European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 1, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 12 a a a faces a no places the stars and stripes tuesday wednesday january 1/2,1991speeding crackdown snares governor s Limo a from wire reports the crackdown by Honolulu police on speeders Means everybody even the Guy who rides around in a Black limousine bears it License no. �?o1.�?� Quot gov. John wait eco a chauffeur got a ticket Friday for allegedly whizzing along at 65 Norph in a.55-Mph zone on the 11-1 freeway in Oahu. _ Waihee was a passenger in the limousine at the time. A say motorcycle officer Albert Kaalele issued the ticket. And its not surprising they say because Kaalele has been known to ticket fellow police chief Michael Nakamura who announced the crackdown on speeders dec. 10, had one response when lie heard about the ticket rings a Gold olympics gymnastics Gold medallist Mary Lou Retton got the Gold again saturday a in the form of a wedding ring. The 22-year-old, married in Houston on saturday to former University of Texas quarterback Shannon Kelley called it a a dream come the 4-foot-9 gymnast won the All around gymnastics Gold medal at the 1984 olympics in los Angeles the first american woman to accomplish that feat. A a a. A. A. The couples honeymoon includes a trip to the Rose bowl where Retto will ride on a float to help promote the 1991 olympic festival. Kelley however plans to stay at their hotel and Waldo the Cotton bowl on television. His former football team faces the University of Miami. �?o1 just have to be where i can see the game. I think they have a shot a Kelley said. A a a ��.�. A a a a a. . a i becomes an aunt Viscount Althorp brother of Princess Diana announced sunday that his wife Victoria had Given birth to their first child. The 6-Pound, 2-ounce a git 1�?z named Kitty Eleanor Spencer was delivered by caesarean Section at St. Mary a Hospital in London on Friday Lorck Apthorp 26, said his wife and the baby were in Good health although the baby had or Rived three wrecks Early. The couple were married in september 1989. Anthrop formally Charles Edward Maurice Spencer is the Only son of the eighth Earl. Spencer. Lady Althorp the former Victoria Lockwood is a former fashion Model. Stranger than fiction a Seattle author is fuming after Canada customs seized the unpublished manuscript of his novel when he tried to Senjt copy to his daughter in Victoria British Columbia Paul Doyle sent the proof of a Nioka Bride of Bigfoot to Jennifer Doyle As a Christmas present. But when his daughter went to Victoria Airport to retrieve the parcel a customs agent told her the Book was being held to determine whether it w As a the said a this Book contains passages in which there is sex sex which i would consider to be abnormal and i was trying hard not to laugh a Jennifer a theater student in Toronto said wednesday. A the opened the Book to a Page and said a for example this one and then read this passage. Out Load to me and said a do you see what i mean i got the feeling that he expected i me to be quite scandalized and i a. A a a a a a a. A a a Canada customs spokesman could not be reached to comment. A a the author said he is angry and shocked that customs seized his novel. Paul Doyle said he just wants the manuscript a which his daughter has been told is locked away pending a 30-Eisenhower debut Caroline Mahon right great granddaughter of Dwight d. Eisenhower shares a laugh with her Mother Susan Eisenhower Sageev and her grandmother Barbara Eisenhower Foltz at the 36th annual International Al Debutante Ball in new York on saturday. Day review process donation the new York times neediest cases Charity has been Given $60,000 in the name of sunny von Bulow who has been in a coma for 11 years. R the times said the Check was submitted to the annual Holiday fund not v. V ing Campaign from the Newport r.i., heiress As a donation approved by her three children and her attorney. Annie Laurie Isham von Bulowa a daughter said a we could think of nothing that she would want to do More than help those who cannot help a. The times said it was the fourth larg. Cost gift received by the fund this year. Dear Abby / my husband is a cardiologist. We have a daughter 12, and Quot two sons 9 and 4. Last sunday morning we went to Church As a family following the service we started to go downstairs for refreshments when a woman cornered my husband and engaged him in conversation about her husband who is _ in the Hospital. My husband was not his primary physician but he him once in Consulta Tion. 1 took the children downstairs. Our daughter had some Church activities that took about an hour so we decided to take the boys for a walk around town. We stopped at the courthouse and the boys began to play on the Steps when a Man drove up stopped got out of his car and said a ooh Dictor am 1 Ever glad to see you in be been having these awful Chest Quot pains.,.�?� 1 took the children while they talked. We picked up our daughter then some Man stopped my husband and said a say Doc. Ill take Only a minute and we were held up for another 15 we finally got Home my husband said wearily a i can to even gov to Church on sunday with my family without being stopped to answer questions from people i hardly know.�?�. Abby physicians need their privacy family time and time off. So please ask your readers not to ask their doctors a or any doctor a medical questions when they see them in a social setting. Thank you. Tired doctors wife dear w Ife you and your husband belong to a very Large club that includes dentists pharmacists veterinarians nurses lawyers accountants Etc. If anyone has a prescription for a sure cure please Rush it to me and ill publish it. Dear Abby am in a dilemma that i have been a wrestling with for All of 1990. R t i have a Good Friend ill Call her Tillie three dear Abby Lovely Little boys. When the first boy was born i gave him a very Nice gift on his birthday and another for Christmas. When the second child arrived a i wanted to do the same but i Wasny to Quot financially Able to give the same Quality gifts As i gave the first child. Now the third child has arrived and i cannot afford to give any gifts. Even a Lovely card strains my the problem is that til ideas very sensitive to the fact that her second and third children have not received the same treatment in the gift department that Herti St child did. I know this As she has told me so on several occasions. Y a Abby How can i tact my Stop what i have started without leaving Hurt feelings and a damaged Friendship in my tracks. _ sweating it out dear sweating if your Friendship depends upon the Quality of the gifts you give her children i would Sav it Wasny to much of a Friendship in the first place. Shame on Tillie for try ing to Lay a guilt trip on you. Tell her that the gifts have stopped because you can no longer afford them dear Abby i. Recently saw a letter in your column signed a lonesome caretaker. Well Abby my longtime companion and i take exception to the term a care Takeem when it s used to identify one who looks after the daily needs of another. The term a a caregivers seems Kinder and a much More Loving and personal. Quot 1 have a terminal illness and my longtime companion has now become my very Loving caregiver. He does not take he gives. A w a. Alter All what do caretakers actually do trim your shrubs paint your House fix your faucet they maintain objects or property or look Quot after regardless of How the dictionary defines caretaker i would like to see the word caregiver used when referring to one who lovingly cares for another. Abby of can do a great Deal toward making people aware Quot of Quot the Dihe rence and set a precedent for change. Gary Ixcaco Tysland dear Gary thank you for pointing out the important difference Between caregiving and car taking. I Learned something today. Dear Abby this is my first letter to you. It concerns my daughter and her husband. My wife and i allowed them to occupy our Home Tor two years for $600 per month. We could have rented it out for double what we charged them a my daughter had her first child near the end of the two year term and they asked for a six month Extension w hich we granted _ a her husband was fired a year ago and refuses to look for another Job. He baby sits while my daughter supports hint. They Haven to paid us a Penny in the last six months. ,. I suggested a baby Sitter to come into their borne i hey told us they do not Trust anyone else with their baby. I have contacted them three times asking for a p an by which they will pay us in the future and give us a moving Date so we can sell our Home nothing is forthcoming except excuses. They say we a re a Cha Rassmi and Are Only concerned with receiving Money. A a w r st0uild 1 the out the Street should i sue Tor Back rent our Home is our Only reach vestment and we want to get on with our own lives. \y6 love our. Daughter and grandson but the problems Clear. Have you any suggestions 9 dear a a Corne of Wrner in Nira Cisco since you purchased the Otise As an investment for yourselves and not As a retirement Home for your son Quot Ancec talk with an attorney and get his advice on How to handle this. Unless your daughter can conv Ince her husband to get a Job he will continue to be the baby Sitter at your expense. They Are blackmailing you emotionally because you re or parents. Of Are not villains because Vou expect them to act responsibly. A. C Universal press Syndicate
