European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 16, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes Page 11 dear Ann tenders a while Back you published a idler from worried sick and looking for  we liked your response. The writer was upset because a woman her husband had had sex with As a teen Ager tracked him Down 41 Yean later and wanted him to meet i biological son the writer said her husband was outraged and refused to talk about ii so Long As that Small noisy group continues to track Down adopted persons and biological parents lives will be disrupted and old wounds will be opened. Millions of biological fathers and Mother and adopted persons have put the past behind them and they Don t want it opened up. These folks have the right to be left alone on the other hand when All the parties involved want a meeting there ought to be a simple Legal and sensitive Way to proceed. We believe that Mutual con sent stale adoption registries now in place in 21 slates serving More than 75 percent of the population can meet their legitimate needs readers who Send us a self addressed stamped envelope can get a list of the states with registries. Write to adoption 1930 17lh St. N.w., Washington . 20009-6207. William Pierce president National committee for adoption dear Friend Thanki for the information. And now a word from me adopted teen Ager often fantasize that their "real1 parents Are much wealthier More Beautiful and More understanding la a Ihetu Awn. I do not recommend that these adopters become in wired in � South. After 33 Yean of writing this column i can Tell you thai the overwhelming majority of searches result in anxiety and heartache on both sides. Moreover once hit Pandora s Box is opened there is no closing it. Like in or not your new found relatives will be a part of your life Forem. Dear Ann Landers my Boyfriend and i were in a horrible motorcycle Accident. I will be in a cast for at least a year. My Boyfriend last a leg. We Are trying to gel on with our lives and Hope to be married As soon As we both can walk Down the aisle. Please print this letter for All those ignorant people who ask will you Ever gel on a motorcycle again when i reply of course 1 will they look at me like i m crazy. Has anyone out there Ever been in a car Accident will you get into a car again if your House bums Down will you Ever go into a House again if you fall Jota horse will you get Back on Ever Lime i hear the sound of a motorcycle 1 panic the Accident was at a main intersection m town and when we go past it my heart pounds and 1 get a queasy feeling in my stomach. T really Don t want to get on a motorcycle again but i have to maybe this Tetter will help people under stand Why. Justm1k1 parents thank Stuttgart hospitals friends i understand Why you feel As Job do Bat 1 Hare a somewhat different Point of View. After your House bums Down Yon must to into another Bouse again. And if you have a car Accident you can t Slop going into cars unless you Are willing to be terribly inconvenienced. Bui nobody needs to get on a motorcycle. You can live a completely Happy and a lot safer life without it. Ilm a Whit Talmai f Randi uld column i Lindtt it Tsomei vat  Cin " in 10 it in Ciel tin Sura ind a Bibb Apo kill. . This idler is a Long time in coming but please allow us to share our Story in Hopes that it might Comfort other parents who find themselves in similar situations. Our son Grady Patrick Carlile was born approximately six weeks Early on  7. 1987, at 5lh general Hospital in Stuttgart. Crady seemed Fine initially but within an hour lie began having problem  a it pounds with underdeveloped lungs he was in serious trouble and was transferred to the Olga Hospi Tal intensive care Nursery in downtown Stuttgart. To have delivered prematurely and then be Sepa rated from our new son just hours old we were fright ened. Naturally we were in Shock. It was Louch and go for Grady that first week but due to the expertise of the 5lh general staff and Olga s k.6 staff he survived. With the help of dear Friend we managed to gel through Hose truly critical Days As Well Crady recovery grew Long hard and complicated and his room at Home sat empty As we waited for his improvement. After nine tortuous by Lona months at Olga he was stable enough to be transferred Back to ill general. There we spent the next seven weeks being prepared for the constant care Grady would need at Home. The staff patiently instructed a on the use of ony Gen medicines and his special feeding method. As we began to feet competent enough to handle Grady s medical requirements my husband and i realized our bad dream was finally ending. At almost ii months old our Grady was coming Home the big event too place on oct. 18. As 1 write this Grady is playing at my feet. He is Happy Beautiful and his prognosis for com plete recovery is excellent. We want to thank he Many friends and loved one who took care of us Over the months As we spent hours by Grady s bed. We also want to especially to Bali the staff of k.6 at Olga and paediatrics and Newborn at 5th general. Their knowledge experience and professionalism Are of the highest Caliper but in was their com Panion and love in the care of Grady that nurtured him to where he is today. Looks like we be made ilm a. And my. Patrick Curtik 4. Sent gut West Jermiy cafes insists it will go to War with troops i read with interest a writer s comments everybody knows cafes would t even think of going out 10 the Field during a wartime situation which we republished recently under the heading certain Chal Lenge food gripes  i believe your readers deserve the lacks. Cafes does have extensive plans for Field support in the event of a wartime situation. Additionally we support and provide the same services to troops Dur ing Field exercises such As certain Challenge. Sup. Port for re forger during the tactical phase is limited to Basic health and Comfort items and Only during the weekend break. However we were in the redeployment areas with Bells of. Historically Exchange support dates Back to 1895, and when if military was Iii cd pm by operations met their needs Al Home and overseas. This support was provided during both world wars the korean conflict and in Vietnam on an unprecedented level. Mobile exchanges and food facilities gave soldiers and airmen a variety of goods and service that the were used to having at Home. American soldiers and airmen deserve this Type of support. We intend to provide in. Pur planning staffs spend a great Deal of Lime working out details for actions such As issuance of health and welfare goods to dependents during Neo evacuations operation of tactical Field exchanges utilizing military personnel and Assembly of ration supplement sundry packs for troop Issue. Cafes goes to Whir Field. In peacetime or in War time cafes is the company store for military scn1  our stockholders. I. Col. Charlie White Public affairs officer he cafes Europe homeless folks need help year round Here it comes again. The holidays arc Here so Here come the articles on the plight of the homeless in  fell disgusted when i read your articles. Cyclists on bikes Worth hundreds. Whiz by a sickly 10 year old cocaine addict. For five homeless years. He has turned dozens of $5 tricks. To feed his co Caine  now Tell me am 1 supposed to feel bad for these people Well sorry. 1 Don t. I feel bad for the families who can t find work be cause the factories have dosed who have lost their Homes and All their belongings. I feel bad for the child who ran away from an abusive Home for the under educated or under qualified woman who is left alone with nothing but her children. Pen pals plans hit Mac your pin i column j bin my Homb i photo caul he . Johnjon i i feel bad for those who want to work but canno afford to because our system makes it impossible for them. If they work they la lose Public assistance. Well they need that Public assistance while they work and until they gel Back on their feet. Just do not Tell me about the Coke Heads who were most Likely messed up before they ended up on the streets. They do need help medical help. 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