European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - August 8, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Anri Landers saturday augusts 19s7 the stars and stripes Page 11 letters dear Ann Landers i am a hard working respect Able 23-year-old woman from a Middle class family. Al the moment i am heartsick because of a vicious lie thai has been spread about me. Underwent minor surgery re a Metilly for lipped a Lenin. It re required one night in the has circulated the Story that i had in abortion. We restrict catholics and this lie is ruining my health and hurting my family. Will you please run once again that wonderful essay about gossip 1 Vecdi to be seen by a lot of people. Thank of in Advance. \ Worcester we Here h a we of la t j.1 essays i Haw pm pub Lilied. It h me that should be repealed periodically. Thank Lor a King. Nobody s Friendly name is gossip. I have no respect for Justice. T maim without till ing. I break hearts and ruin lives. I am cunning and malicious and gather strength with age the More i am quoted the More i am believed. I flourish at every level or society. My victim air helpless. They cannot protect them selves against me because i have no name and no face. To trick me Down i impossible. The harder you try the More elusive i become. I am nobody s mend. Once i tarnish a reputation it is never the same 1 topple governments and wreck marriages. I ruin Careen and cause sleepless nights heartache and indigestion. I spawn suspicion and generate grief. I make innocent people cry in their pillows. Even my name hisses. I am called gossip. Office gossip. Shop gossip. Party gossip. Telephone gossip. I nuke headlines and headaches. Before you repeat Astory Aik yourself is it True is it fair is it necessary i f a shut up. Dear Ann Landers i cant stand my Mother. Sometimes 1 think i Hatcher. Mam bos favorite children and grandchildren. The Only thing i cart remember about my childhood is the screaming and the pain when she washed my hair. If yelled she pulled harder. I always suspected that she put soap in my eyes on purpose now that i am married and have children of Myown the Calls me every Day. In every conversation she repeats tales about my Brothers and Sis Cra. Our family has always been very mixed up. All Ray Brothers have had extramarital affairs thai resulted in Oul of Wedlock children. My Sisters have been married and divorce several time. My husband jays i should quit going Over Lime 1 come Home i have a stomachache. I have these awful thoughts about Ber wishing she would die. Then i fed guilty became after All she u my Mother. Mow do i Beadle these conflicting feeling i feel anger and rage along with guilt. I also fed inadequate u if the trouble ii my fault. Please Tell me what to do. Ohio merry go round dear Ohio i Arft you to get in touch with a mental health prof to Taal trailed u Bailly therapy. Voa re tattered wit the a new flirting motions much too Long. Get going and Fao Dlutek. It a ant pm a syn Toti with All due respect to foreign countries recently i placed a Call to the he Safe protocol office seeking clarification of a policy. My question was Why do american service people Salute the ital Ian Flag during their National and heat i spoke to someone who was nothing leu than Plain rude. I was told by this person that it was out of respect for the italian Flag and thai if i did t like Italy Why Don t leave told him that i did t hate Italy but thai i did t feel i should be expected to Salute another country Flag. 1 was told that All the nato countries show the same respect and that i should read my pee manual. Well i quit Reading my pee manual after 23 years of successful and honorable military service. There Are Many others Here who feel the same As i do. I can show All due respect to another country becoming to attention when their Anthem is played but 1 will Salute Only one Flag and that s the one of the unit cd Stales of America i m sure that we have All recited he following i pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United slain of America and to the Republic for which it Roger d. Smith Brindle a Italy editor s note u. Col Edward n. Tronbert chief Media relation dision he Safe replies ice Aundrel few is. I italian Flag. It it raja4,1983, Page 10 " 4 foreign rags. When Yoa ire stationed in for eign Motry. You must show inc nine rested to the it country1 Flag and National Anthem that Yon show to your own. The hunk ii Tow Wren another country s National Ulsem is played during format ceremonies inthe United stain afm 50-u a i nut i will Clear no any confusion. Luk fi�i3ivn n i Arz Maiore the writer thai not Only it in appropriate no Litany people stationed in ital to Salute the hag required. I quote from afr 30-1 May Reader questions copter Rescue incident recently a 14-year-old Girt in Comfort Texas fell90 feet to her death while being hoisted up by a medal helicopter. She is just 10 feel Short of the copter. I question Why the Pilot was so High. It was probably because he Learned hoist Rescue operations at 100 feel. Remember the dramatic Rescue in the Potomac River the Pilot nearly had his skids in the water. Ideally 1 think that1 where you want to be As Low As possible. Judging from a front Page photo in the Stan an stripes Newi films and news articles the Pilot could have been much lower. If the Pilot needed to be that High then Why did t he hover tha Young girl Over to the held just above ground level instead of taking additional risks Wilh the victim. At least if she fell it Wouldhave Given her a second Chance. Hoist Rescue operations Are a risky business. In i prohibited by army regulations to train hoisting Wilh people i m not questioning the Pilot s ability. I Don t Nowall the facts and i m sure he will gel recognition far his actions however two questions remain on my was t in done at a lower Altitude Over water second if unable to Fly at a lower Altitude Why was the hovered at ground level to a Safe place she fell on dry ground to her death. Capt Mark Bosch Vicenza Italy sizing up the military shopping centers can you please Settle an argument Between me and Friend i claim that the biggest shopping Center . Mili tary is located in Mainz Kamel. However he claims it s in Stuttgart. Which of i ii Correct name withheld bad he Fem Germany editor s note la col Charlie whits Public affairs officer he cafes Europe replies although Yoo did t win the bet we think you should know shopping tenters an meet Trad by different Rani Sticks. Here Are some nets in Europe on respecting the Flag the recent letter from the writer on respecting the Fla made me feel the need to write on the subject also. One Day about two months ago in was raining a Little drizzle and my son and i were walking into Woodland the stanza sounded for the Retreat of our colors and Myson stopped and saluted in the direction of our Flag. We were about 10 fee from the Entrance to the door. I could t a Liev " y eyes about eight soldiers were Wail ing for Retreat to. Joish so they would t get wet. Maybe you thought it wat Loo much trouble to Render the proper Salute. You Guys know who you Are you thought in was Solute that my son was saluting the hag. Why did t you come Oul there and join him Heddin t understand Why you were still inside be his dad a taught him that s what soldiers do because they love their country and respect their Flag. My Ion did t gel All that wet he made me proud and by the Way he i Only 4 years old -cauiem.matthleibaamholder, Germany the largest hopping Center to include concessionaires and food activities. Is Stuttgart. 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