European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 28, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 14 a the stars and stripes tour Sassy Fec Ruar 25, to ssh Arm Landers dear Ann Landers i am writing As a wife who is watching an incredible drama. My husband bless his heart has overcome alcoholism and drug addiction. He has also stopped Abu Sirra me physically. At Long last he is beginning to understand the source of his troubles a a miserably abnormal childhood. His Mother dressed him As a air until he was today s crossword Clit fee was Given a girl s name and wore hews la his hair and lace panties. How he grew up to be a the eighth wonder of the world. It s a Melric a that he is Able to be a Loving husband and father. The Point we re at now a that he has Worten a letter to his Mother letting her know. In a More Levin a was than i possibly could that he would like her to Quot Stop calling him a Suzy of Quot he also Hies to i her that he in not to phone him at work unless it s an emergency and to Stop dropping in at his place of business to his . Brought Joy to it my heart. He asked her to please Stop reciting the names of the women he went with before he married me. She ignored the letter. Although it has taken my husband o yearn of professional help to repair the Mother damaged counselling for her is out of the question f know his Mother is not going to change. St. My question is this should he kiss off the old Gal and get on with his Ife we re nearing Middle age and f. For one. Would like to ice him free of that woman. A fed up to the bicuspid dear fed a that woman Quot is his Mother and it s going to be a dear Abby dear Abby my brother committed suicide Iasi november. This tragic loss has brought out emotions that 1 never knew i had. 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