European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 22, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday february 22,1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my husband til Call him Jerry loves to dance. He a a Good dancer i la give him that and 1 am just fair but his behaviour on the dance floor is just terrible. He has been humiliating me for 16 years. The minute the music starts Jerry drags me onto the floor. Never mind of i am in a conversation with the person next to me he pulls me out of my chair and says a a cd Mon lets dance. Within two minutes his eyes Are scanning the premises looking for a Good dancer. The minute he spots one he grabs her and pushes my into the arms of her partner i keep Honing some Guy will punch him out but it has never happened. Meanwhile i end up with some victim who is two Heads Shorter than i am is half smashed and has no interest in dancing with me. I done to mind if Jerry wants to dance with another woman but i wish he her before the music starts and let me visit or watch. Am l a a Lousy sport Quot As he claims please let me hear from you Toledo dear Toledo Tell Jerry the next time he does it you will sit Down and leave the intruded on male without a partner. Then do it. Dear Ann Landers i am writing to you in the Hope of helping thousands of people who think they Are going crazy feel frightened and helpless and done to know what is wrong. I was once one of them., the symptoms and severity vary but the pain for All victims is horrible. Dear Abby dear Abby my husband and i purchased a Home in a Rural Community. Our House in the City has yet sold. We borrowed Money from both our parents to Purchase our new Home promising to repay them when our old House Sells. Last Christmas my husbands parents presented us with our gift a a note that showed our loan status to the Penny from which they deducted $1,000. Other family members who did owe them Money received $1,000 per family. We Are grateful for the reduction of our loan but after receiving the note we did no to feel much like Cele Brating what do you think of this kind of present to u. In Iowa dear . No matter How you look at it you received a gift Worth $1,000. You have no reason to complain. Dear Abby after Reading the letter from the woman who was insulted because she was addressed by her first name at her doctors office while the men were called a mister Quot i wish to relate the following incident quibble the stars and stripes today a crossword i am referring to obsessive compulsive disorder or . Here Are the symptoms repeated hand washing because they Don t feel clean checking sometimes 10, 20 or 30 times to make sure something is closed filled disconnected or left the a Correct Quot Way fearing that you might harm or kill someone when you Are earning a Sharp object feeling terrified that you have hit someone on the Road or done something wrong and waiting to be apprehended constantly worrying that a Mohave Quot cancer aids or other devastating diseases. = the worst part of . Is that most people who have 1 it function quite normally hiding the obsessions and compulsions from friends. Family and co workers while suffer my their own private hell. Its Agory to know that the door really is locked and your hands really Are clean hut you can to Stop checking and washing. A a obsessive compulsive behaviour can be caused by Many factors including environment upbringing and a Low level of serotonin m the brain. Treatment includes various drugs behaviour therapy and support groups to Case the suffering. Obsessive compulsive is Are like alcoholics. They Are Horn with the problem and can never get rid of it but they can learn How to control it. Please Ann print my letter. Sometimes knowing a there Are others who share your problem reduces the feelings of helplessness and encourages you to get help. Long Island dear Long Island thank you for a letter that is sure to make a great Many . Sufferers feel less alone. For More information you can Contact the obsessive compulsive foundation a National support group at . Box 9573, new Haven Conn. 06535. C creators Syndicate b-45? after being kept waiting for More than 30 minutes in my doctors examining room i was there for a breast examination following my second Mammogram within four months1 heard the nurse say to the doctor. A the a earn is in room nine and the a boobs Are in Here Quot 1 could write pages on How that made me feel in an already stressful situation. 1 addressed her remark the minute the nurse and doctor entered the room. From the nurse who first denied saying it i got a mumbled from my doctor i received a a in a sure she did no to mean anything by in a a prude Abby and in a naive. Hut to be referred to As a body part in a crude Larig term a does elicit a lot of Faith in that group of so called professionals. 1 am finding it difficult to go Back there. Although our insurance dictates whom we see. Fuming in Tucson dear fuming the nurse was insensitive and unprofessional and the doctor was no bargain either. Contact your insurance company and ask if there is another physicians group you May consult for a a second with nine examination rooms a 30-minute backlog and a nurse with the hide of a Rhinoceros and a limited medical vocabulary your physician already has More problems than he can handle. 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