European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 24, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday. October 24. 19b5 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers i have held on id this column for 15 years. I knew i d need it someday and that Day came a few weeks ago. It helped me make a sound decision that 1 would not have made with out your help. Please run this � f column again. Mil f a Lions of women need to Sec it. So when the time come for them to make a decision. They will make the right one. . In Arva thanks for letting me know. Her i dear Ann Landers who n my husband died four months ago. My daughter and son in us begged me to sell my Home and live with them. I was grief stricken and lonely and i said it was the biggest mistake of my life. My House is gone my furniture is gone and i m a guest in someone else s Home. My daughter does t want me to Cook and i feel in the my grandchildren Are ill mannered and disrespectful. To hear them talk i wonder How i could have Rived so Long and Learned so Little. I was once an Active useful person. Now i feel like a dried up. Useless old woman i gave up everything dear to me and i really did t have to. Please Tell other widows to stay where they Are even if it s a single room. At least it will be theirs. I wish i had. In Happy dear readers when hat column appeared in 1970, the Hook your aging parents by John Deedy had not been written. Too bad. It Speaks to that Point in a no nonsense manner. I hate Neter read an thing better on this subject. I am pleased to recommend it a second time. Write to Thomas Moore publishing co., 2z3 w. Trie Chi Cago in 60610. Send Cheek or Money order for s8. This includes postage and handling. Dear Ann Landers this is a letter to those experts who insist a child needs a father and should be forced to Vista with him even though the child s parents arc divorced. Think again when my were married dad was always beating us. Mom finally got a divorce. The psychiatric Counselor said my father had rights and should be allowed to visit us even though my mom told him the Man was violent and dangerous. My dad beat me up during one of those visits and irid to attack my sister. Sex. I think we Lold the Counselor. We were informed that dad would be Able to visit us after he had More therapy. We Don l want to see him anymore. Don t kids have rights plan dear Penn they certainly do. And those rights should be exercised. A father to is physically abusive Lor sexually Agar that v ode Lac officer Creed. Many fail to make in the spol corrections and Many refuse u exercise heir authority As a Leader. This Ian conic from the Lack of knowledge on Lum to make corrections and or the Leader is afraid to make the correction. How Many times have i seen a Leader turn away Frum a fault to making a correction 1 Many times is this the a we want our soldiers to Sec us. Being to Correct what is wrong i think uni f can go on and on. Many would a i want the promotion because it is Mure pay. True but the soldiers under you want a Leader who May one Day Lead them into Battle and their Confidence lies upon urn Are you going to fail them i i Hank not or shall i say. 1 Hope not. Here s a word to the Wise we need Good leaders to help build and retain an effective fighting Force. To obtain this we must develop our soldiers to become productive leaders and promote those with the desire and ability to become Good and better Lead ers. Let us not fail the ones who have the desire and not teach and train them As Welt As guide them on How to become an effective Leader. All of you just think Back a few or even Many years ago. Whom did you look up to. To give you the essential ingredients to be come a Soldier and graduate but and she says pit Bull s death unfair you rec Nelly printed an article in the stateside Sec Liim. But a 4-year-old girl Jessica sue Huhn from Oregon City who was attacked and killed by a chained pit Bull terrier the Dot owner Todd Kagler. Killed the dog As soon As he arrived Home. I love dogs and that was t a fair act although Jessica sue was killed it was the fault of her parents. Her Mother should have been careful and watched the child As she played. As for Todd Kapler he should never have another do. I m disgusted the dog was chained therefore it was t his fault. He was using self defense. If something fell from the sky onto you or near you what would of Doit scared he dog so As a result someone was killed. 1 cried because of that article ind i m 11 years old. 1 it needed to take in anger out on someone. Vah rii1 Helms / Heidelberg he disputes criticism of beards the stars and stripes contained a recent article entitled. Chief orders firemen to shave says beards cause death to avoid embarrassment. Chief George Hoflich should keep his Mouth shut on subjects that he does t understand. Clean neatly trimmed Beard fit Well with a variety of breathing masks. During a recent six year hitch with the Canadian Navy. I wore Chc mox a cd Respirator and fuel tank inspection masks with a Beard and despite heavy con Ait you probably a cd up to our Drill sergeant he or she wanted to place inc Best among the ranks of our forces 1 Misc Best soldiers Are Vou find now you Are nut upholding your part. You once proved that of could Fol Law and abide by inc rulers and regulations Why not do it now 1 i think that most in not know authority � is atonal with the rank or duty position. Are you afraid to exercise your authority if seek help through our Chain of com Mand for guidance. Somewhere in your Chain help available. At All Cost Don l underestimate the resources Brut he Chain can provide. A tote to leaders let us Leach the that look toward us for professional advice and guidance because one Day they arc expected to till our vacancies. Not to guide the potential leaders will deny our fighting forces 10 have a sound professional leadership Chain with experience. They will one Day be expected to Lead our soldiers into Battle. Stay Alcil and stay alive. If you can be seen you pm be killed. So Leach and train our soldiers right. Not to do this ii in itself a grave injustice to our country. Take a look at yourself and ask. What Type of Leader Ami am i Leader or soldiers or am i a Leader of pay checks give our forces an honest Day s work for an honest Day s pay. 1 charge All of you As leaders to respond by exercising your authority resources and implement a Good solid foundation in devel Oping our Young soldiers. Remember our soldiers Are Only As Good As we teach and train them. 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