European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 12, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday november 12, 1987 the Star Sand stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Lander so Many parents i am no exception need help today with children who Tirc unruly in motive cd irresponsible Licking in common sense and a mingle intent on going in the wrong direct Ion. A while Back you printed something in your column that was extremely helpful i clipped it out and taped it to the inside of my Medicine Cabinet you will never know How Many times i have read that article and How much it helped. I Hope you can find it Ann. My clipping is shot and i am rot ready to give it up. Than so much. Mary in Wisconsin Darwis i found ii. Thank Tor asking. Here it it How to raise a Crook 1. Begin from infancy to gift the child everything he want. This Way he will grow of to believe that the world owes him a living. I. When he picks up bad word laugh Al him. It will ene Orege him to pick up enter phrases that wiil blow the lop off your head later. 3. Never give hint any spiritual training. Wail until he la 21 and then let him decide Tor himself. 4. Avoid the use of the word wrong it May develop Hullt Complex. This will condition him to believe later when be k arrested far stealing a or that society against him and he is being persecuted 5. Pick of anything he leaves lying around books shoes clothing. Do everything for him m he will be experienced in throwing the responsibility onto others. 6. Let him read any printed matter he can get his hand on. Silverware and drinking glasses we sterilized Tut let hit mind feed on garbage. 7. Quarrel frequently in the presence of the children. Then they won t be too shocked when the Home is Bro Ken of r. Care the child ill he spending Money he wants. Never let him earn his own. Why should he have things As rough As you had them 9, satisfy his every craving for food drink hid com fort Sec that every desire is gratified. Denial May Lead to harmful frustrations. 10. Take he part again the neighbors teachers and policemen. They an All prejudiced against your child. I1. When he gets into real trouble apologia for your Milf a her saying. I never could do anything with him 12. Prepare for a life at grief because Yon Are sore to bar it. From the presbyterian journal dear Ann Landers i am an in year old High school senior i guess you might Call my problem jealousy. I have two male cousins. I m a Guy. I forgot to Tell you that Greg is 15 and Roger is 16,1 saw them a few Days ago for the first Lime in three years and was sur prised that they both have very hairy chests. I have hardly anything growing. Roger even has some hair on hit Back. 1 am very depressed. What can i do to Over come in the feelings of inferiority out of it in Oklahoma dear Oke Yoo can Tell yourself that Lulu has nothing to do with Beta mute or became id True. A wimp can look like a of prick Aad super Guy on be As hairless a Coho. Lea. Now h a Good time to accept the fact that it s hair today and gone tomorrow let Anotle to syndic Cokin Volm Landart Wilcon tuft your if Teri you an Otto b he in at a the Sun my Nten. To 09ji1, . Pleasant memories of visit to Germany we recently returned from visiting our son at bad kissing in. Germany. This is to say thanks to All the Good people there military and civilian German and american who helped make our seven week slay such a pleasant experience. While we were in b.k., you ran an article by some one who was about to leave Germany after an extended stay. He detailed in a Narv Clousy humorous Way All the things he was not going to miss. We appreciated his wry Point of View. However after our seven week stay we found a lol of things that we were going to miss perhaps there arc others who can identify with our list we will miss the lightly packed Little villages with their half timbered houses and Orange red Lilc peaked roofs thai Pepper the landscape. The swept Barc and clean cobblestones streets that Angle into the marketplaces where no cars Are allowed during business hours the flaming Multi coloured Flowers that spill like ruffled petticoats Over windowsills and balconies. The balconies themselves every size and shape constructed of Stone Wood or wrought Iron that add a delightful third dimensional effect to Homes and Busi Ness establishments the jutting dormers that Peep out from almost every roof. The while curtained Large windows with the convenient oversized handles that open them in two directions. The entrancing criss crossed lattice Wood fences that barely conceal the tiny gardens of vegetables fruit and Flowers tucked into every conceivable Corner. The Lovely Patchwork quilt farms on the horizons and the Green grape Orchards marching up the Hills like soldiers in formation. The churches and cathedrals tiny and Gargantuan with their onion domes and Needle like steeples Pierc ing the skies. The carefully executed nature walks by Rivers and streams up Hill and Down Dale in clean forests and across quiet Meadows. The enchanting Castle ruins with their dungeons turrets and towers. The walled Renaissance cities with i hair Fountain statues gothic churches and storied cily hulls. The Homey guest houses where we enjoyed Bavari an style cooking Mineral water and German Beer scenes and buildings Are no All that we shall miss there arc people we shall miss also. The elderly German retired military Man who walked his pekingese Cadi Day and who went out of his Way to be cordial. The shoe store lady who understood so compassionately How difficult it was for the american youth to be far from Home. The cleaning woman a cheerful whirlwind of efficiency. The Border guards we met in the Woods As we were watching the East germans build yet another Wall who tool the time and trouble with their limited English to explain the advantages of living in West Ger Many to us with our even More i limited German. The police Tail blonde handsome and courteous who helped when we were lost in a walled City. My husband Hospital friends doctors nurses staff and other patients who made his one week stay an altogether memorable time. The ambulance Driver Liaison Between the . Army base and St. Elizabeth s Hospital and the German red Cross representative who went beyond the Call of duty in their assistance. And of course we will miss the b.1c base squeezed into picture postcard Lovely bad Kissinger with its magnificent Rosengarten its cobbles one plates and its wonderful fresh loved and fresh smelling Ries we will miss our courteous military men in their Jungle Camos and Black combat boots with their peaked Caps sitting jauntily on their Oilie North hair cuts. We appreciate More fully now their quiet contribution Lothe cause of peace in Europe. Our bavarian bad kissing in experience will forever a etched on our memories As one of the most Reward ing interludes in our lives. Thanks again everybody who helped to make it that. We Wil miss Youl Marian and William Hocking Mesa Ariz. In Low s theft of spoon upsets military wife last summer my in Laws came to visit us in Ger Many for 23 Days. We travelled All Over Germany with them. They decided they would like to go to Austria and Switzerland. It was late in the afternoon when my father in Law said he would Tike to have supper in Switzerland in a Gasthaus. We found an excellent place. The food was fantastic. When the Cuffee was served with a Small spoon my father in Law made the comment thai he would like to take that spoon with him. My husband and i immediately said no. We left the Gasthaus and continued on our Way Home to Germany my children eventually needed to Stop which we did Al a Par Platz. My father in Law then mentioned that he took the spoon. I was appalled. 1 told him it s americans like him that give honest americans like us a harder Lime in Europe. I tried to splain to my father in Law that had he been caught stealing the spoon his son would have to suffer the consequences because he is responsible for his family members Here in Europe. My father in Law argued that he would not gel into any i rouble. 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