European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - September 4, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday september 4, 1966 the stars and stripes Pago 11 Ann lancers dear Ann Landers i m a 24-year-old career woman. A year ago i started to see a Man at work. He was 2 years my senior but we got along very Well. We were talking about living together because i was at his place More than my own. It seemed foolish to pay rent on an apartment i rarely used Don died suddenly of a hem attack. He had no history of heart trouble. I was devastated. His family treated me Rotten. I was ignored completely and not allowed to help with the funeral arrangements. When the family went through his personal belongings Many items were ours because we bought them together i told them 1 was entitled to certain things because i was half owner. His brother asked where Are the papers lady they would not even let me have the presents i had Given Don because 1 had no receipts. 1 am writing to advise others who May be in a Simi Lar situation. 1 wish someone had tipped me off. Be sure to have something in writing to prove you Are a part owner of certain objects. Also i m sure Don would have left me some Money in Hii will but he did t expect to die so suddenly. Nobody does. Come to think of it i did t put anything in my will to  vide for him and i should have this it my Story Ann. I Hope you Prim it older and Wiser in Waco dear Waco thank far he menage. It s Rood one. Nobody ukes to Tolna Boal deals but one of he Roll tip of life is u follows if Yon Don t have your affairs in order it i Mare than Likely hut the up f you would lout like to inherit Yon Money and posses Jons Wilt do so dear Ann Landers this is the busiest Lime Oflyn year for me but i had to drop you a line about a letter you printed recently complaining about today s youth and How disrespect Ful they Are. I have been a teacher and school Counselor for 30 Yean. Throughout my career i have observed that about s percent of the student population could be considered obnoxious and unfortunately they Are the ones who arc most noticed. The other 95 percent Are basically Normal kids who Are neither disruptive nor disrespectful. Enclosed is a quotation i would Lave to fee in your column. I m sure if you print it it will appear on thousands of bulletin boards across the country and in Canada. Thanks for your considerate . Dearborn Mich dts Der. It s an excellent quote glad you sent it on get the sensors out folks. Age old Wisdom from the Day your baby is Bam counselled the famous scholar Yon most Leach him to do thing children today love luxury too much they have detestable Man Ner float an shortly have no respect for their elders. They no longer i when their parents and Ruben Eata the room. What kind of awful creatures will they be when they grow up the scholar who wrote these words was Socrates. Dear Ann Landers. We Are devout catholics. Our son feels an obligation to become a priest because so few Young men Are choosing this vocation. Is this True what Are the facts Lacrosse la letters a Ujj pm a. Ltd in. In 1965 approximately 50,000 men were enrolled id Catholic seminaries. In 1985 the noun Kewa. 10,440. Wife Mother and Soldier wants respect after following some of the recent article on Mili tary life for couples families Etc., i d like to share some of my views and opinions on being a military wife and Navy Active duty female. I went through the whole process of being recruited processed in and Boot amp twice due to prior Mili tary service and was a striker to my present Rale. When i finally got to the Fleet i was very proud to say that t was a member of the . Military. I am very Good at my Job and enjoy what i do i am in the Dau processing Field and i be got a Little programming experience. Although i am very proud i was often made to feel otherwise. Military life is hard enough without having to be treated As if you were less than human. The surprising thing is that most of the harshness comes from other military people. On lop of that i feel that the woman in the military has it doubly hard she has the responsibility of her family As Well As the National Security on her shoulders. In retards to being in this position of responsibility especially toward my family i have encountered such altitudes As your family was not issued to  i feel that if i can t be responsible for my family How can t be trusted with being responsible for the nation s Saccu Rity another was if you Don t like it Here gel pregnant and get  such advice could make an impressionable Young woman ruin her life. Then there a life is Lough All  a True statement but pointless in As sisting an individual with personal matters. Although the military has a Standard for uniformity people Wilt always be individuals and thai must be taken into account. With the Many programs the military has dedicated 10 inc family i find it shocking that i am to treat my personal family matters with such Unimportance. I was once told that if we were in a combat situation i could t get time off to take my child to the clinic. This Staic mini seemed totally out of the Way considering my dependents would have been evacuated upon such an action. Concerning the statement about the military wife being the toughest Job in the military Well try the military wife Mother and Active duty member s shoes on for size. Of All the titles that i hold the most important ones have to be wife and Mother. You have to retire from the military one Day but you can never relive from being a wife and Mother. As a military woman i d like to leave you with this we Are not just soldiers sailors or Marina. We arc also wives and mothers. We Are hardworking Sensi Tive feminine Strong and responsible. We Are not asking for your sympathy just your respect we Are not Here because we have to be we Are Here because we Are needed and wanted to be. Petty officer 2.c. . Smith Rota Spain army s minority and smoking policy the following comments concern the latest policy in regard to smoking. In 1972 the army was interested in having Blacks women and Minon tics treated equally. So seminars were set up and All were required to attend. Apparently i fell Imo two of he above three categories women and minority however the minority that i occupied at that time was not recognized 1 was Aller Gic to tobacco smoke. Although 1 arrived Early and expressed my concern to the Leader the room was soon filled with a Blue Cloud. At the break i said i was leaving 1 could not afford an asthma attack because of the smoke. I was threat ened with a written reprimand and it was implied that i would lose my Job. After a hassle windows were opened and 1 was put in a Comer by a window although i am no longer a Dac teacher i read with interest the latest gyrations of the army in trying to regulate the life style of its employees. Hopefully no one gets a reprimand for being pan of a minority who does Doe nol smoke. Janet Haro Enley while Sulphur Springs . 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