European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 31, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday october 31. 1997 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ash Lander dear Ann Landers when i read the letter in your column from cry baby in Bir who described herself As a crier she said she cried last week at the opening of a k mart1 knew i had to Send on this article by Andy siring. It appeared last year in the alumni news of Washington University in St. . There is so much interesting and new information in this article that i Hope you will share it with your readers. Cecilia g., White Bear Lake Minn. Dear Cefell i know of William Fry its work and ant pleased to print excerpts from the piece thank you for lending it on. Vav Isiura ferry ii i the director of the pay Cutry research laboratories at the St. Pant Ramsey medial Center. He h probity the world i Foremost authority on tears Tux has written Tel Mirely on the lobed. When his Mother asked him Tome question about tean he was studying for his doctorate at Case Western Rene University to the time lie Well in the Library in St Arr of answer. He was Aito nihed Al hit Little in formation could be found on the subject and decided to do mine research on it himself among us fading Are the following facts emotional ears Are chemically different from irritant lean conf Fng 10 percent higher Conlen Antioni of protein in the form of three chemical known to be related to stress. Sorrow is the most common cause of emotional tews followed by Joy anger sympathy anxiety and fear. Women on average cry lire times u often i men. The difference us prey is Only partly attributable to social conditioning. Research Taa shown that the Hor Mone Prau ctn which slim late lactation also stimulate the ten Scundi women Bate 60 percent More Gnu ctn in Iber blood the men do it is prey s theory that weeping is the body s Way of excreting mid stance produced by the body in response to so Sci. Dot he lays confirmation of his theory will have to Wall for the development of better measuring techniques. Frey who has to done research on Alz Heimer s disease. A the biochemistry of emotion u great unexplored Frontier of science. There is almost nothing known about that happens biochemically when humans an Nappy or sad or end of piece. This Ujj Ann talking. The Roost is Nat tag aspect of the subject to me at least. Is the closeness Between laughter and tears. The most wonderful feeling in the world is to laugh until you cry. This has happened to me very few limes in my life and it s an incredibly exhilarating experience. Dear Ann Landers i am writing in the Hope thai this letter will save even one child s life. Last night i left my 3-year-old daughter and 15-month-old-son in the bal Hlub far probably 30 seconds. In thai amount of Linc the baby slipped under the water. My 3-year-old s cries of mom hurry come Quick brought me racing to the bathroom. Please please be aware that an older child cannot be depended on to Waich a younger one no matter How responsible i thank the Good lord that my 3-year old sensed the danger and called me to come quickly. The nil Lime the phone rings or there is a Knock Al the door or there is some Oiher important reason to leave a child in the bal Hlub even momentarily will remember the frightening lesson 1 teamed last night and ignore the distraction. Nothing is so urgent that it can justify leaving a child in he Bathtub. Thankful in Miami dear Miami your letter of War fog could mean the difference be tween the life and death of a child. Thank you so much far sending it on. Reassignment policy upsets Soldier after 19 years in the service i Tecl that the army would do something to assist me but after several phone Calls to the department of the army in Alexan Dria va., i now know thai they wish to do nothing to help me anyway. 1 am six months out from a permanent Chance of station pcs move to the United slates conus. Since i will be retiring about 20 months a Flor my re turn to conus i thought there might be some Way 1 could have a title Choice of where i might be stationed. The first Call to a left me with a reply to Call Back eight months out. I was then 10 months out when i called at eight months i was told to Call six months out. After several attempts in the past week to reach the civilian who handles my military occupational specially mos. I finally reached the lady i was instructed to Call. 1 might add that each Lime i called it was a hassle since they did t want to take the time to talk to me this lady informed me that she could left me Noth ing that she can t Tell me what might be available that t should have known better than to Call six months Short and that i should t Call Back until i am 90-60 Day Short and Only if i did Noi have my orders. I would like to know Why a counterpart in the same mos As mine with a departure Dale of Jan. 8. 1988. Can know his assignment on the first of Augusi six months Oul and has already received his Alert notice and Welcome packet from the gaining unit. Why can a treat one e-7 one Way and another e-7 another Way Why can t icy give me an idea of Possi ble assignments and treat me with a Little More re Spect name withheld Stutt Gutt editor s note chief warrant officer , Taylor chief. Management actions Branch 1st person Nel Contd ill Usa heur replies while i cannot address the problems thai you seem to have encountered when talking to your Uig ments Branch Al ill a i can speak to the Tane of the status of your assignment instruction and in general How soldiers can let he a know their future assignment preference. Your assignment iras Isid cd by ill a on sent 17, which u almost six months prior to your March Date eligible for return from overseas deho5. Regarding the example cited both Yon and your counterpart received assignment inst colons approximately tax month before Deros. While Yon did Nat specify an assign ment preference in your letter your assignment is to fort Knox by. The army considers Many factors in determining sol Dier assignments and one of the first ii Soldier prefer ence. However the Large number of soldiers in our army makes it infeasible for every Soldier to personally con tact their assignment Branch to communicate their de sires. That is Why specific procedures hate been established in ensure that Soldier can Art this information to tic or assignment managers in sufficient time for it to be considered in the assignment process. Through the enlisted preference statement a form 2635 soldiers ran indicate their preferences for assignment locations schools and special duly. The form also contains remarks Section that soldiers Hwy use to indicate any personal considerations not covered elsewhere on the form. Usa eur soldiers should in Mil an updated prefer ence statement not later than 10 months before Deros. This allows ample time for the form to be received and processed by i a a before assignments Are issued. Personnel service Cen Len Are responsible for forwarding the preference statement to he a and will also assist soldiers in ensuring that it is properly completed. What to do with uniforms upon leaving am due 10 leave the service this month. Since i Don t have any Reserve obligation to fulfil Active or inactive intended to give my uniforms to a Soldier who could use them. When i mentioned this to my supervisor he said that when he left the service Here were certain issued items that tie was required to turn in or pay for them. Among those items was the Blu Field jacket All weather Black overcoat and dress uniform. Lie left the service is years ago i would like to know if there Are any items i need to turn in .11 my final out processing station in the Stales Jackie Konan bad Bibl Long Germany editor s note of. Thomson. Logistics management specialist. Office of the Deputy chief of staff Logi Silica he Usa eur replies pen pais 1 would hot pan part. I am 2fj Yetf of and l0vetqwlr i Annm Aqua Corn pp1 no of my ii oru vital i in 20 pairs of. I wot 4ha pan pals. I he Hung to. Yummy own ill. I Mia Lovid. Danc and a no. A cd b Aioo is Paul comma dum�9lkb t c to. A Tel a Wii fl501 i my 2t Yaw que and would Lik pan pm my Hobby pining tha guitar. Re Jung Nova arts i Welcome he Opportunity to assist von in obtaining information on disposition of your uniforms upon i ear ing the military. The regulation has changed since your supervisor kit the service six years ago. Active Ann personnel with More than three years of duty who Are discharged under honorable conditions May retain All clothing items in their Possession members discharged from Active Doty wll Hont re serve obligation May elect not to retain uniform item. This Means forfeiture of future clothing entitlement after discharge or separation from sen ice. I recommend you Check with your personnel officer to ensure that your Active duty time served actually exempts you from a Reserve . The differ ence in one Day served can make a difference As to your requirement to maintain your clothing for future obligations. W pack a of 0 att and around a world1. Atso Wiessen. 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