European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 3, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Sunday May 3, 1987 the stars and stripes Pago 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers the son of a dear Friend lost his handsome 16-year-old son when the teen Ager became intoxicated and run his car off a Bridge. The boy was Loo Young to buy liquor bul a swell Guy helped f him out. Several years ago you printed a letter thai described situation very much like this one 1 Hope you can find it and run it again. Sad in West a. Dear West Stu Here b the Fetter. Chunk you for asking. It la one that pm bar  ceo Enta person thu but too for what fan i its Witk Thea too stopped to a  Start. A Young Bud approx car to Yaw Tad anted if you Mold mate Purchase for him. He cured two fit parts of Beer. A tar mind that be we wider age Tod already had Beta refined by the manager. Ald Don t let the fact tint at to visibly Latex lated hotter yom. Being Sood it tried soul Yoa agreed to in Urr Hie parches of. I m sore you my pretty goof about doing such a kind deed. You ceo Crotts person helped till my brother. That Nice look Flag lid you Boott the beef for opened � fix pads and started to drink its soon at begot into Hisor. The manager of the stare called the police when be my you Lite the Young fellow the Beer and take Money from him. The most gift also took Down the number of the boy s License Btte. But the police got there too late. Three Stoa my the store where you bought the Beer for the Oke look los boy he passed Caroa the Hill and letters sales pitches on duty phones irk writer a thu it � terrific Gay and � Fine Tholt he had Many heeds. The oath at school said Darld had a real Mare. Now he s deed. Too Tod you weren t there when the police came to the lame Tad told mom and dad Tad me about their Deal you would hate Beta mighty proud  far hating played such to important part in the whole mod it s too bad the manager of the store a tent aha get your Leeatta Tater so you could Tare keen charged. Muyot next Titae � kid you to Hay Beer far him Yoa Wilt remember that you did a once and it oat Young a nil life. Yta also Lett wounds la the hearts of i jew Tutt and sister that will Oenar heal. A heartbroken girl dear Ann Landers i Nave been dating my brother s sex wife. They were divorced 15 Yean ago the same time my wife and i split the following year qty sex wife remarried and left town. My brother moved to the weit coast. Emma and 1 have dated off and on Ever since. Afew weeks ago she said she would like to get married. I am confused. Would it be wrong for me to marry her we Are in our Early 40s and All the children Are gone. My parents Are very fond of Emma and have never slopped treating her like a daughter. She has a sunny disposition and is the Type of person who gets along with everyone i d like to make a decision soon. Please let me know if it would be immoral to marry Ray brother s wife. No name in Medford Ore. Dear met i so re Awn Why Yon should not awry Emma it might ladle Yon feel better to know that this sort of thing Lumens quite frequently not Only with the broiler1 runner wife but with the liter s former bus of card. Happy Orange blossoms la Lorn Are Jim 7hm� Syfel Cut Creeton synd fcb every company first sergeant in Europe must wis that car salesmen who cull prospective customers on unit military phones during duty hours would drop dead. Company clerks spend hours looking up prospective buyers for these salesmen who Call Lime after time until the i either agrees to buy a car or rudely de mands thai the Salesman leave him alone is there some Way that these Calls can be controlled and possibly monitored i m certain that Many Mili tary phones must be Busy to Many qualified callers while a sales Pilch is being made to a military member who in t interested. Name withheld Sasbach Germany editor s note we received two replies to this letter. The first h from Cape. Brian w. Popken Public attain officer 5th signal card scroll excellent Points Are made in the letter. It is Correct that Crft Nunfat phone Knes an limited and legitimate Calif May be precluded by Tutti Thorbin Btu is Clif Ltd. Company clerks should Aba not be expected to spend their valuable time supporting this Typ of Coa Underdal business. Despite atm Cei with the ets system though it is still not practical to determine a adj a intent without picking of the phone. We can Tell where a Call Origi Nate Triada Otey. And hew Long it bub hot we Don know the Oiler s intent until we hear his Rake. The Sou Jan Lio with the individual. Commander supervisors and clerks must All Rei Illie that communications and human resources Are limited and Mast be con served. If a Call is unauthorized it should be termin Tedas quickly politely and efficiently As possible. Commercial solicitation can take place through com nor Del mail off Dory meeting or Over commercial phone lines. These Are alternatives that May bit offered to potential solicitors. Use of government resources. Including time an phone lines to support a commercial activity is unauthorized and should be reported to the commander we at 5lh signal come Are an Xii to help in this Effort an anyone with further questions should Contact his local Telephone control officer the second reply is from i Funtan a tin coming Nifa inns specialist office of inc Deputy chief of staff plans. Ill Usa Reijer this Type of problem hot Long plagued the Telephone Industry and is not Likely to go away. Many technical advances in recent years Hae provided Many ways of electronically monitoring and controlling Telephone traffic within the system. Today we can Tel where Calk originate or terminate How Fang the connection washed As Well Ai certain other data concerning inc Call. However there is no Cit Troi Over the human element and their use of the system particularly the Type of message or information passed. The problem alluded la in the original letter re Mains one of an administrative nature for the local commanders to address or of a personal Resolution by just saying not interested and hanging up the phone. Be More considerate laundry users told i would like to address a problem thai quite a Tew or us Haw especially if you Jive in government quarters. 1 wish that All you people who put your clothes in be washers and dryers would keep on Eye on them. There have been Many times my wire and i had to wait to do our laundry because someone put their clothes in the Washer and dryer then went to the Exchange or commissary or just did t bother to go Down and Check them. For example the other tiny i went Down to do three loads of Wain. Then were clothes in every one of the dryers. When i went Back Down to put my clothes in the dryer those same clothes were in the dryers and he dryer had Long since been done. 1 look this per son s clothes out of the dryers and folded them be cause i would t like it if anybody would just throw my clothes on top of the dryer to get wrinkled. When i went Down to get my clothes out of the dryers those same clothes were still there. It s because of inconsiderate people like that that the few who do keep an Eye on our Lundry can never seem to get in the laundry rooms. If you Are going to do your laundry Toni Giu be considerate of others who have to share that laundry room with you. Remove your clothes As soon As they arc finished. You people who do leave your clothes in for eternity arc probably the same ones who throw other pen pals i a nuts by much an to Oor respond with clout Type of people. 1 enjoy Mai  10 a ibo. 75 afcn.y., n.y.09140 1 Wouita thu id Lux Ftp Tritendi Leroid. 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