European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - September 18, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday september 18, 1986 the stars and stripes Ann Landers dear Ann Landers a woman wrote to you recently and asked the proper Way to address a letter to a widow you replied. The widow of or. John Smith should be addressed the same As during his lifetime mrs. John Smith. A Good Way to remember this is to keep in min that your beloved husband May i have passed away but your name is his  1 Are you nuts Don t you real-1izc that some women feel Liber ated when a miserable marriage is terminated by the death of a poor excuse for a husband my old Man was As mean As a Rattlesnake. He used foul language runaround on me gambled and got into trouble with the Law. When he died shot by a husband who came Home Carly i fell As if a 10-ton weight had been lifted off my shoulders. And you Tell me 1 should keep his name you need a brain transplant lady. Freed in Alabama dear Ala i am amazed at the number of women who did t care Tor my advice. Here s another complaint dear Ann Landers Why should i be mrs. John Smith when the Only thing my husband Ever gave me was five kids 1 raised those kids alone and did a darned Good Job of in. Why should i be mrs. John anybody that worthless bum contributed nothing to my life or to the children s. I buried his name right along with him and it was Good riddance. Mary somebody dear Mary somebody Here s another one for your Side. Dear Ann Landers you must be caught in a time Warp. What s this crazy idea you have that the proper Way to address widow is mrs. John Doe Aren t you aware that a great Many women who have careers Art keeping their Maiden names these Days even after they have children?1 worked hard to achieve my own identity and i am not about to give it up for marriage or anything  and proud dear land of. Enough already. All Yon career women and wid own who had Lousy marriages can Call yourselves any thing you want 1 was merely informing a Reader of the proper etiquette. My apologies to All who were offended. Dear Ann Landers no twin has Ever become president of the United states nor have i Ever heard of a twin who was a Gratin Ventor or the Winner Ofa Nobel prize. Is this because the brain material must be divided Between two people and each twin has half As Many brains As he or she normally would have 1 am not a twin happily dear Hap Well i am a twin happily and to Lar As i know both Ray sister. Dear Abby and i Hare enough brains so that we Are Able to act along in the world even though we Horta t woo any Nobel prut. Dear Ann Landers i am a career woman in my 50s. 1 travel on my Job usually with younger employees and we often have dinner together. Lars a source of great embarrassment to be asked if 1 would like the senior citizen s  1 wanted a discount i would ask for it. Why Don t restaurants put up a notice saying senior citizen discount available to eligible parties who request in it bothers me terribly to be reminded that i look older than 1 am. Still feeling Young dear fee Ulnic Jerk would ask a Penon that presence of other. I i com Sla establishments that hire data line coat 21 2 8203x13. Smuro. I an Emo pm. Bum 102, Mam 210. Eur gab Apo 08132 Mutt Tutt. W4t-5779. Mojjis Tosi. Bremer Haven. Germany Jon i Poller. Of Haig Ico Turl saulc4hto. Apo to he Palm Bihms Lumel inh. B6sb,. M71-8itb2.  aerie it it Mckay but gag , Apo Boi 736. 090? i Elepnora to Gehann Mil 3226? Cus. Ets no tit tags a  Civ. 063 1 1 62104. My much of amt chum , blk Flag to. B St Lonhi 2ndfloor. Mclim cum. Soured. Apo ow07 Uptan a such m. 2sil 732. Etc Ito. 44o-73aj Munch of. Oss ibo Iboo. Huck Mao. Amund Tony Nymiah Silang 21. We i o. Dirbycwinvroi36m Hmann my Murp a Wal to. Its no. 4w rss or hunh mob do. Id 1 7i2s83. To tumult of Busti Din adm my Jauch own Bung Zoa Roan ii. Man Emu in Tea Apo o5i� Hun pud my 272u449, ets no 4304149 or of. 071 77t� , flesh to ilk Asa Boi 303. Fpo by 0921 my it mid Tho kit j. Al Nougier and Dumuk. Raf met Metui Apo &127 m do. Bull. Auto void Eib own a a Chuck Vii. Oast a to p of. Boi mobs. . 200hmoh1 Tota Phona pm Crumn  bran. W. Jb4, a b1i7, ets to. 9n-wi2 Brand Jval Ebia maj 1119. Etc to w4ijk  a Aem m Tan or Noa ets no. To Taa or tips. To 4imt. Kaim Huum he. Snug or Short. A. Too Himli t100 Etc to. 4b�-7100l mum. A. Domo or to 1 604, Iti off items my do. 71 Jim. My td01, Paw Mcmond it. Omi  nm1 Mai 4m. Bumvu Anim . To in am bans  common dv.ntmrguh47u no. Naury db3ej hbb3 it 20fc