European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - June 24, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Tuesday. June 24. 19b6 the stars and stripes Page 17 Content to be single by Iris Krasnow United press inner National Janici Harayda Ain   and i Liki in lli.1t Way to author of Toof Al bom so Flo Doug Locay Sis 95 does i want to hair an groans Arioul a cog unmanned shr  Stop pulling your lilo on hold ind Start living in Wilh her guide to  travel partying Money management and of Rall survival 1 tie cnally. I went to this Hig Blackie dance Al a very Pooh hold  boasts Harayda. Who lives in Boston i yol ill dressed up Anil i thought 1 am going to this by Mascil i will probably he the Only be son Ilone and Mori i care the i Hill of the evening she Sirj Vas discovering no Civit Olner , a sir Jivu la  that society i1 qut Linch v. I a \ it Jun i.,ill tin dlr i Omarri Lurl Moid 3 anymore to Don t consider them up  the Ira rms a  who rails himself a  single i am Vay Happy to be ii Nolc i m Nul Deli Ritly my role i am tool Cal she says there Are a couple of men in her life Nghil now and yes. Shy s been very in love before but Ihme Days she does l immediately size up a Guy As husband potential during their first meeting 1 certainly 1 went through stages when by the end of the lies Date in my mind i would have my caterer booked Lor the wedding. I d Hove my new York times engagement announcement  says Harayda but the More comfortable i become wild myself the More i Don t care when her or not i get  she stresses ital she is no Way Anli marriage " but in a permanent Union did snarl up in her life she would prefer it on Parl time basis my Ideal would be to find a Man with whom i would be committed with whom i would not have to live with Lull time my role models Are Simone de 9eauvoir and Jean Paul Sartre they had a 40 year Romance out never lived together they Neve got married never had children they d live in hotels she on one Moor he on another after their hotel phase they lived around the Comer from each other in pans " having children a reason Many women her age Are scouting husbands Isnoel a concern to Harayda  have a lol of children in my life i Leach a sunday school class. I have Little cousins and my Lirosi godchild will be bom soon " men who Are turned of when she cells them she is Happy being unattached probably would make unsuitable partners anyway she claims i tend not to be attracted to men who want a very restricted kind of  says Harayda i am ally acted to the kind of Man who Doorn l necessarily want to be married my parents Tver divorced. So i never had a 1anlasjr marriage i wanted to replicate " raised roman Catholic in new Brunswick n j. Harayda says religion gels lop Billing in her life she is Active in an episcopal Church and finds her Faith enhances her spirit More than a partner could 1 Many people worship their partner and in the absence of marriage i think Hal religion can be All the More important explains Harayda i feel that whether or not i gel marked is nol All in my control therefore i Don t have to spend every waking moment worrying about in whereas i know single people who Don t believe in god and feel icy Are totally in control of their own de slimes " but she says finding a male in t entirely up to divine intervention sue also advocates advertising in the personal sections of magazines or newspapers Aglet one she placed in the Boson Phoenix brought a response from a Sweet funny lovable handsome Harvard educated  Stop putting your he on flow and Start living it Joyful single Janice Harayda. What you see is who you get by Rick Hampson associated press some of those warm Viv Docis women and dynamic Willy men ii onus who seek Eccli other s company Lor romps in in Surl walks in the  and Vino Al run to i May tic getting faces Tor $500,  York Magazine will fat my j Vinyl a Al Man s color head and shoulders photo in in classified pc Sonal advertisements us a courageous and progressive thing for single people to do said Karen o Neil. The weekly Magazine s classified and manager since the Magazine announced ils new service last month. To pc been inundated with Calls. She Sard but no one she admitted had yet come to few Yurk s office to Lake out a color photo personal o Neil said the Lour photo personals the Magazine had run to its last two issues were really pump priming people Magazine employees who did nol have to pay Tor the ads although they Are be ious about finding males the Lour whom o Neil declined to Idoni ily. Have been thrilled with their responses. She said these singles were Quick to capitalize on Inen unique advantage in the darwinian struggle Lor attention that s fought out each week on the Magazine s live pages of personals one a smiling 37-Yeaf-old play Nyhl actor Wilh dark hair and eyes Cap honed his and i was t always like this alter listing his Virtues to concluded you be already seen mine so please show me yours photo