European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 28, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wad Nasjay january 28, 1987 the stars and stripes Paga 11 ant Landers dear Ann Landers i Hope you can sind Reading one More Teller Aboul siblings who grow up hating each of her. Both my husband and t had parents who filled heir children against one another and made it impossible for i o be close. I Wai Delenn ined la Cornet Veness would never separate my own two children when they were growing up. When their adolescent squabbling turned mean spirited i stepped in and helped them learn How to Settle thing before they destroyed each other. Thil worked pretty Well until one Day when they were in their Early teem. They had been quarrelling and hurting each other Alt Day and 1 was sick of it. I became angry and blew my top. You must become belter friends i said because god willing you will both live a Long time. I will be gone and All tour teachers and Many of your friends will be gone there May be Only the two of you left and you will remember what you were like As children. Nobody else will remember the christmases you had the treehouse you built the Day you Learned to ride a Bike the fun you had trick Omrea Ting the teacher you loved m the third Grade and the Kittens who were born in the laundry. There will be Only the two of you and you had better love each other now because 60 Yeara from now Only you will remember All the wonderful experiences you share and those memories will be  they both became very quiet and i thought perhaps they were too Young to understand. But i must have made an impression because they have never squabble or ined to Hurt each after that. I wish my parents had explained to my sister and me 40 Yean ago that sibling rivalry is natural but Brothers and Sisters who Are not Good to each other lose something precious Lucille in St. Louis dear Lucille what Beautiful Sermon this ii one column 1 Hope will sett up an thousands of refrigerators and under Din Ner plates. Is. Another Way to nuke am Yon children will grow up to hate each other show favouritism and keep repeating Why Aren t you As smart As your brother or Ito err such remark Are guaranteed to create life Long animosity. If you want your children to lore each other teach them to reaped one another and to help each other succeed it s the Bull for True Friendship. Dear Ann Landers a number of people have shown me articles including yours on the benefits of breast reduction. These folks assume that since i have enormous breasts i must be in constant pain. Wrong i am proud of my 50-Inch bust and must Wear an of cup Bra to properly support my twin  i have never had a Day s discomfort and i cannot imagine my life any other Way. Besides what is under clothes is nobody s business. If anyone is uncomfortable around me that s their problem. The last thing i would do is to Tell another woman that she should Nave breast reduction. Since so Many people read your column Ann will you please print my letter and educate the Flea Braini a -m.t., Pennsylvania  Here i you Tetter but you cannot Peak for All Over endowed women. Many bad written to say their lives Wen Iber hell until they bad surgery. Their shoulder were Cut into by i Topi hat Felt like knives. The weight of their Breatt made them it Ted to altered. Good pot Ion Obj impossible and it Wai virtually unheard of to Bod Nimi that lit. One woman Blessing May be another woman s army policy on circumcision clarified my husband and i arc stationed in budding in Arm Strong Barracks. We had it Little boy this year. On saturday morning the doctor said he was going to circumcise our baby but a few hours later he said he was too Busy and monday was a Holiday. The doctor s attitude was we re Loo Busy and we re not going 10  my husband has called everyone possible and still nothing. We Don t feel this is fair. We want our son circumcised and Frankfurt Hospital won t do it. We feel if other parents like us complain enough they will re open the outpatient clinic and they will Start Circum Ising Little boys instead of doing them when they feel like it. In. Danne Carman be Slugen Germany editor s note col. John Parker surgical compliant 7th medical cored replies thank Yon for your letter. If i remember correctly you specific cast has been addressed in other command channels. However your letter give me an Opportunity to Andreu this subject to 1971, the committee on fetus and Newborn of the american pedlar la association concluded that there is no absolute medical indication for routine circumcision of Newborn males. This portion Wai endorsed by the american Academy of obstetrics and gynaecology and the american Academy of urology. Since 1971, there have been numerous article in the literature substantiating their conclusions. Circumcision of the male child has deep cultural and religious Root. Various attempts throng Hont the United states to discourse circumcision of the male child using education and training were largely unsuccessful. In that 80 percent of the people educated and trained specifically went on to have their children circumcised. Most recently third party insurance carriers have been reviewing Inglr policy on circumcision and May determine that this procedure is not a reimbursable in tical expense. Perhaps this thrust into the economic Arena will have a greater Impact on the cultural desires of Parent than Bai education and training. There is a growing number of physicians who refuse to perform circumcisions on the basis of this body of literature in certain areas of the Continental United Stales circumcision clinics that Are established Ai walk in facilities of Ute recognized Hospital have emerged offering outpatient circumcision for a fee try ing to capture the population of people who Tare had circumcision denied at the Hospital where the child was pen pals i to  lib Donl my dying it Clit Church Gofer. Cutt Spury pm. I fun Niton re a Morton it ii Healy we Mojo. I baft ton to win ind my my. I to i Towru Bur ind 1 Lent Roc � id ind Nawi pop Muile but i i a Nan suit i Rusc. I hot d Tot.  a Touk Mcmunn i would i to Cor Nipon Wutti of Tali a or on Wold. I in Iby notting my Reota in pts Fig iraqi ind wrung inn. Taring. Vhf inert tie Thurin Cir Phllip Pleil i Euld in to lip nov n Wert. I  Corot re. I unit Yun old ind in mounting no la lev bum poll my a nirm to our pm of m i a a Sruti old ind would Imming join on who in i u nun.  am rfcs sad in com Neil Undi Wibom your urn. You i in 17 Stirt of and a nor of Mcm Attr. Our M.T. up  Nobuta n gird Cooling. In mtg ind dining. Mfr delivered. The surgeon general United slates army the com Mander 7th medical come and our individual facility commander recognize the reality of the following items a. That the procedure dots Hart cultural and religious Root. That parental education and training against circumcision is largely unsuccessful. A Thal a physician who truly believes that he she should not perform the procedure because it is not medi Cally indicated has the ethical right not to do the proce Dure and should not be forced by any organization to do the procedure. This combined with the fact that we Serre families in Arm of the world with minimal alternatives available the following has been established As our position on  circumcisions will be performed at our centers if the following conditions exist 1 the child was born at one of our faculties. I the Parent have received education and training regarding the non medical indication for circumcision and still elect to have their male child diet unused on the basis of cultural religions or family beliefs. 3 that there h a physician on duty that b Creden daled during the Pott Eufery period and willing to per form the procedure 4 that the existing workload at that particular facility is such that the pm Miklau can take the time to perform the procedure safely without jeopardizing the Beall care delivered to other patient within the Hospi Tal. Unfortunately there Wilt Timea when All the adore do not not and a male child May be discharged from one of our faculties1 without the procedure Baring been performed. The Active Pool of physicians that will continue to perform  is rapidly decreasing. The reason for this is the education and training tint they an re be Irons in their medical schools internships and Resi Dency training. It is foreseeable in the not too Distant future that patients desiring to have their male child circus sued at birth when no medical or Lor Gucal Indi cation exists May ban a problem. Although hundreds of circumcision Are performed without in Cunt parents must keep in mind that there Are numerous recount of tragedies and even Dealba at a result of a drum Neslon that May not have been medically indicated. I strongly encourage prospective Parent to discuss this subject with their obstetrician during the prenatal period. Data h 7 on a not Erth Dic Mew Ali occur Toul. 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