European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - March 3, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Arm Landers the stars and stripes Page 11 letters Idear Ann Landers have three questions that have always puzzled me. Can your cd pm help Here goes to it possible for someone to live to the Ripe ape or 90 or 100 without Ever having been sick often when these people Are interviewed they say something like i was never sick a Day in my life or i be never had so much As i headache or a acc they fibbing or arc the just thinking in terms or major Hospital visits i have never known anyone who has never been sick. And speaking or colds is it possible to have a slight cold All my colds have been horrible Juicy affairs yet i hear people say they have a Little cold. And finally Why is it thai some Days a person Wales up reeling Blue even when hints arc going Well other limes a person might Wake up feeling up and Happy though things Are not particularly great. What s at work Here does it have something to do with the stage of sleep we Wake up in or tic kind of dreams we had Orother factors such As Tutt blood sugar level i Hope these questions Don t sound foolish. Give it your Best shot. Annie. Intrigued in Norfolk a. Dear Norfolk most Likely those 90 and Ido year Olds you read about in the paper who claim they be never been sick a by in their met actual Bill air 11 because they have never had an incapacitating illness. Aug people experience discomfort differently. Some individuals will ignore a mild headache backache stomachache or Toothache while others Wilt fake to heir Beds. Yes in is possible id Hai a slight cold. Actually Tome folks Sot Able to Previn a cold from becoming full blown by Laki it a fifty dose of Vitamin a drinking a lot of fruit juices and hoi Lea and gelling a Good Day s rest. Hie slight cold was the beginning of a bad cold thai his nipped in the Inid. As fur Why same people Wake up feeling Lousy when life is great and Greet i morning pc Ollna terrific when life i awful it could be n matter of indigestion blood sugar a Good or bad dream or some chemistry of the bin that we know Iery Little about. Ain t life mysterious dear Ann Landers i need some advice in order id avoid a family prob Lem. In the last few weeks my husband s Stepfather has been referring to himself As grandpa to our 6 month old son. I find this inappropriate. Bath real grandfathers Call themselves grandpa and 1 feel they alone have this privilege. I Don t feel any affection for this Man who has always chosen to stay on the sidelines up to now. I feel Bobby should Call him by his first name just As we have always done. This is especially important to me because our son does not see his real grandfathers As much As he docs this Man. We live a few hours away i Don t want the child to get confused. If i personally fell affection for this nun it would be different but i Don l. Help me please. He moved just i i minutes away from us six months ago. Rockland. Maine dear Rock sorry 1 can t support Zuur position your child May bring out the repressed ability in this Man to show affection. So what if the boy Calls him grandpa this is used As a term of endearment by Many people who Aren t ruled As i m it everybody profits. Pm Uffit tinn six Fisl. Chi Imp Ltd it Keno you limn you can View to to n taut at 1ha Ljra and Stream jew w21 f. U 5fwut Reader shocked by Lack of a dress code i have a few questions to ask both genders serving in the military. First off i find there is no such thing As a dress code in Europe. I am shocked 1 spend a lot of time correcting soldiers. I ask the females does your Noo let you dres like this 1 get sergeant they have never said anything afoul my uniform As you look at her skirt hemmed Way above the Knees ear rings completely Oul far 670-1. Miles have every kind of hair style you can imagine. Where has the leadership gone it u jul about where 1 think it has gone to. Cos do the same thing chains hanging out. Some of them need id Correct themselves before correcting a Soldier. How Many of you Correct your female soldiers in their dress i find that so Many of the male cos or officers would rather walk by than say anything. I speak of the skin length Earr inra hair and Overall Slove Liness of tic wearers of the uniform. Can we read a 670-1 or do we not care look at the makeup do inc commanders not have a sop of what they will consider is in Good Lasic if so icy need to Abid by it. As for male soldiers go to inc Exchange or commissary and take a look at the tank tops and shorts that would never be allowed in the United Stales. Shorts would have a six Inch ins Carn Orthy would not be allowed. I recall Back in inc Early 60s when a female was not allowed out of the Squadron area with rollers in her hair wearing shorn you could Vrtar snorts and to shirts As Long As you were on your Way to inc gym or softball Fiel without a Bra you wore one or else you were out when you went out you looked and acted Tike a lady or your Days in the air Force were numbered. Also the garbage Mouths a female did not have to tolerate any male swearing around her. If she turned him in god help him. Today the percentage of the for Nan who have Mouths thai 1 would not eat with is enormous. They Don t care who hears them or what they say or to whom they say it and nothing is done. 1 was told by a firs sergeant female when 1 first came in that a woman gets out of the Woods what she throws in. Bottom line is no Mailer where a female Soldier is stationed. I Don t care i til s on an Island in Alaska if she is it lady she will be treated like a lady. Be less and she Wilt get Lesi. Don l get me wrong i guess some of the females serving our country do get ironed wrong but if they Don l open their Mouths nothing is going to gel done. But before you Start turning in male cos or officers make sure your Back Yard is clean i you arc a lady in uniform and you Are doing what is required of you. You should have no worries. My hat is off to command sol. Maj. Karen Erick son. She is a True professional and has accomplished a lot in her 25 years and is a lady from lop in Bottom. So where do we Start i will Tell you with ourselves first. I am not saying you should not dress for so to when off duly depending on the occasion but before you go out look in the Mirror hues in invite trouble when you go to the office Iii next morning or on a Field training of cruise no one wants to hear what you did last night. Tactfully Tel them you Don l care what they did and soon icy will be quiet. People will Only talk when they have someone to listen. Yes it is a thing we have to be cautious about but it stems from Back Home training in some cases. Maybe 1 have been fortunate in my 21 years but i have not had this trouble. Some men will talk because their wives will not listen and icy have to have some one to listen to them. I asked my husband Why do men do this. He replied because he has to have someone to listen to him. I politely refer them to counselling saying 1 do not have answers for him. Like command sgt. Maj Erickson said some thing has to be done but if it s not handled correctly it will be a big waste of the taxpayer Money. If you have a problem by ail Means report in. Nothing will happen unless you do. I have stuck my neck out Many times and will continue to do so if i am right. Name withheld Ludwig Surg Germany trailer Parks not feasible in Germany i am writing about inc housing problem Here in Germany. Why has t someone started a Park for Trail ers like inert arc stateside i know it lot of soldiers who have one including myself. They have saved Money in the states. With prices Here doubled they could save from 1,000 Marks a month and More and thai is for inc person. Can you imagine saving 1 million Marks every month plus having More than adequate housing for everyone a lot of soldiers buy trailers because they move so much and that Way they Are Able to have their Home with them no matter where they move. Staff sgt. John Lane Moh Rongen Germany editor s note maj. Timothy Mason staff officer housing division if. Lisa Rel a replies Usa heur recently studied the concept of Mobile Hottie Parks for is. Forces in Germany. The molls indicated thai he in Allbough being implemented in the Continental United slain my not feasible Here the basis for Hal conclusion it primarily a search of land either currently under us. Control or available from the German government. 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