European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 31, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 18 the stars and stripes tuesday december 31, 1985 a poolside Romance gels an Early Start. $55 seminar on How to flirt by Bob Springer associated press effectively he s definitely interested you knew i when his eye5 followed you As you moved rom one table to another in the dimly lit singles bar what next you could shrink like a Viou 1. Of Lurn up your nose and ignore him but. Says Liming is Tudor Joe o Rourke you obviously went out far the evening hoping o meet someone interest Rig so the prope mow Vova d be to stake up a convers lion my definition of lining is the irl and the act of getting to know the opposite says o route. 3 i. Who charges people $55 to teach them How to do this All i m saying when i say la Tinq is communications skills How to Start a conversation and keep it going we Don t stand up in Iron of everyone and practice winking o Rourke says of his classes. O Rourke is founder of Apo seminars of blooms ton Iii. Until about a year ago he was a full Lime restaurant manager in Bloomington and a Pam time instructor of seminars Lor professional and Industry groups on sharpening communications skills. When the restaurant changed hands he went into seminar work kill time. O route s meat and potatoes still is corporate work he said teaching executives and supervisors such things As How to be better managers or Holo More effectively motivate employees. Ii was his interest in teaching others How to communicate Elt clively not a desire to play cupid he said that led him to develop his three hour seminar everything you Ever wanted to know about a brochure promoting the seminar declares. If most of a looked Lor a Job the Way we took of a or ate. We would never get allot studying the subject Tor about nine months Reading More than 100 research reports books and articles in periodicals. O Rourke took his seminar on the Road in Illinois last month for some test marketing. He visited Peoria and then Chicago. I m no making any Money with it. But with some changes. I know f could he said. Women account for Aboul three quarters of his enrolment he said and the bulk of All those attending Are m heir late 20s to Rnid-30s. Pamic Ipanis learn How to gain self Confidence How to highlight their Best trails and what makes members of the opposite sex tick. They also talk about what most attracts and offends them in How members of the opposite sex dating. For example. O Rourke said an opening line women seem to universally detest re the classic. So you come Here often the opening phrase they seem to respond to Best is would you like to dance he said. The lines men seem most to like to hear Are. May i buy you Are drink or would you like to dance the course is basically Tor social situations such As singles bars and other Public places. He s currently developing another course for the workplace with just the opposite theme. His advice on flirting on the Job Don t do it. Today s crossword by Eugene Sheffer across 1 foun Jiin fare 6 part Ofa min. 8 offers 12 ancient country 13 i love i Jilin 14 indian15 vivid 17mi user Helen of Troy in no Rma 19 King of die fairies 21 customs 24 Ironi 25 Dis mounted 26 in Nili 30 Creek 31 tact Lessly liaslv32 Limp dec oration 33 kind of artisl35 Wallet fillers 36 kind office 37 speedily 38 Farmer s group 41 mature 42 hindu hero 43 artist s need 48 Dill Weed 49 hit cheap if 50 emanation 51 mean 52 ill you in myi dreams 53 it cancels Dele Down 1 Pouch 2 Woolri in Spain 3 ending for Van Orsan 4 love token5 secure Al Hird 7 settler 8 Havel opus 911 in i Road 10 Hird 11 John in Dublin e. Solution time 27 n a s e d 1 ,n,nes jeer 0. 1 a a a Tow Atn 12-31ans. To yesterday s Puzzle 16 naval officers a lir. 20 German composer21 artist Chagall 22 Hodge podge 23 it equals 100 dinars 24 under stand 26 divides into three pans 27 Home of Hollywood 28 Export org. 29 ascend 31 boast34 adorned to excess 35 Carmen and aida37 past 38 seize roughly 39 it of. Genus 40 Leon or cd 41 Lily Plant 44 be in debt 45 except 46 crude Metal 47 totem pole 12-31 Nubert what was \ he be Fob Mother herbs Awo Vaan who made a Muon air out of her husband. Trudy a Multi millionaire
