European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 13, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday november 13. 19b7 the stars and strikes Page 11 Anh Landers dear Ann Landers i agree wholeheartedly Wilh your advice to the 22 year old woman who wondered if Ibe should marry or stable solid and  like Many other Young people the ii scared to death of aids and figures it it _ Loo risky to sleep around � she is lowering her expectations and getting out of the rat race. I married or stable. Solid and Dull 40 years ago and there Wai no aids around in those Days. 1 was looking Tor Security and i found it. Bui i Law cheated myself out of the Best things in life and have regretted it Ever Tince. 1 miss deep and meaningful love and the Rich and rewarding sex life that comes from True compatibility when minds and hearts meet. 1 miss my fascinating friends. They were bored by my husband s limited interests and self cd tiered talk and they dropped us i never travelled to the places i dreamed of in my youth be cause my husband had no curiosity about other Cul Tures and he refused to go to countries where the plumbing was t Modem. My marriage has been the Ball and Chain i have dragged around for nearly half a Century. I Learned too late Ihil the woman who settles for a Nice Dull Guy May be Safe and secure but if the has a last for life she will die a thousand deaths and ache for All the wonder Ful things she missed. Sign me been there in Michigan Der Michigan hunk you for a brutally Frank letter. 1 feel a for Yon but even sadder for yom Bash Ana. A Soraia who feels As Yon do Wotli hive to be the Mortti Bell actress to bide her  from her mite. A Man who ii stable and solid thong doll cant be ill bad. Write gain when Yot fre feeling better about life wed Tett rot about Trie Good thing. Dear Ann Landers our 21-year-old daughter returned a Lovely Diamond ring and broke her three month engagement to a 23 year old Man knowing that lovers quarrel and make up we did t suggest that she dose the joint savings account they opened alter an engagement party. They received at Moil 1 1. 000 in Cash. Two weeks later we received a notice from the Bank informing Sithat the account Wai overdrawn by 1 8 cents. My daughter went to the Bank to find out How the withdrawal came about and was told that although two signatures Are required to open a joint eco sort Only one signature is necessary Lor a withdrawal. The account was set up for or. Or ms.," not or. And  the Bank informed her that this is the Standard proce Dure for setting up joint accounts. Now we Art in the uncomfortable position of return ing Money gifts we no longer possess. My daughter is sending Back All he wedding presents which is a tremendous amount of work and a big expense. Her sex Fiance has told her that he feels he is entitled to keep toe Money he took out of the Bank because she humiliated him by breaking the engagement and that the should nuke it up out of town pocket. Our daughter has Learned a hard lesson at in Early age. What advice would you give newly engaged Cou Ples to help avoid this sad situation disillusioned in Delray Dar Detry Banka old it up joint Taviga accounts that cannot be touched Whit the slant Era of Bolh depositor. That s the kind your drag Ter and the Hake should Bare had. A riddance to him. Legs require that  pay for food eaten i would love to get the real truth about this matter. I am employed in a mess my in Germany As a . We just had a to called staff meeting today. The meet ing lasted about 20 minutes and it was about  eating without paying for their meal if we Are caught eating without our name being on the head count Sheet or. Will be written up. Why Why must we pay for the food hat is being taken off the serving line after the meal time is Over 1 mean the Cooks at that Lime Are getting ready to put the leftover food in the Stop cans for he animals. The  Are realty running behind the can with the leftover food that will be put in the Slop cans. It s not thai we can t afford xi.55 but it s the Prin Ciple. When in s food that someone can eat and we have Many starving in this world my question is Why must the  pay for leftover meals when it s going to be thrown away remember we Are taxpayers also. 1. Do you think it s right for a . Worker to pay $1.55 if he or she wants Only one thing from the leftover food thai is on its Way to be put m the Slop can 2.1 know that everything needs to be accounted for. What about the food a Cook Burns up and has to throw away is this accounted for too name withheld Fuerth Germany editor s note chief warrant officer wll lion h. Etna food service technician office of Lite depot chief of staff logistics a a la eur re plies Thia responds to your question As to Why dining a duty cute adapt must pay Tor Mats coma med in army dining Fadl ties. Depart Mere of defense manuals and array regulations require individuals to reimburse the for meals consumed. There Are no provi Sions for giving away food except under emergency condition. Meals conjoined As part of your work Day do no come inf e emergency do Ulieru the Sab silence accounting system further stipulates that All food Musl be accounted for regardless of whether 11 i discarded or consumed. A signature must be received in addition to payment for meal Talon. In this Way the potential for waste fraud and abase is lessened. Any violation of the procedures Conet Lulles misappropriation of government property and to again the Law. Even Ihn ngh sorts of the items you eat will be Dis carded at the end of the meal period they Are considered consumable and the pro Cedona cited above apply. Al though May appear that an food taken from the hit. Ing line is thrown away this is not the Case. Some food can be refrigerated and used daring the next meal food destined for the garbage can which u nol fit for Hanu consumption Mast not be eaten by anyone. Your dining facility manager determines what is consumable thus ensuring thai the Quality of food Yon receive to the Sarne As that of other diners. Regardless of the disposition of food taken from a setting line discarded or sired. It nest be account for. If Ealen then signatures Are required. If thrown away or saved As leftovers then the amount Broil if annotated on the dining facility account farms. Current array dining facility operating  do not permit partial payment of Meak. In other word All diners must pay the fall meal Cost regardless of the amount of food taken. Lastly the food that is discarded became ii is unpalatable a Cook adds too much sail a bump an item n accounted for. Again All food either consumed Dij carded or saved As a leftover most be accounted for on the appropriate documents. Amerika lauded for its picture of . Font him syn calf cot until Lander Miconi roof Unita Morfe of a to swi and Sii i Apo 09111, us. I am writing in response to the writer who sees amerika and americans responses to it As Indica Tive of the moral degeneration of our nation. I know that there Art those in your readership who might reject the writer s belief that a television mini series can say anything profound about our society other than we should not buy the higher priced spread especially when the mini series in question was produced by Abc the network that gave us the illustrated disco news and the wigs and Wisdom of Howard  Well i disagree. 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