European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 01, 1989, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes Page 11 dear Abby my husband and i have been married for eight years. We arc both 32 years old. For most of our married years we have had one recurring argument. Bill not his real name wants me to dress a certain Way when we go out. He likes to Sec me in tight ruling miniskirts tops with no Bra and no underwear. I feel very uncomfortable dressed this Way in Public be cause i look like a Hooker. Bill says it turns him on. He does t have me dress that Way around our friends Only when we go out but i m always worried that Well run into someone we know. He says that if i love him i would do it just to please him. I would t mind dressing that Way at Home but that s not what he wants. Bill keeps trying to Mold me into his Playboy image and i keep resisting. This problem is causing a lot of resentment Between us. Is there any Way we can re solve this problem besides counselling no Playboy girl dear no Playboy girl you took the words right out of my typewriter. The solution to your problem is counselling. Your husband needs to find out Why seeing you dressed like a Hooker in Public turns him on. He also must learn that he has no right to so you to do something you find repugnant. If you love me you will do it just to please  Tell him if you love me you would t ask me to do any thing i Don t really want to  stick to your guns and insist that your husband get counselling because therein lies the solution to. Your problem. Dear Abby while my husband and i were having dinner in a Hollywood restaurant recently i recognized a rather famous movie actress dining with four or five other people. 1 wanted to go Over and Tell her 1 was a fan of hers and How much i enjoyed her work. My husband discouraged me saying celebrities do not want to be both ered by people coming up to them in a restaurant. As a celebrity you must be recognized in Public places. How do you feel about people who come Over to you to say hello Madeline from Modesto dear Madeline i am pleased when someone comes Over to say hello but some celebrities prefer to be left alone. I am reminded of Fred Allen s witty line a celebrity is a person who works a lifetime to become Well known then wears dark glasses to avoid being  dear Abby my husband and 1 love to attend the theater Ball games and musical events but he always has to be the first one Back to the car afterwards. We watch the last few minutes standing in the Back or listening As we dash for the parking lot. There is no reason for the Rush and i am sick of missing the last song the last inning or the last act. And never mind that we miss the encore or the Chance a Gaud. What Carm do dear missing out Tell speedy Gonzales that leaving ahead of the crowd May save i Little time but the time saved in t Worth missing the end of the performance. It s been my experience that the last song the last inning or the last act is often better than the first and Well Worth waiting for. And like the last laugh it s often the Best military to civilian pension switch detailed please Check with your Many knowledgeable sources to help answer a few questions i have concerning paying into civil service retirement. I was recently honorable discharged from the air Force As an e-5. I have 10 years of Active duty serv behind me. I would like to know what i need to do in order for these 10 years to count toward my retirement in the civil service. Is there any Way that i can have the years i spent in the military count toward my retirement in the civil service can i have the 10 years Active duty military count toward my civil service retirement by paying into the retirement program i have been told by some of the civilian personnel with whom i work that a percentage of what i made in the military is what is paid into civil service retirement. How do i figure out How much i owe toward civil service retirement can this be accomplished by Way of a monthly biweekly allotment from my paycheck or must it be in a Lump sum who should i Contact in order to Start having my Active duty time count toward civil service retire ment will they have the necessary paperwork available to go one step further let s say that 1 have been hired through the army co As a gs-5 and 1 am now paying into civil service retirement. My Hus band is Active duty air Force and i am More familiar with How the air Force works and have applied at the air Force co for a Job on an air Force installation. Will being transferred from one co Branch to another affect my paying into the retire ment program when i was first hired through the co should t they have mentioned something about How prior Active duty members could go about pay ing into civil service retirement or is a Case like this a rarity therefore not much is known about it by the pos in Europe name withheld Wiesbaden West Germany editor s note John r. Graham director civilian personnel he Safe replies depending on the Type of appointment you Are currently serving and the length of creditable service you have you arc covered under one of Many different retirement plans. For the purpose of discussion it is assumed that you Are on a career conditional appointment with less than five years civilian service. If this Assumption is Correct you Are covered under the new Federal employees retirement system fers. 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