European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - September 8, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse In stars and stripes Page 11 letters dear Ann Landers 1 work in the office of a prominent physician. Several Days ago the Man who has been dating my Cousin for More than a year came in for a Complete physical. His lab test showed up this morning and i am shaking As i write this. He tested positive for the aids antibodies. I need to know right away whal is the right thing to Ilu Ann. I love working or in this office and t Don t want to jeopardize my position by passing on privileged information. However 1 fed that i owe it to my Cousin to Tell her that her sweetheart has been exposed to aids. Please Ann Landers toss a Little Wisdom my Way. I am Between the Devil and the deep Blue sea . Dearn Catell the doctor that this patient is going with Jour Robiin Aad you Are gravely concerned. Ask him to order a Desteni blot the do Finitte test for aids and if it turns curl positive the doctor should Alert your Cousin to the patient 9 condition. The american medical association has for the first time decided to break the Prece Dent on confidentiality. Meanwhile at the risk of sounding like a Cassandra. 1 Hope too realize that your Cousin May already Hae been exposed to the virus. Dear Ann Landers my Boyfriend is an unemployed truck Denver who is not looking for a Job. I make More than enough Money to provide for our needs. John and i have been living together for almost four months. We dated for six years before i asked him to move in with me. I am very comfortable with this arrangement and have never Felt the need to hide it from anyone or apologize for it. 1 work five Days a week and come Home to a wonderful meal a clean House and a Loving companion. John does the marketing and the laundry. He is cheerful adoring and has a wonderful disposition. I refer to him As my hous husband and he is perfectly comfortable with mat designation. The problem is my grandmother. She raised me and is very involved in my life. Grandma says in does t look right for a woman to support a Man and that no decent Man would allow in. She says that in her Day they called men who did this gigolos which n the male equivalent of kept women. I love Iii Man and believe it is Worth a lot to have a faithful companion especially these Days when bed hopping is absolutely out because of aids. Please Tell me what to do Ann. It seems that whal is important to my grandmother is not important to me. Yet i want her respect and acceptance. A split personality in the Valley dear split when grandma was courting the woman s place was in the All that has chanted. Are considered perfectly respectable. They carry their weight and contribute As much to the relationship As the companion who brings Home the paycheck. 1 Hope my response will be the basis for a new kind of Diat Ogne Between you and Gram. She should not judge you by standards that Are 40 years old. Dear Ann Landers since you Are so gracious about allowing readers to dump their Pel peeves on you May i Tell you mine ? our local radio station often tapes interviews that arc heard on saturday. The announcer frequently says or or mrs. Will be Here How else could they be there dead Chicago dear Chick cant to Bank of a better Way to say it can you Check Fine print on car policy says Reader in february 1987 i bought a new car. The Lien Holder a credit Union wanted full coverage Auto insurance on the loan and wanted a copy. So i went to a local insurance company and asked for this full coverage insurance. It Cost Over 1,400 Marks a year and included collision with a 400-Mark deductible. On dec. 8. 1987, just 10 months later i was involved in a hit and run Accident. My cat and another person s in were totalled. The Accident was not my fault the German police have not found the Driver that caused this Accident. After paying a High Premium to my insurance com Pany for this so called full coverage insurance what did i gel not whal i expected. Instead of paying off the note on my totalled Auto and Clearing the debt with the credit Union my insurance company Ould Only pay for the value of the car less other deductions. The note is 16,200. The value of the car according to the insurance company is 54,600, less deductions. After deductions the insurance company sent the credit Union a Check for a Little Over $3,600. That leaves Roe with a Bill for s,600 and a totalled Auto. What was the Point in having insurance if i can t he covered for this Type of loss the credit Union docs not believe this nor do i. The insurance company says it is within German Law. What happened to me is partly my fault. I should have asked. But i also maintain that 1 should have been informed of this value versus Nole payoff game. It s not fair that the insurance company knows All the rules and i Don t. My policy did t explain this. Is what i just outlined Correct under German Law name withheld Frankfurt weal Germany editor s note Gebhard Volt German at Torney adviser. Legal assistance Dir office of the judge advocate he Usa eur replies collision insurance insures the fair Market value of the car minus deductible. Initially he fair Market value and the Purchase Price financed by a financial institution Are identical As the car deprecate the fair Market value de Clines and the financed Price exceeds the fair Market value but the payoff cannot exceed the air Market value. Thus the circumstances As outlined by the writer Are Correct under German Law. Additionally 1 am advised that . Law on this matter is identical. 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