European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 24, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Sunday january 24,1988 the stars and stripes Page 11 Arin Landers dear Ann Landers now hat the football season is Over should t a som King to the coach my son was pm the High school football learn. Rob started w predict in mid August and showed up every weekday and several saturdays until the season ended his team was undefeated. The coach played Rob less than five minutes he entire sea Olson. When the score was 33-6 in f. Their favor in the Insl Quarter my son cd if he was gome to be put in. The coach said the score is Loo close. We can t to acc the Rob would not id me say anything during the sea ton but Row int the games arc Over 1 want to ask the coach Why he did t play my son. I realize that it is important to win hut the coaches should consider he feelings of these v ids who work so hard. What do you say Ann Landers Bench Sitter s mom in Cleveland dear mum t was just about to say if you Nan to nuke your son Unolt like a wimp run a the Couch and it then dawned on me thai we have one of the coun try s most spectacular coaches right Here to Chicago and i ought to ask him u speak to Iii problem. So i tuned your litter Over to Mike Fltka of the Chicago bears. Lien is Bis limn dear mom yes you should say something to the coach. After All. Coaches arc just people and they make mistakes. The purpose of sports is to develop the competitive spirit teach discipline and be the very Best we can be. A Good Coath lets his players know that their contributions whether great or Small arc important to the Overall Success of the least and they arc appreciated. I Don t know the particulars of this situation but 1 would Lay that any coach who does t show loyally to every one of his players has no right to expect loyalty in return. I Hope i have been helpful. Mike d1tka dear Ann Landers i am a single male who looks Forward to being mar ried and having a family. I understand from rending your column that you arc opposed to letting children sleep with a Parent of the opposite sex. 1 am the favorite i listen to my nieces and nephews and treat Ihm with respect. What should i a when a Little a year old sleep Over guest sneaks into my bed at night i remember when i was a child i would have loved the Chance to sleep with a Parent from Lime to Lime but it was never allowed. Unfortunately i come from a Long line of cold fish who raised children like crops. I Don t want to Sec this kind of isolation continued for another Banc Rainn. I await your reply. Concerned in Milwaukee dear Milwaukee i that Little 5-i far old a boy or a girl if it s a boy and you bait absolutely no funny Socle tendencies i Nyok but a girl of any it Din not belong in your grander any circumstances. Dear Ann Landers 1 have an aunt in Bismarck. N.d., who is a bit Dolly. She has sent me a birthday card every Jan. 10 since 1975. My birthday is june 12. Shall 1 Tell hw7 every ctr i swear i will then 1 Chicken out. Help me. Wiki a. Wis. Mar reply to inconsistencies claim i have worked for or with mar activities for nine years. During this time i have observed general inconsistencies of fiscal policy and Lack of fiscal direction. There is a cover up afoot Many mar activities crafts theater Bowling and clubs ire now being asked to generate enough income to be Tajc sufi Mienl while the command demands support of activities that generate no income mar programs such As crafts theater Bowling and clubs an mostly non appropriated fund supported activities. That a they generate the funds to staff and Supply their activity. Over and Over again these activities Are asked to donate Lime and personnel without compensation for example Al fest appropriated Lund personnel arc used to staff Booths and provide direction to generate Naf dollars. Appropriated fund arc used to Supply paper product 10 decorate Booths and distribute food. When the activity does in weekly profit and loss statement How does it show that All of its personnel ply account supported the Fesl do you believe they buy All the army Green tape with Naf dollars this Hai been going on for years. A More recent example u called the Energy this Buck was Given to Community members for Sav ing Energy during Energy week. How will the mar activity be compensated for giving dollars Ofton bowl ing theater and drinks will their income statement reflect Energy dollars used at the activity these arc just two of Many examples of fiscal irresponsibility. Commanders Wake up. You cannot Gen Erate Naf Money while asking your activities to sup port yours with of resources. Some kind of compensation must be made Orn fiscal criteria changed. Just because it is not politically advantageous to ask for a change in the Naf fiscal policy it does t give you the right to cover up the need with of resources. Name and location withheld editor s note Nancy True chief operations division u5areur Community and family support Agency Reolle the issues that you Bare cited Are conf sent to Many n Ibe mar Ena so we an Happy to Hute the Opportunity la clarify some of them. Volunteer to someone who donates time outside of regu Lar duty hours or tikes annul lean or leave without pay to do to. Muty people Are Happy to role Leer because the Fesl itself is Community morale Booster. People enjoy working for m common cause helping the Eoanu Milr yid people enjoy suing to the test for Good time. Furthermore tie Money generated goes Back into he Community in help maintain program Owney in neifing or not bit May be lost without hut support. Consequently Volk Sinla me entitled to a certain mount of fund support. Certain expenditures like repair and maintenance and utilities Are fully authoring in Wen like Europe. For example electricity on Post is paid for with appropriated Hinds and the fell requires certain amount in order to Fane Tataru this is an allowable expense. The use however of on duly fund employee with the exception or those authorized in the a 115 Serin for executive command my control functions b t questionable practice. Since the writer did not cite a example it is difficult for us to Marlc any further comments on the specifics of the situation on the other Hind the use of non appropriated fund employees is authorised. Lei s use your specific example the Fesl. Granted the employee manager is paying i employees in work at the fast instead if in their regular positions. And granted the Money generated at the feat will not go dlr Eetla Back la that activity Lowener. That Money run crawled from the it i resumed to the Community fund this is the one fund concept whereby ill of the Money is put in a single fund find in then used where ii i needed. Al the commander discretion this Money May ten to the club the child care Center the crafts Center or to any other mar facility or it May be divided up among All of them. The statement that the personnel work at the fast to generate no Revenue for the income prod Clit activity therefore is technically incorrect. All of that activity s income goes into the one fund anyway m working the fell is an indirect Way Al sup porting he activity. In addition please keep in mind that it is up to the Community commander to decide How the use of non appropriated fund personnel for the test should be recorded in your financial statement. In some communities Tim Tleiji Are allowed to charge Ihil labor Cost against the let. Thin i something that in predetermine by the commander and his mar shift during the planning stages. Similarly How you ran Best receive credit for Energy Bucks spent in your activity is a mutter fur your commander to lok Al. He or she is the one who de cides1 How financial statements will reflect such joint promotional ventures. Whether you show Energy Dol Lars on year record Relve direct reimbursement or int some other method the Energy Bucks program itself sounds Tike a Rood Way to promote both Energy Ohauer Antian and mar Adit Tiki. If i q have further question we urge you to Contact the assistant director fur Community and family activities and Cha or the director of personnel and Community activities Dupca in your Community. Pen pals a lighten up. No harm done. Why Embarrass the Lour woman i pc Turtur t o w31i u 5 3fjvricjvwa Ctatiwiawpnom-ut1 it Jiw pm my Fin. I Wynn if to hymn my Hob tort , a flip cot Iii Png Futura. Athi Vii t Xvi c t hmm Mth i an. Up a of Vanhit of Zhav Ihn 17vnv�on. I end. Us Wpm re Vang St Ernst omit a 1 to add i to to Kiln � Rcv it Al a a a. 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