European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 10, 1990, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday november 10. 1990 the stars and Stripe Sann Landers dear Ann Landers i have been going with the same Man for Over a year and we get along very Well. Recently a a Roger took a Nap sunday afternoon and i decided to look through his Wallet just for the fun of it. To my great Surprise i found a woman a business card with a notation on the Back saying when j and where he had met her. J of course i know it was wrong to Snoop and now i am paying the Price. I Haven to had one Good nights sleep since i did that awful deed. I keep wondering who this woman is and what kind of a relationship he has with her. It could be something big or it could be nothing at All. I can to Tell Roger that i went through his Wallet. He would never Trust me again. But i am dying to know what is going on a if anything. What should i do Ann should i Contact this woman and ask her Point Blank or should i just come right out and ask Roger if he is seeing someone i am going crazy. Please advise me. A depressed sleepless in Winnipeg dear Winn under no circumstance should you Contact the woman. That would be the dumbest move Yon could make. And done task Roger about the card either. That would be the second dumbest move. Just forget you saw the card and carry on As before. If there is something going on you will know it eventually. Meanwhile i Hope you have Learned your lesson Toots. Dear Ann Landers please repeat the column you wrote a while Back about the person who poked Down the trash in a Public restroom Only to be a a stabbed by someone a hypodermic Needle. Today i stopped in the restroom at a restaurant and saw a woman doing that very thing. I screamed a a done to do that a she looked at me like i was crazy. I apologized and explained Why she should never do that. She was very grateful and a Little shaken. Your repeated advice could prevent Many More people from getting aids. A.m., Torrance Calif. Dear Torrance pm sure you re right. Thanks for asking. Here it is dear Ann Landers the following is a True Story. My Friend and i went into the menus room of a major hotel. Neither of us were guests but we had to use the facilities. Upon finishing we washed our hands. My Friend and i used paper towels and disposed of them in a bin that had a self closing cover. I put my wet paper Towel in the bin. My Friend did the same. It was full so he stuck his hand in to push the towels Down. Suddenly he yelled  when he pulled his hand out he saw a Little blood and a Small puncture wound. After sifting through the bin he found a syringe. We concluded that it was put there by a diabetic or a drug user. Now my Friend must go for a blood test and worry about whether he has come in Contact with the hts aids virus. I write this letter to remind your readers that the most commonplace activity can be dangerous these Days. Done to poke your hands into Public garbage bins. This simple act could threaten your life. And if you Are a person who must use a syringe please please be considerate and dispose of it responsibly. Montreal Gem of the Day never argue with a fool. Listeners can to Tell which is which. Page 11 letters a dislocation allowance ruling explained i would like to request clarification of the dislocation allowance la. T it por a leaving fort Jackson s.c., my family travel to Usa eur was disapproved but i was authorized to move my family from fort Jackson to Oklahoma. I received travel pay for my family plus la. Six months later i secured government quarters and again moved my family and shipped household goods to Europe. Now in a told by finance i am Only authorized travel pay because i received la once already. It is not my fault that fort Jackson would not let my family stay in quarters for six months. The service not i caused my family to move twice in one fiscal year.  i be authorized la again a name and location withheld editors note sgt 1st class Michael Donohue staff finance no office of the Deputy chief of staff resource management he Usa eur replies dislocation allowance la is paid to partially reimburse a Soldier for average expenses incurred in relocating his or her household incident to a pcs permanent change of station move. Until 1955, these expenses were not reimbursed. Since oct 1, 1989, la has been paid at a rate equal to two months bad Basic allowance for quarters. While soldiers believe they should be authorized an additional la for multiple moves of their families the joint Federal travel regulations a for authorizes Only one la for each pcs move regardless of the number of moves the family makes. The reasoning for  a decision is contained in Section 407, 37 . Code. Briefly the Law states that la is not a direct reimbursement for the actual added expenses involved in a particular household relocation. Rather la is designed to reimburse on average  extra expenses. While your family moved twice and you had extraordinary expense your finance office is Correct in not paying you another la. With pending budget cuts i do not believe we will see any change to la that would cover soldiers in situations similar to yours. However As a result of your letter we have submitted a request to change the a for. If approved two Las would be paid in cases  As yours. A wife touched by gifts for husband when my husband told me he was deploying to the Middle East my heart Sank. I knew How much i would miss him but for him to leave and be involved in a potential War was overwhelming. I miss him so much. But he also has friends Here in Karlsruhe Germany who miss him and this is the reason for the letter. We re avid bowlers Here in Karlsruhe and we used to bowl together in the Friday night league. Well some of the folks got together to buy a gift for a fellow Bowler who was to be hospitalized. Well it happened that he was Able to avoid it so that left the group with $50 to spend. Someone remembered that a a by my husband was in saudi Arabia and thought it would be great to Send him some needed items from everyone on the Friday night league. A couple of volunteers went to cafes where they were generously Given skin lotions lip Balm games and All sorts of things. And Best of All it was free. Once the managers knew it was for our soldiers in the persian Gulf they gave without being asked. So now they have everything they were going to buy and they still have $50. They bought crossword Puzzle books and All kinds of other books hard Candy lollypops and just All sorts of things. You just can to imagine How touched i was by All this. When i told my husband about it today on the phone he was speechless. He  believe they were thinking about him while he was gone. He was so moved. Its hard to put into words that feeling you get when someone does for you just because you re a Friend. _ Well Guys this letter is to you the Friday night Bowling league in Karlsruhe. Thank you for remembering  he a missed so much at Home but with friends like you he wont be forgotten not in the Karlsruhe military Community. And thank you cafes. To give the merchandise and help in selecting what they really needed its just so a a Reat. He a going to be gone for a Long time but with friends like these he a got a lot to come Back to. A Pam Bjornaas Karlsruhe Germany pen pals i am studying Marine engineering and want to have friends in other countries. I am 19 years old. A Roger Unda Loc second Street Lacson Bacolod City Philippines 6100 i enjoy Reading detective stories and listening to Quot ice music. I am 16 years old. A Nicole Logan 18 Hope View ave. Unstead ., St Catherine Jamaica. West indies i enjoy swimming and biking watching to cooking going to Church and Reading. A Jose Lajato 0263 Purok camia Calinagan Dumaguet Elty Philippines 6200 i would he to have pen pals from Africa Germany saudi Arabia and the .a. I am 35 years old and interested in Reading singing dancing and cooking. A Loma Turner St. Peters ., St. Andrew Jamaica West indies i enjoy playing basketball soccer Ping Pong and Bowling. A Teofel Legato 0263 Purok Camla Calinagan Dumaguet City Philippines 6200 i would like to have pen pals from All Over the world. I am 16 years old. A Stephanie Rodriguez Tolentino 17m. Vel Sost. Veloso subdivision Guadalupe Cebu City 6000 Philippines i am 23 years old and presently in saudi Arabia. I enjoy travelling climbing going to the Beach listening to music and dancing. A sgt. Jonathan Edmonds c co. 313th my in co 3rd be 62nd an div Apo 09658 i enjoy dancing singing and cooking. I am 20 years old. A Reynolda Valencia West Poblador Bacong Negros Oriental 6216  i enjoy camping and going on picnics singing dancing and cooking. A Evangeline b. Valencia Wert Poblador Bacong Negros Oriental 6216 Philippines i am a dressmaker and enjoy Danang and watching ballgames. I am 39 years old and a widow. A Anabella b. Carifio Manok Valencia 6215 Negros Oriental. Philippines i plan to be a nurse and wish to correspond with anyone who would like to have new friends. I am 20 years old. A Melchora Ariana 46-m.c. Briones St. Cebu City Philippines 6000 my hobbles Are cooking playing volleyball singing listening to music and writing people. I am 22 years old and a Catholic. A Rogera Guadalupe Aning Pahang boy Bacolod City Negros Occidental Philippines 6100 i am a 37-year-old  i he Danang Reading and having fun. A Beverley Gray Ewarton  Road Side District St. Catherine Jamaica Wert indies i love to Cook. I am also a music and nature Lover. 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