European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - March 10, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Paga2 the stars and stripes thursday marchl0,1988 women explore things to accept change in military world overseas by deeded Arrington Coke  Bureau Kaiserslautern it might be a matter of sitting Home alone night after night friends and relatives thousands of rink s away in the United Stales. Or it could Manifest itself in having la manage a household and children in a foreign setting minus language skill and a Ful clinic husband. Out regardless of the form it lakes coping with military life alone overseas poses special difficulties. To tackle those difficult in Pam Ful Sterton recommends dwell on things you can change. Do things you can do to enhance yourself. The More you try to change the system the More wrapped up in it you gel Ful Turton Trinica supervisor at the Lan Stuhl Community counselling Cen Ter was one of several speakers wednes Day who addressed the challenges of cop ing alone overseas 91 a two hour workshop held by the Federal women program at the Kaysco club. Other speakers included Don Sci Chart and Maria Diaz of he 29th area support group alcohol and drug control pro Gram. The Point of the prefer Taijon Sci Chart said was to let people know that people Aren t alone Over  and Al though there May be fewer support sys tems in smaller military communities be sail there an some caring sharing people in  As Well u in kaisers Lautem or  Sci Chart who is married to a service member noted that the problems of cop ing alone Aren t faced Only by women regardless of whether one a atone by Vir tue of being single or by having a spouse frequently in the held or on temporary duly. Needs most people must Deal with inane environment run the Gamut from physical such As housing to Security so Cial def Etc can and on to tet Fiu Tili men for most women Over Here physical needs Are pretty Wen met Reicherl said. At the next level Security stresses occasionally crop up overseas ranging from terrorist attacks to insecurity stirred Fay getting on the German Auto Bahn Sci Chart said. Because moves Are frequent in Mili tary life people connected with the serv ices repeatedly find themselves having to carve out new niches for themselves and working toward set full lament in new ways. Achieving healthy self esteem and fulfilling one s potential can be accomplished through taking advantage of recreation opportunities developing in tried skills and learning crafts. Those of us who have done it Long enough loot Forward to it scr Chart said conceding however that he found it hard to establish close relationships with people because of the Hurt create when the link must be broken due to a move. And when von change jobs or Ca Reen you re Back to physical needs. You Don t care about Elf esteem he Tate. You re worried about what kinds of school there Are for your kids where you re going to  wherever a person is living however one should clarify personal values regularly and determine improvement that can be made to bring a situation As close possible to tolerable and enjoyable Diaz said. We can t control much Abool the housing area we re going to live in. You have a Tot More Freedom in the Sotet Diaz said. Even a Home  consider Good can to Pace you Don t like to be. 1 Law can you change that the workshop my about to men and women. One Man said he came to Tain insight into the problem of nil employees who might be alone particularly Mil itary wives. For Joann Wangor and Rita Morri son wives of  in the Kai san Laulom area a major frustration i their inability to handle tasks such As securing credit Union Loans or Register cars without their spouses even if they arc employed. Women have no rights. To any thing because they Aren t die Pamar Morrison said. Future brighter for working women speaker says by  Sawyer suit writer Mainz West Germany opportunities for work ing women through the year 2000 will increase As their opposition Dies out or retires a Federal women s week speaker said wednesday. In Loo Many cases women have been held Back by the attitude that they should be at Lea parties and not argue cases before the supreme court said Javne Gallagher housing and Urban development Public affairs director. "1 Don t want to ruffle any feathers the said but Iguess most of you have encountered that mindset Here in the military. Such dinosaurs Are relics of an age when their concept of women was the Norm and like real dinosaurs they haven1 been Able to adapt to changing  they re getting on and their antiquated notions should edit with them from the  Gallagher hid women can also expect a continued progression toward salary parity Between now and the year 2000. While the women who now make up 56 percent of the work Force Cam Only 70 cents to their male Job counterpart s is in 1963 women earned Jurt 59 cents. Furthermore women under age 25 today Cam 86 percent of their like aged male counterpart s earnings according to a labor department s report Gallagher cited. Gallagher who entered the workforce in 1970 As a Campaign worker gave other reasons Lor her bullish Outlook the 1984 Reagan appointee noted thai women Are now get Ting the education they need toehold top level jobs. Forty percent of the 1986 Law degrees went to women she Tail graduate schools of Law Medicine Bonnet where not so _ _ Long ago then might have been one woman in 100 it Dentt Are seeing  More women Ping the Taid we cull fall Short in engineering and pure mathematics but there Are few Field today where women do not constitute a third or More of the student Gilb Gher  along with better educational opportunities women can expect an increasing labor shortage in the nest decade. Coming up behind the baby Boom generation if the much Mailer group sometimes called ilm baby bus ters she said already businesses that hire primarily Tun Aji Nare finding thai Supply running out. As adult of tors become More scarce business government military everyone will find it increasingly uneconomic stupid if you will to refuse to consider any qualified Perm for any  this Tho nage should Force employers to offer More attractive programs such As Job snaring flexible hour and leave schedules and flexible Benefit package to die said. The nature of the Job is Asso evolving. Fewer jobs require the Strong backs of yesterday unskilled labor Force she said. More demand highly trained personnel and kills needed Fay tomorrow s workers can be mastered at least As readily by Komenas by Mca boy linked to bomb hoaxes at Berlin High sent Back to . Berlins a the second of two teen agers sent Back to the United states in connection with a wave of bomb hoaxes at the . High school Here left the City Early this week a military spokesman said wednesday. Officials believe the two students were behind a rash of bomb threat called into Berlin american High school Between feb. � and feb. 9, said . Come Berlin spokesman staff sgt Donald Banks. However the actions taken against the two a 14-year-old girl and a schoolmate boy  age was not immediately available were based on a string of other offences by both Stu dents Banks said. The two were questioned in connection with the bomb threats he said. Five bomb threats were called in to the High school during one week i february Banks said. Each Call required evacuation of the building and a search of the premises he said. Bogus bomb threat Calls Are a felony under German Law. The girl was sent Home in february and the boy went Back to the United Stales monday ranks mid there have been no bomb threats called in to the school for nearly three weeks be said. 2 syrians held in Frankfurt As suspects in car theft ring Frankfurt German wednesday arrested two syrians believed to be members of a car theft ring that stoic More Ian $2.5 million wort i of talc Model cars from ., German and Swiss citizens in Italy during the last two years. A spokesman for tic German Crimi Nal police in Wiesbaden said the Syri ans operating in Frankfurt apparently received the stolen curs from accomplices in Italy. They allegedly changed the serial num Bers and shipped he aulos through the port of Bremerhaven to arabian custom ers in he Middle East. German Federal police Are continuing to search for other members of the ring in the Frankfurt and Dusseldorf areas the spokesman said. Fire in Darmstadt housing forces 2 families to relocate go on guard duty at Baut Holder found dead Baum older West Germany an 8th inf div Soldier on guard duty atan installation motor Pool died Early wednesday of an apparently self inflicted gunshot wound. A . Army doctor pronounced the Soldier dead at the scene shortly after Midnight a division spokesman said. The guard who was to work the next shift discovered the body. The Soldier apparently shot himself with him 15a2 ride the spokesman said. The single Soldier s name is being withheld pending notification of rela Tives. Baum older military police Are investigating the incident. Darmstadt West Germany is an Early morning fire in the Santa Barbara military housing area caused an undetermined amount of damage wednesday and forced the temporary re location of two families a Community spokeswoman Aid. No one a injured in the electrical tire that broke out about 8 4$ while con tract workers were renovating a Kitchen in the duplex Rosa Bam Cau said. Damage Efu Matet were not Complete wednesday she said. Workers were cutting a pipe with a Torch when an electrical Cable inside a Wall caught Fine a spokesman for the  and housing said. News executive Dies St. Joseph to. A dmm Bradley chairman and chief Era Cuttre officer of the St. Joseph news Pitts & Kazew Cephas died at age 70,