European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - February 27, 1989, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday february 27, 1989 the stars and stripes Page 11 letters Istatt Landers i Ain t nothing but a Houn Dawg if we Don t find my id card Here  the King does t need any id card file photo i have lived in Germany for 20 years and never before written to the stars and stripes. But finally i must. The recent letter concerning the Elvis sighting was marvelous. And what a Relief for me after Only last week bumping into Jim Morrison atthe Bookstore in Nurnberg. Jim by the Way is Rooming with the King an others. Anyway i was thrilled to read a letter that did tree of moans and groans and Felt compelled to write and say thank you. Janis Joplin bad Xanadu West Germany . Jimi Kendrix it s a Good thing for Elvis that he came to a Small Exchange like bad Kreuz Nach which does t Check id cards at the door else How would the poor fellow have gotten in to look at All the latest cd Vicki Brooks bad Kreuz Nach West Germany i was astonished to read recently in the stars an stripes that Elvis was seen in the bad Kreuz Nach Exchange. What really concerns me is the apparent Lac of Security control at this facility. How could a civilian like Elvis with no privileges possibly gain Access to Al these wonderful bargains unless of course he is employed secretly by the Dod As a Recruiter if he can get away with this we May Start seeing people like James Dean buddy Holly Ricky Nelson and foreign nationals like John Lennon King Ludwig ii and heaven forbid . Lenin. The time has come for us to closely examine How retrain our id card checkers and to develop strict proce dures to prevent such flagrant violation of our Funda mental rights. Paul Reinman Munich West Germany during our recent rotation to Grafe Wohr for tank gunnery i sat on Range 117 for table Viii tank Crew qualification. As any Tanker would attest the butterflies you fee before your run Are almost unbearable so i rechecked my foresight against the left foresight panel with the Blue Light in the Middle. When i looked through my sights the Blue Light looked funny. I wiped my eyes and looked again Only to see a pair of Blue suede shoes. I elevated to the top of the panel and that s right Elvis was sitting on the panel. I could t believe it. Was Elvis working for Range control was he part of the target detail if i shot out of the Range fan markers would he sing Jailhouse Rock and throw me off the course i had beaded rumours that he was still alive and had been sighted at the bad Kreuz Nach Exchange but Here he must have known i was a fan because he would Point out each target to me by driving his Pink Cadillac to a target panel and strike a stance As if he were live via satellite from  Marilyn Monroe who was in the car with him sur knew her Way around Range 117. Of course this proves Elvis is alive Congress really did deserve a 50 percent pay hike due to missed birthdays and holidays and it is better to save at the Exchange then to shop in a . Mall. Paul l. Fogli Amberg West Germany was very Happy to learn that the King is still alive but was naturally disturbed As no doubt this write was that he is no longer performing music. I had of course never doubted that he had replaced Liberace body for that of his own but i was under the impression that he had changed his name to  was living with cat Stevens in Somalia. I immediately showed the letter to my Roommate George Washington who by the Way is doing very Well for a Man in his mid-200s and sends All his love. He was sceptical but i assured him that it was very unlikely that an imposter would have disliked rap and heavy Metal As Iam sure those Are Only the words of the True King. He was still not 100 percent convinced until John Lennon and Jimi Hendrix convinced him that any thing was possible with Elvis and that they would put a fake death past him. After All As John added Paul Mccartney has been faking his life Ever since hedged in the late 60s in a car crash. John is the pro found one in t he so to Elvis Dan Bunker and All the other believers out there we believe. Really. Would i make this up go Elvis and give our Best to cat Stevens for us All will you sgt. Marco Andrew Torrejon a Spain in reference to the recent sighting of Elvis at the  Exchange How did he get in without an id card staff sgt. Tom Simons Mannheim West Germany Elvis in Germany the recent letter regarding the King being sighted in the land of cuckoos clocks caused great excitement among the ladies in Greece. But hell Nikon wants to know just How did Elvis get Exchange privileges this question begs to be answered by the omnipresent it. Col. Charlie White we anxiously wait his unique no doubt appraisal of this situation. Bonnie latin president hunk a Hunka burning love fan club Athens Greece dear Ann Landers my husband and i have been married 14 months. I am realistic enough to know that no marriage can be perfect. Our problem Essex. There were signs of trouble jus before we married. He seemed to have lost interest in being inti mate. I told myself it was too much stress. He was taking on anew Job that involved a move to another state. After a while i realized that i had been making too Many excuses for him. We had a Frank talk with me asking him Point Blank Don t you find me attractive anymore he replied it s not you it s me. I just Don t have  his response did t help much. I fantasize about movie stars and singers which i crazy because i would never cheat. When we do make love it s Over before i know it and i am never  is always apologetic and says i m 5907. I la try to do better next  the next time is four or five weeks later and it s the same Story. I m feeling resentful. Here i am in my mid-20s Andi m starving sexually. I hate to think of spending my whole life this Way. I can t risk a letter coming to the House so please Ann print your reply. I would be Ever so grateful. Unfulfilled in the East dear unfulfilled i spoke with or. William Simpson about your prob Lem. He is the director of the Center for sexual heal that the Menninger clinic in Topeka Kan. Or. Simpson said the key sentence in your letter is when we make love it s Over before i know it your husband presents himself As having a Lack of sexual desire but his Pri Mary problem is premature ejaculation. Every time this happens he feels like a failure. In order to escape humiliation he performs As Seldom As possible. This is one of the More easily treated sexual  your husband needs to see a certified sex therapist Ora certified sex Counselor. If you live in the City from which your letter was mailed there Are some excellent people right there. Or write to the american association of sex educators Counselor and therapists. The address is 11 Dupont Circle n.w., suite 220, washing ton . 20036-1207. Enclose a Long self addressed stamped envelope. They will refer you to someone in your area. Please write again and let me know if you followed through. Good Luck. Dear Ann Landers where does one draw the line Between Correct and incorrect patient doctor behaviour i m a Well educated professional woman who has heard about physicians who behave in an inappropriate Way toward their patients but what about be Havior that in t Clear my male psychiatrist likes to give me a hug at the end of our sessions. It started after my second or third visit. I was crying and he wanted to Comfort me. Nowt is a weekly occurrence. Part of his style includes holding my stomach or the two of us holding hands when he talks to me. Of course there has been nothing sexual Between us but feel uneasy. Please help Clear this up. Confused in chicag Odear confused each therapist has his own style. I see nothing wrong with a psychiatrist putting his arms around a distraught patient to Comfort her but holding hands during a ses Sion is not professional conduct and there is absolutely no reason for his hands to be on your stomach. 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