European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - April 3, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday april 3, 1987 the stars and stripes Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i m in my Law 40s. Average in look personality income and divorced for 12 Yean. This summer i became involved in a serious relationship bin there arc a few things Elxnit the Man that bother me. When he wafts into the House he immediately Telli me about i Day but rarely asks me about mine. Three or Bur limes a week he has dinner at my it but he has yet to. Buy a bag of groceries when we go out for a Meathil is usually dutch. When we make love it s when he wants to and when i m not in the mood. Sexually he makes sure he is  even though t May not be Al frequently have to remind him that we Aren t through yet. We were planning a Spring wedding but he postponed it until late summer because of something that is important to him but not to me. Frustrated in Cleveland Dea Cleve do Yon want to spend the rett of your lire with nun who is t self entered Freeloader indifferent to your sexual need and insistent on Felting he Way when Here la a disagreement if so grab this any. Yon my Yon Are not getting any younger do Yon know anyone Turbo is there Are worse things ism being Lone and 1 predict if Yea marry this bom Yon an going to find out what they Are. Dear Ann Landers a Friend of mine was waiting for the Light to change when he was hit by a drunk woman in a Small 1974-75 car. She zoomed off into the night but my Friend caught up with her at a stoplight got out of his car and ordered her to move Over. The woman opened the door or her car and yelled co gel him. Her pit bulldog came roaring out ready to kill. My Friend was Able to jump Back into hit car and dam the door. The woman and the pit Bull no doubt Are still driving around Spokane. Pit bulldogs can be killers. Two Small children were ripped and chewed to death in Portland ore., last fall when a pit Bull wandered into the Yard. Those kids did t have Al Chance. Please Ann Tell your readers that a High Fence and a Chain Are not enough. A census of All pit bulls should be made and strict requirements put on the owners. Washington Reader Dew Reader i m expecting Newny Pettett front readers who will be telling me that their pit bulls Are gentle and Loving. That May be the Case but i would t bust one around Chil Dren. German Shepherd to too Hare been known to go a Little crazy and kill youngster. Meanwhile i Hope the Spokane police find the woman you wrote about and throw he Book at her. Dear Ann Landers 1 recently read of a roller coaster that went 100 Miles an hour. Is this possible i say no. My husband says yes. Find out please. Charlolle n, you re right the fastest roller coaster in the world is in cumene 111. It goes 66 Al Miles an hour. Many promoters exaggerate for commercial reasons. You be got the truth right Here. Dear Ann Lander please Tell the woman who wrote about being bored to death by a dinner partner who gave her an Organ recital that the Only thing worse than people who insist on talking about their operations Are tasteless clods who ask about yours grossed out in Mansfield Ohio dear crowed Well said. I m with Yon. Ramadan a bang Lowdon b or jul of tuft so Istah Raj Miil Landoni May Page 11 letters advice for weight gaining sex smokers i am writing you on a subject that is very Domi Nant in the military Toda smoking. The idea to have a smokeless army is one that i agree with. Smoking definitely impairs your health. It is also proven prevent weight gain Wall jell Ting. Keeping record of what and How much you to Wuth Cip to control food portion. When the Oren Coles Rurik pc reach Tor pm calorie healthy foods sock is Carrot Sticks fresh fruit slices Popcorn nod pref aels. Drink plenty r f a sods water and unsweetened fruit juice Are Best to Speed the elimination of in Corinie Eroin your system. Most important of i exercise. Aerobic exercise three to fir times week will not Only help with the tide effects of nicotine withdrawal but win also Bun off any extra calorie Yon May be taking to and improve to condition of Yoor Longs and be it. If after following All of these measures Yoi Ala More than Lew Pound of or Are dose to your a ctn Sittg table weight a ointment to to tilt to dietician at . In the meantime Yew can write to the american Luna association 1740 Broadway new York.  a for copy of the pamphlet Stop smoking stay  although Yon were unable to Benefit from in tins outlined above vow letter will enable Many others to quit smoking without gaining weight writer offers help to potential suicides i hear on the news that Young people in Many areas Are taking their own lives. It is a terrible waste and i want to help anyone who would consider this. I m in the military serving in Germany. This is one third of the Way around the world yet i feel there is something 1 could do. I am 29 years old single the sixth of eight children from a midwestern Rural area. My father was an Alco Holic and committed suicide when 1 was in High school. My oldest brother died in training to Pilot jets to fight in Vietnam. I have seen Many a Good person die too soon by his own hand. It a to Stop. 1 had my share of trouble with the Law with drugs with alcohol and with personal relationships. I discovered that i was an alcoholic four years ago. I Haven t had a drink since but my life has not been easy to Bear. I have tried to commit suicide three limes 1 believe that once i Oft Rcd my self sacrifice the temptation shall always remain. I know that this is the dilemma. Day by Day i have worked on this problem. Every outside abrasion in my life seems to feed the urge to do it when troubles seem to Load upon me i tend to suck it up or gut it out so to say. This however is not the answer. My problems became less Only when 1 chose to share my Little Odd feelings with others and accept their help rather than trying to do it All. I fortunately have the Beta of alcoholics Anonymous to share my woes with. There Are other organizations that can help. Please Don t try to make a social political or moral statement by taking your life. No one will Ever under stand or appreciate what it is you have to say. The Flowers will Wilt by your Tombstone and you will be remembered on occasion live dare to live. It May seem harder to do now but later you will see How your overcoming this dilemma will help others. I want you All to see the sparkle in the eyes of some one who has renewed life. That Power will drive you on to care More about yourself others and the world we live in. I feel that we Are people who god entrusted super caring ability to. 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