European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 05, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 18 a the stars and stripes tuesday february 5,1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am another hurting Mother. Just recently i found out that my son is a child molester lie said he knew from the time he became a teen Ager Olvat lie was a a different but he was too ashamed to Tell anyone. After getting married and having two children he wanted help lie watched every to program on this subject in the Hope of finding out what he could do or where he could go to get straightened out. He Learned nothing from to and could find no books on the subject so he went to a therapist who worked with abused children at a clinic. The minute he opened his Mouth he was turned in to the authorities. Now after months of investigation he has been arrested. His wife and children were harassed by their neighbors. Obscene words were Spray painted on their Home. They were forced to move out of the neighbourhood and leave a House they loved. I know my son is sick and needs help. Now that he is incarcerated the children Are protected from him but what about All the other child molesters out there who want help and done to know where to go there seems to be help for almost every other sickness drug Addic lion aids alcoholism and schizophrenia but no help for this problem. We hear so much these Days about teaching Young children to he Alert to abusers a uncles fathers grandfathers and neighbors a urging them to Tell somebody. I agree that this is important but in my opinion they Are working on the wrong end of the problem. If honest to goodness help were available for the abusers we would Supply have fewer victims. my son was a hard worker and a g<5od person but none of that matters now. He will receive no help while incarcerated and no rehabilitation when he gets out. I just Pray that when he is released there will be some dear Abby dear Abby i am a 64-year-old Man but i look feel and act like a Man of 50. I play Tennis three times a week and keep myself in excellent physical condition. I am engaged to marry a wonderful 40-year-old woman. Its the second time around for both of us. 1 have three grown sons. The lady Lam marrying is childless by Choice and she a made it very Clear that she wants no does a Man my age need a Vasectomy. Las vegas Lover dear Lover any Man who is Young enough to be a Lover is not too old to need a Vasectomy. Dear Abby last december we invited some out of town friends to spend the holidays with us. They have children and two dogs which they take everywhere. We Are not very quibble place lie can go so we done to have to experience e this agony you see a solution Ann heartsick Mother South Bend. Dear Mother you have hit on one1 of the Central problems of our time a not enough trained people to help those among us with psychological problems. I recommend molesters Anonymous a self help group. Their address is 1269 n. E St., san Bernardino calif., 92404. Dear Ann Landers i am deeply depressed and need your advice. I took a test to get my Drivers License and flunked for the sixth time. The humiliation is so awful i am unable to describe it. When the clerk in charge saw me he said a what you again Why done to you give up a i have had three different instructors. They have All told me that 1 will never be Able to pass the test and i ought to forget it the reason a you Are too nervous and your coordination is it seems i have some sort of mental Block that renders me totally non functional in crisis situations. I am 48 years old and feel like an idiot. My husband has taken me out in the car several times and tried to teach me. Finally he begged me to give up on the idea. This morning he offered to Send me in a taxi any place 1 need to go. What should 1 do Ann i hate to be a quitter. A a a a a a a it a a a a a a a a a v a a a chagrined in Chicago dear chagrined As a sometime pedestrian of this great City i urge you to listen to your instructors and your husband. Thanks on behalf of All chicagoan. C creators Syndicate a a a a a a a letters to Ann Landers May be addressed in care of the stars and stripes Apo new York 09211, and they will be forwarded to her. Fond of having animals in our House but we really wanted to see them so we told them to come and bring their dogs on the condition that the dogs be put out on the Patio while we ate our meals. If you done to the dogs Are under your feet at the table Well the dogs were put out Only during the Christmas meal a otherwise they were under our feet during breakfast lunch and dinner. They also got up on the furniture and even slept in bed with our friends i do not dislike animals but i had a couple of childhood incidents with dogs that left me uncomfortable around then. I did no to i amp a anything to my guests at the time but we would like them to visit again a without their dogs. How can i get them to understand our feelings baffled dear baffled by not reinforcing your conditions you have already set a precedent. Why not Tell them what you told me you can even show them this letter but done to expect them to understand your feelings. People whose pets sleep with them regard their pets As their children. Umpei Sal press Syndicate a a Aud Earl maos 7h� res Biva tios1s/ o o a a o a today a crossword Quot across 1 a Media a 5 inquire 8 Anagram for Rade 12 English a composer 13 Quot a walks in Beauty 14 zoo sight 15 narrow lath 16 Large cask 18 rendered incapable of action 20 Wouk so the not War Quot a 21 actor. 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