European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 6, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday May 6, 1987 the stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers let me Start by admitting f have a Tenden iry to spend Tattoo much Money on clothes shoes Conn elks and rids. Ljusi month i was depressed and went Over Board when the Bills arrived my husband yelled � loud 1 Psi Tore the Lei Gabon could hear every word. This morning my sister Tete phoned at 8 o clock and asked if i had read the paper. I said no Mia Nihma there Tomsett Uius ought to Tec she blurted out your hat band Bat an and in there saying he wid no longer be responsible for your i dam near fainted dead away. I an shamed to go to the Market f had in appoint ment at the Beauty shop for ibis noon and cancelled it. How will i be Able to show my face please Tell me Aon what do you think of a Man who would publicly humiliate Bis wife this Way Hurt in a dear Hart i my binding Roar in Baad Bat fee Mil ban been pretty desperate to go soft Lac. Maybe be Felt it Wes a Sand like i pm Are spender who boys Tolar to cheer . Get Aone cout Elbag and ton How to at tuft Uncle tar if Boot Gong Baa mus with tin aka inc cards. Dear Ann Landers the essay what is a Farmer s wife left a lot to be desired. All the members of my family Are Farmers. My Sis ters Funta and cousins drive tractors and do every thing their husbands do. Those who became widows did not. Suddenly become Fanner s they Corburt Ted to be Rumen just a they always had been. I woman can not be a Farmer. Here is pan of it Jam Farmer been one an my life. So Call me a Farmer Noi t Farmer s wife. Tobej Lough Tod Boe left their patterns on my band no one can Tell me this is not my ind. Lam Farmer not Farmer s wire. Mary h. In Buhl Idaho dear Mary Yog and he Duger Tram Illinois came through loud Aad dear. 1 heard plenty from women tar men to Iii Noii Iowa Nebraska Kansas Missouri South Dakota my Leaota Wisconsin and Pennsylvania but Yon said ii est. Dear Ann Landers my three children two sons and a daughter have always been a Joy to me. There was no trouble until Phil the older son separated from his wife last Yea Rand recently was divorced. They have four children two in their 20s and two Leen Acari Phil is now living with hit Airt Friend. I Tun Plano in an anniversary dinner for my younger Soa with All the grandchildren present la will be a family affair Wilh a few close friends. I love my exd a Gater in urn and want to include her. Phil jays he wid not come if i invite his sex wife. What should i do trouble in Manhattan Daut refer to one of Landers Basic principles it goes like taste if someone says i will not come to your party if Kaves us a tits a Terr. A an to go Ang a Tow Lym lab a hmm pm jilt i it pc or of tin am Whf letters distribution of cafes profits discussed with the chairmanship rotating Between the comptrollers of he army and air Forte on regular is in relation to he article saying reduced Afes prices mean a pay raise for military member. The writer almost made a perfect bulls Rye. Of course military members would prefer a pay in crease by reduced cafes Price until cafes makes no profit but we be never been Given that option have we the present system Calls for cafes to use half its profits for major construction. A Small percentage of military communities see these monies earmarked Lor themselves. The allotment for major construction in 1985 was is is million. Historically the services share the other half Wilh the army receiving 52 percent and the air Force 48 percent today the air Force distributes those proceeds to it communities. The army is not distributing its share directly to communities but is accumulating it share and investing it in our n 1985 they were credited Wilh having lost Millio Sjo their investment efforts with our mind you this takes place while we Are led lobe Lieve by cafes that your profits eventually come Back to your Community in proportion 10 the amount spent at your Exchange. I believe this is question needing an answer fro both Usa eur and our Exchange system in Europe. Name and location withheld editor s note we received two replies to this fatter. The tint b front col. Donald �. Gilbert vie Camu incr he cafes Europe you re apparently aware of cafes s twofold mis Sion providing Quality merchandise and services a uniformly Low prices. earning for the a Var funds of the army and air Force you any not be aware that the House armed sen ices committee Orenee exc Butje operations an that cafes is governed by Board of directors your question concerning options inra Vlna pay increases might Best be answered by directing the to Washington rather than to a apes Europe via the stars and stripes. Likewise your comments concern ing investments should be addressed to the depart ment of the army. The secant reply is from Joan Capetta. Cafes Coord Inayat. Human resource div. Office of the Deputy chief of staff personnel he via rear with in army s commitment to improving pro Grams for personnel and their families installation Are contrib Tang increasing amounts of heal Money Tasu port them. In fact a moneymaking activities of Lei pay fat that presided no Cost. The army leadership has confirmed the need for self sufficient operations and earmarked cafes dirt deals for non appropriated fund Nap major construction projects cafes dividends the Only unit of Nap Revenue at the he department of the Arm Terel an being used to improve buildings which Boas Community Ana family programs. While the array s share of cafes dividends arc Nan devoted to paying for Conart Icelon installations bit need Naf major contract sort also apply whatever Rands they have available. By bating the Insulat iacome up with some Money for Large capital expenditures there is larger base of of lids which can be used to non ale of facilities and talk my ones. Thus More Money is ave table to Man installations. To help expand local financial ability Cert Ali agreement with cafes Hare been made. As an example Burger King operations retain Money to installations on which they Are located. Another recently approved concept will allow installations in the United states to Benefit from own earned from pay Telephone use. Other innovative idea to support the generation of local laconic an under consideration. By restricting the use of cafes dividends the army has a safety net far the Benefit of the entire army family the rarer they May be stationed. Marine guards get vote of Confidence in my opinion our United states embassies an consulates should continue to have . Marines As their Security guard detachment. The marines on special duty at about 126 of the 230embassies and consulates overseas have quite an Awe some responsibility the Flemal Security of the respective posts. In san Salvador in october 1979, demonstrators attacked the embassy. Two Marine Security guards were wounded by gunfire but continued to secure an protect the embassy for 45 minutes until help arrived. In Islamabad november 1979, about 5,000 Paki Stani students and local people attacked the embassy. Dedicated and courageous Marine Security guards delayed the advances of the attackers for five hours Long enough for embassy employees to be evacuated Tor Sale area. One Marine Wax lolled. I Only a cloned two examples of marines perform ing beyond the Call of duty As part of a pent Security guard detachment. One should Isk Hir Seit How Many other incidents occur such As those that do not become Public knowledge i have been in the . Foreign service for nearly nine Yean with assignments overseas including Europe lie fir East South America and the Middle East the marines i know fit the traditional image of someone in the Marine corp Brave trustworthy Loyal and feel safer knowing that the marines Are their Post and if duty Calls would give their lives to protect mine. It would be a mistake to take away hat safety Security element for those of us employed at the .mission abroad a Emmet Schwa Frankfurt pen pals Al m my Tiomi induct Ruo my did pfc and of Altig Unn. 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