European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 21, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday. September 21. 1985 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers your recent letter and advice to reluctant Champ interested me. The age of the Strong woman is of. Feeling male female relationships dramatically perhaps As much As the sexual revolution of the 60s. The Man today is not ready willing or Able to Deal with a female who is physically More powerful than he. If he find the woman is also 1 sexy and physically attractive it becomes even More complicated. I am a Young Good looking exercise instructor who is experiencing this problem. As the Champ told you beating a Man in any test of strength cools a relation ship very quickly. I dated a Man for several months. Boh was fascinated by my inter est in pumping Iron. For a while we enjoyed each other enor Mously and shared Many common interests including our Strong bodies. On several occasions he saw me beat men at the club in Arm wrestling and it never seemed to bother him. I weigh 120 pounds. Bob weighs 190. He always assumed he could beat me. One night a male instructor at the club watched As i Arm wrestled two husky men and beat both. He challenged me to a match. The instructor is Bob s size and poor Bob was horrified when i won. 1 then made the mistake of challenging Bob. He waa too proud to refuse. I won the match easily. For two weeks Bob challenged me nightly. I was annoyed that he was so insistent Bat i refused to let him win. That ended our Rudau Oship. Bob could not Deal with the fact that be was bested by a woman in a Man s sport i Woi never make the same mistake again. I doubt that the Champ will take your advice and refuse to wrestle her husband. Her Best Hope is that he gets stronger and emerges like the Victor or she May end up like me. A Winner who lost in Florida dear Winner who lost Tabaks for providing evidence to so teat Sale my position. The Man does t live who can accept defeat by a woman and not feel resentful and humiliated. Most own hate to lose to a Femyak in a Gam of i notary for heaven s Sake. Ifa Ott nature of the beast dear Ann Landers 1 Hope you will publish this letter and pot an end to an ongoing Battle Between a husband and me. My husband a a very strict disciplinarian. I know it is vital to the healthy development of children that they be raised with firm guideline but his idea of discipline is to give them a punch in the Mouth whack on the Back of the head or a Wallop across the face. I became very upset when the does this and have told him that what he is doing is child abuse. He Calls me nuts and brags that he and his Brothers were brought up that Way and they All turned out just great. I have argued that when the children misbehave he can give them a Good crack crass the Bottom and i would not object Bat he insists that his Way is More effect army provides information on extensions bonuses my husband is extending for another year instead of making a permanent change of station. Lately there has been a lot of talk for Extension Bonus. I told my husband of what i know. He asked in his unit and no one has heard of it. Can you please inform me and others interested of what the Bonus Extension is and what military occupational specially qualifies etc.? Theresa Burke Baum other Germany editor s note master set. Jeri Cook Usa eur senior retention no Usa eur it Nilst mint office replies the army currently has two programs that involve extensions and bonuses. These Pio Giaimis Are the Bonus Extension and refraining program Bear and overseas Extension incan Lotf program . Both  and  can a very attractive for eligible soldiers As you can see below Bear is a program administered by retention personnel. The military occupational specialities Moss available in Bear change frequently and arc normally Moss in which critical shortage or severe need exists. Soldiers must apply and be recommended by their unit commander for participation in Bear and subsequent re enlistment. Applications Are forwarded to Mil percen for approval. Approved applications Are returned with class dates and a no earlier than net expiration of term of service ets Date thai soldiers must meet before departing for the school. This ets is met the nigh an Extension of enlistment. Cockfight aficionado Speaks out this is about animal cruelty and the society for the prevention of cruelty to Ani Mals Spca. A couple of months ago your paper carried on article about cockfighting in puerto Rico. This article was Well written and re searched. I know because i have been Rais ing fighting roosters for a number of years. My roosters Are now being cared for by my closest Friend from High school. We Doc fighters have always been looked on As lower types of society because we take an animal and stage fights with other Ani Mals on a close to equal scale. In nature the Strong take from the weak and Only the strongest survive. In cockfight ing we take a rooster whose fighting ability is so ingrained in his system that his Only instinct is to be lord and master of his own flock of hens and to defend his flock to the death from any other rooster. This is the reason most of the cockfighting done today is to the death and steel Blades Are used to Speed up an otherwise slow and extremely painful struggle to the death. Anyone who doubts this can write to the Missouri Spca and inquire about an  value added tax an is to be commended on its informative special report aired on labor Day de scribing the american express banking system and its services. One item presented however is in need of correction. Concerning Mehrer Steuer an example was Given of an item costing do 100 including 14 percent value added tax. It was portrayed that the item would Cost do 86 without the do 14 tax. This is incorrect. In reality its Cost with out that tax would be do 87.72 do 100 divided by 1.14 because the  would be 14 percent of the item s Cost prior to its addition not after. Casc Mark d. Fek Nteta Dent that occurred a few years ago. It seems the Spca obtained some gamecocks fight ing roosters from a cockfight that had been raided by the police. In the name of Good will the society was going to release these poor mistreated animals to the great out doors. Well one thing you never do with a Gamecock is turn them Loose where they can see each other. I m not certain How Many of the roosters they finally recaptured alive because when they All were turned Loose they made declines for the closest rooster and started fighting All because of their inbred will to try and overcome any other male of their kind. Another misconception on gamecocks is that they Are regular farm chickens trained to fight. You show me someone who can Tram a Chicken to fight and i la recommend that they make a video to put on the Market in the Southern states. Game roosters Are their own Breed of Chicken bred Only for the purpose of fight ing. One last thought before i close about a week ago 1 read where an Spca group in England released a Bunch of animals being raised for their pelts. If there want a mar Ket then there would t be a need for Ani Mal farms such As this one. If anyone was unusually cruel to these animals it was their liberators who freed them so they could escape into a world where they were sure to fall prey to a thousand deaths. Even scientists will Tell you that an Ani Mal raised in Captivity has very Little Chance of surviving in Trie wild. So who was the real monster in this Story the people who raised the in Ink in cages and took care of them until the time came to kill them humanely or the Spca group that liberated these animals to die slow and painful deaths at the whims of nature to me it seems that the liberators Are the people we need to protect these animals from. Senior airman James l. Patton or. To Ciptik Turkey upon completion of training and award of the new mos soldiers May re enlist and draw the selective re enlistment Bonin in effect on the Day Ihler application was approved or the Day they re enlist whichever is higher. Further details on Bear an be obtained from the retention no who serves your husband s unit. Zeip is designed to encourage sol Diers in a space imbalance mos to extend their overseas Lour. A space in Bat Aneed mos Simos is one in which overseas modified table of organization and equipment toe and tables of distribution and allowances Tda authorizations or requirements present and projected exceed the authorizations or requirements documented for Continental is. Installations and those Moss for which Oversea authorizations exceed 5$ percent of the army wide total for the mos. The incentives available Are As follows 1. $50 per month for the period of the Extension. 2. 30 Days authorized absence not to be charged As leave. 3. 15 Days authorized absence not to be a turned As love plus government transportation o a Continental . Port of entry and return. Soldiers eligible for Zeip May select one of the above incentives provided they extend their overseas tour for a minimum of 12 months past their Normal Lour completion Date. Your husband s personnel and administration Center pad should have details. The mos on both Bear and Zeip Are subject to change so timely action Lim operative for any interested soldiers. Thank you for the Opportunity to explain these two important programs. A tribute to terrorist victim Der East coast no Man who taboos us Uda across the Boa and Punche. The fat fined out  Yoor my � coh abuser. He needs help in eliminating whatever b causing Exee he Iowa la us Feso he can Stop taking out us fru Stra of on the youngster. C Hun air let Syi sow i read recently of the Soldier injured in the blast at Rhem main and his subsequent purple heart. This was great be performed his duty and was awarded one of the highest honors our country gives. But 1 would like to address another related Issue. We have not heard much about the Young dependent wife who lost her life. It is often said that on her the Strong survive but it seems in our society that often is the Lucky ones who make it. The dependent wife chooses to accompany her husband to Germany and we All realize the risk anyway i just want to say thank you to that Young woman who lost her life. She deserves a purple heart As much As any i who Ever served. She was Here supporting her husband and her country. She believed in America. I want to say thank you to her parents who lost their Little girl so recently married. I am sure they mourned her death As much As any other Soldier s parents who made that ultimate tragic sacrifice. It is so sad that her Mother will never bold a grandma by or her father take a grandson fishing. But perhaps it was better she never had children. For they too would have been slaughtered As they crossed that parking lot every dependent wife and husband thinks of the threat to our lives and to those of our children every single Day. To All those out there who arc Here in spite of that threat thank you for being Here with me because i get scared when take my kid to school. 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