Why dont you talk to me at the dinner instead of turning on the to and keeping it on for three hours every night its the same old you get mad fall asleep during your and i get mad when you Wake me up to make nobody can solve this problem but Ive told you How i feel but it goes in one ear and out the now that you Are seeing it in i Hope it will make an Long suffering wife dear Long suffering a lot of wives complain because their husbands dont talk to them at apparently Joe talks too much and at the wrong i Hope this letter will help him shape c news America Syndicate readers wishing to write to Ann Landers May address their letters in care of the stars and Apo military clubs Are urged to be All that they can be Ive just read the letter about restrictions on and to be this writer needs to open her eyes the statement the military creates Many of its own club system problems is would you like to hear from one for which the clubs were designed re member the customers a problem was cited regarding More patronage toward Slot machines versus the dining ill you Are 100 percent on to be sick and tired of club employees who Are so unhappy with their jobs that they treat the customer As if its a favor to be i cant count the times Ive been told while placing an order what do you expect me to do or even the management is making us work More so ill get to you when i then there is the Issue of the i dont know How Many times weve been to the club and the food is so poor that we cant finish our twice the manager of a local club who recognized us As regular cheerfully refunded our Money after he noticed us drinking a second cup of Coffee and our food still since youre the Tell Are Good Cooks really that hard to find and take time to supervise Gogo male strippers and exotic drinks Appeal to some old fashioned Cour Tesy and Good ethics Appeal to because we enjoy country Western danc my husband and i frequent a local club usually two saturdays per we dont complain that its Only offered four times per rather we take advantage of the Opportunity to enjoy last saturday we watched a head on snore loudly away for about an totally i motioned for the waitress who had walked past that same drunk Many i asked her if she could remove the drunk from the club dancing by no Means did i mean she had to single Anderly wrestle him out of the Ball i was promptly informed it want her my husband asked for the master at she didst know who he a few minutes later Boss when she realized we were going to talk to the she dashed Over to the drunks table and informed his friends we were making trouble for their a few words were exchanged which this publication would never and my husband set out to find the the Boss promised he would inform our waitress of what her responsibilities but we should be patient because she was needless to we we rent served a drink the rest of the the Bottom line to this rebuttal is you have to make it better for we try to support our club but its time employees do their there Are a lot of Good employees out there who will soon have a poor attitude toward their be cause the employees who dont care arc retained and paid equal to the Why should decent employees never reap any extra incentives did you take the time to read the response to the letter you could profit from the there May possibly be Hope for you yet Good Luck Finster Germany let me begin by saying that i am not presently employed by the military club but was for seven so i do have somewhat of an understanding of the hats off to this writer for speaking her piece and having enough heart to sign what she had to say carries a lot of in that club managers Are held Back by examples bans on Happy bans on double restrictions on entertainment and so which strike me As being counterproductive to what was said in the stars and stripes a few months Back about clubs and other recreation facilities being operated in a More Businesslike manner and thus the generation of More what it boils Down to is this in my if i want a i go to Mcdonalds if i want to play i go to the gym if i want to be entertained and drink i would normally go to the i Haven been inside the clubs for a couple of years now simply because they Are too it seems that certain bands have a com plete monopoly in the club judging from the advertisements i i How entertaining can one group be after their 15th appearance within one month but at least they aint naked Isaacs surely you would not argue that the Only Way to raise your profit margins is to have Gogo dancers Well since there Are a whole Bunch of single gis out surely you holidays and leave without pay the recent answer to admin leave was however the co spokesman should have said with regard to citizen is Federal employees Are entitled to nine regular holidays each Public Law employees have no Federal they Are Days of Loop leave without in fact next year one Day has been added to the school Calendar to make sure teachers and pupils Are not paid for the privilege of a Day off for the Martin Luther King Fitzsimmons Germany editors note John executive services depart ment of defense dependent schools Ger replies personnel policies for Public Law employees teachers Are prescribed by Public Law the defense department overseas teachers pay and personnel practices the act states that sat regularly scheduled holi and other administratively authorized no work Days shall not be considered to be Days of leave the department of defense implement ing directive states that the school year for teachers will consist of 190 working Days including not less than 175 Days of classroom for the Martin Luther King As is the Case for other Federal is just a Holiday and not a Day of it does not extend the school year since by definition Only working Days Are More import it does not deprive Dodds Stu dents of a Day of but allows them to recognize a great pen pals i am interested in having pen i am 30 years i work in a government Malabar Beacon office Davao Oriental Philippines we would like to have pen pals from code 21 Perla 18 Beth 20 foundation University Duma Guette Philippines reminder american express is praised All letters to the editor must contain the full printed name and address of the writer and must be we do not read unsigned but we will withhold your name on request and protect your Over the past four All letters Ive seen published about american express seem to be some complaint or injustice done by our military banking id like to write and say thanks for All the millions of transactions that go on every Day with a smile and without during my tour Ive noticed the staff at the Kirc Goens Branch to be courteous and Al ways seeking customer Karl Bateman Germany  argue that girls would lower profit margins it seems to me that of nov and the military club system arc quite similar in that they both Are faced with the problem of catering to different opinions and family with a you Sim ply turn it off if you dont like the program being Ive never heard of patrons being forced at gunpoint into a club against their in other i dont agree that the clubs have an Obliga Tion to provide wholesome entertain ment a Little catch 22 what is wholesome entertainment clubs have soul country nights latin professional big time bands from the if a Patron hates country then i would pre sume that said Patron  be found in the club on country different strokes for different if you get the i do agree that there Are thousands of clubs and restaurants doing quite Well financially without alcohol sales and Gogo but what people have apparently failed to consider is that on the Economy clubs restaurants Are Able to Spe whereas a military club which also has to specialize has to be Diversi but under one in not advocating one sort of entertainment Over but 1 believe the military club system has the obligation to try to please More Here you have an employee who is obviously right or about clubs and you find it 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