European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 05, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Ann lenders dear Ann Landers i two years ago i found myself in the emergency room of a local hos Pital. I had just swallowed a bottle of my mothers sleeping pills. I was very much in love with a woman who repeatedly told me i was special a one in a million Etc. Unfortunately she was married. At the time of my suicide attempt i was deeply depressed and Felt that life Wasny to Worth living. 1 was a 20-year-old College student when we met at work. She was a 27-year-old co worker and separated from her husband. We spent the summer together and it was very Nice. When she told me she and her husband were reconciling i was Hurt but in the Back of my mind i had always known this would happen. What 1 did no to expect was that she  want to break up. She really wanted both of us. I did t know what to think or what to feel and i did t have the strength to Tell her no. Now that i look Back our relationship was quite strange. This woman would come to my apartment have sex with me and leave. I could almost set my watch by her words Quot of look at the time i must go a it. L told her several times that what we were doing was wrong and that i wanted to get on with my life. Shed agree then Call me a couple of Days later and whisper a i miss you. I can to live without you.�?�. How can i Stop this a . In Washington dear Washington if you Haven to already gone for counselling i recommend it. In the future find a woman with whom you dear Abby dear Abby i have a family problem that i done to know How to handle. My daughter and her husband and children live in another state. They both have Good jobs and Are decent reliable people. Last year my daughter and her husband got into a financial bind and borrowed some Money from my Mother in Law who is also my daughters grandmother. I la Call her Nell my daughter and her husband asked Nell to please keep the loan confidential As they did no to want anyone else in the family to know about their financial setback. Nell is financially secure. Well Nell phoned me immediately to Tell me about the loan. I never did Tell my daughter that Nell told me about it. Now Nell keeps calling me to Rake my daughter Over the coals if she is late with a payment Abby it upsets me terribly to hear her complain about what a terrible daughter i have. What should i do still upset dear upset either write a letter or Telephone Nell and convey the following message a i do not want to hear any More about my daughter and her husbands loan a that is Between them and you so please do not mention it  tuesday March 5, 1991 a can share something besides a mattress. And your chances would be better if you selected someone closer to your own age with no estranged husband in the background. I think Vou get the picture. Dear Ann Landers. 1 am an anorexic bulimic compulsive overeager who has spent too Many years binding purging starving dieting and Over exercising. I be been miserable Over my body shape and size for years to the Point of suicide. My life had become unmanageable. I want to Tell you and you readers How i got out of that prison. It was Over eaters Anonymous. I have been eating moderate meals for Over five years maintaining a healthy weight and learning to enjoy myself. Best of All 1 have discovered that i am a worthwhile person and the bathroom scale does not measure my Worth. My life did no to miraculously turn perfect. My car still Breaks Down i still have to change the cat s litter Box and i still feel lonely and frightened at times but i no longer feel worthless stupid and hopeless. Thanks for All your hard work Ann. It shows. Ill be looking for my letter in the paper. Done to let me Down. Your Friend in Durham. . Dear Durham Here it is and its a Good one too. I know of the great Success Many people have had with Over caters Anonymous and i recommend that group. Anyone who is interested should Send a Long self addressed stamped envelope to of creates Anonymous 4025 Spencer so suite 203, Torrance Calif. 90503. C creators Syndicate letters to Ann Landers May be addressed in care of the stars and stripes Apo new York 09211, and they will be forwarded to her. And if Nell Calls you. And brings it up Tell her you Are Busy and cannot listen to her. Then hang up. Your daughter and son in Law have my sympathy. Dear Abby seven years ago i fell in love with a Man. I told myself it was Only a a a crush because i Felt ashamed and guilty and  face up to my feelings for him. You see he was a priest and i was a student at a Catholic College in which he taught. I have since married and Haven to seen a father  for some years but my feelings for him have not diminished a they be grown stronger. I keep thinking about him and done to know what to do. Should 1 go on As before1, try to be a Good wife and Mother and Hope that things will get better and ill forget him or should i divorce my husband and Date other men in the Hope that maybe ill fall in love with someone else and do better next time. My secret dear my secret you have two major problems. Your marriage is in trouble and you Are obsessed with father f. Call it a schoolgirl crush a fatal attraction 4move�?� a whatever in any Case i suggest that you see a Counselor or some kind of family therapist. You must let go of this fantasy you be been nurturing for far too Long. A _ Universal press Syndicate the stars and stripes today a crossword Page 19 across 1 scorch 5 turkish title publish a Era org. T2 Topflight 13 a Follower 14 extinct a Birds 15 London Streetcar 16 first rate 18 in control 20 Gladden 21 Anagram of rat 22 actress _ Charlotte a 23 Paris headgear 28-adds the finishing touches 30 Ain t a shame a 31 orders compan. 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