European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 3, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes Ahri Landers dear Ann Landers golfers at my club Are passing around and howling at your column that carried the headline Golf versus  i d like to make another com Parison. The question i d like to pose is this which would a Bingo addict choose if she had to make Choice my wife belongs to a car Pool. The women travel five evenings a week to different Bingo palaces. I Don t see How they stand the smoke the cheap perfume and inc perspiration but not one of these women would miss a game unless she was hospitalized. Recently 1 posed this question to my wife assume there Are two doors. One leads to a lavish bedroom with a bar a stereo a water bed and room service and i was there waiting for you. The other door leads to the Bingo Emporium. Your Seal is re served Bingo is on the House and your cards Are on the table. Which door would you choose. My wife though for a few minutes carefully evaluating both options. Finally she asked How Many cards actually she s a great lady and that Tine has become a Standard joke in our House. Just sign me Herbert k. . Dear Herb thanks for my laugh for the Day. You hit the Jackpot with that one dear Ann Landers i just read one woman s response to the divorced father who was troubled by his children s Lack of interest. You said children suffer most by divorce. How True. In my Case inc animosity was not Between our divorced parents. One never spoke ill of the other either during or after the divorce. The problem began when dad remarried. His new wife did nol want him to have anything to do with us. From the Day he married her he has treated me like it stranger. The last Lime i talked to dad was five Yean ago when i called him Long distance to Tell him that he was going to be a Grandfather. After that Call they suddenly had an unlisted number. I be written him several letters none of which was answered. 1 was certain that his wife had intercepted them and thrown hem away but i Learned through a relative that he did indeed receive my letters. I now have two Beautiful children. They Are dad s Only grandchildren and he has never seen them. Believe me Ann 1 Don t want to take him away from his wife i Jum want to enrich his life with these adorable Girts. I m trying to Deal with feelings of anger rejection and Hurt and it s not easy i am heartsick that my father s new wife has succeeded in getting him to Cut All lies with his family. She is depriving h i m of the Joys of  and robbing us of something precious too. Please comment on this Ann. Cut off in a. Dec us Orrin a Don t Pul All the blame on your father s new wife. He is at least As culpable As she. No Mailer How domineering and mean spirited a woman May be she cannot alienate a father from his children for no reason unless he is a spineless Lily slivered wimp As Lime goes on he will probably mourn the years thai were lost and Wist that he could live hem Orer Lyhl Thoj Mmel in dub we come your Btl. You Page 11 letter to series brings Back horror for Reader this is not an easy letter to write bul i know that the Subj cd is an important one. Some 14 years have passed and now it is Lime to speak out. An recently showed the 1985 Mimi cries the do Lief Sale stranger. This show was a dramatization of the horror we lived through in Seattle wash., during 1974 975 when seven Young women disappeared. Some of us still remember he horror Ted Bundy is the perfect example of a deliberate stranger. His crimes hit close to Home exactly one and a half blocks from Home. Act disc Naslund was a neighbor. We graduated from High shool together. Her life was just beginning but she met Ted and that All changed. I could hardly believe he news when 1 read she was missing. It was even More difficult to accept that she had been murdered. The horror of her murder and lilt murder of so Many of her Young women stunned us All. Everyone had a theory Many people provided inc police with leads. Yet is was so  thai a Bright Young Law student could have such a dark evil nature that it look years to bring him to Justice. Today he is on death Row in Florida. He continues la file appeals somehow hoping for a new trial and Complete exoneration. Maybe soon he will be released by Means of inc electric  tragedy of All this is thai so few will remember or learn from Ted Bundy s Cross country Trail of death and fear. You no women still accept rides from strangers still allow a disarming smile to override their belter judgement and still think nothing bad can Ever Hap pen to them. Tell thai to Denise staff sol Diane l. I  West Germany Grenada liberated not invaded is claim this Tetter is in reference to a recent headline Gre Nada celebrates invasion anniversary sometimes i think thai because 1 was at fart Bragg at the time of the Grenada incident and because my father was a participant that 1 should be tolerant of uninformed people who refer to the incident As an invasion. However in inc Case of the stars and stripes i fell i should t have lobe. What happened in Grenada was a Clear pm cose of Tilk ration. The United Stales was asked for help and we gave it. By succumbing to inc common Media s reference to an invasion the stars and stripes not Only puts itself on inc level of the common and uninformed Man bul it defames the United states by implying that it was a hostile foreign Force overtaking an inno cent and helpless government. As everyone in the journalistic Field knows a head line ran be very important. H impresses an idea into the readers head and it catches inc Eye. The following article can set a very different tone As did this one. It clarifies in the first sentence that the United slates ousted a Yamisi Junta. The intentions to write about Good news were there and 1 am thankful that Grenada s name has t faded off the map since the excitement has worn Down. Bul Good intentions Don t Lessen the sting of insult derived from the misuse of one word. Men and women Alt Over the world Lake part in the defense of democracy and they read your paper. With a responsibility to them you of All the Media should take More care Ned thought when addressing the actions of the services. Elizabeth a. Mealy 1 Lanau Wisl Germany writer blows lid Over styrofoam cups when is cafes going to come out with a lid for their sly Rotram cups so thai you can drink them on the Road / Are these your photos Are you missing pictures of Alisha s birthday the cake is decorated with a doll and four red can Dies one of the gifts is a Mallet hot looks  doll. 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