European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 2, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday. April 2, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers so much has been printed about child abuse and molestation that there is Little left to say. When i read the letter from a grandpa a who had done nothing met it re than play an innocent game with his grandchild and was branded a molester by his daughter it brought Back some painful memories of my own childhood. Because my paternal Grandfather had been in prison for Mol Esias a child my father was afraid to touch me. There was 16 Lap to sit in no dad to pick me up and carry me to bed no hugs nothing. 1 was sure he did t love me. Mom did her Best to protect me from possible moles tation by pounding into my head that anything remotely physical Quot was bad. So when the neighbor boy sat me in his Lap to hear his radio i went Home and threw up. When a cute 15-year-old at the Church hayride kissed me i was sick All night. I am 45 now married for the third time and finally coming to terms with my own sexuality. My dad can hug me now and i done to get queasy. My husband who has the patience of a Saint has helped me a great Deal. But your readers need to know that psychological damage can occur and victims can suffer even though no abuse has occurred. / please Alert your readers to the dangers of going to the other extreme. Sign me a mom and dad did their Best in Michigan dear m and d you be made an excellent Point. Parents must keep the lines of communication open and Alert their children to possible molestation. They should however encourage healthy affection among family members and today a crossword quibble of Trudy tfx let away foe Ata Jhue let be remind Vou that our area of extends from that tree to 1rat troop of cu5h65 Omek there what ten 5au0i Taie watched real enemy not a fun tit of Murld Bushes nothing Ever Ftp pens Here that s not True. It gets very Deutl Tang out Here and things do happen a isl the fall me l6ames change Cox of Jiam friends. The ability to express love openly and easily makes for warm and Loving relationships dear Ann Landers /. Ten years ago i went through a Nasty divorce. I got the most precious asset of All my two sons. I have supported them through thick and thin. 1 clothed them fed them provided a Beautiful Home and am sending Theofi to College. Their so called Mother has Given them nothing not even a decent Christmas gift. V. F our oldest son age 23, is about to graduate from College and has plans to be married soon after. My sex wife has refused to help with the rehearsal dinner and she does t think she should pay for any of it. Ann its not a quest Iori of Money but after All she is As much his Mother As i am his father. What is proper on my part i hate to pick up the dinner Tab for her and her sophisticated husband. Then again 1 done to want to ruin my son s special Day. Should she be excluded from the rehearsal dinner what about the wedding should i Button up my Mouth or enjoy the pleasure of telling her off i m quite capable dear Abby dear Abby my Fiancee and i Are both energetic productive citizens who work overtime Sieven Days a week to provide a better life for our children. We Are a Middle aged upper income couple with maximum debt due to our former marriage sin love engaged and want to get married. The problem is we can to afford to because our Federal and state income tax could increase $11,00 and $5,000 respectively. This Means we would have to earn an additional $25,000 in taxable income in order to meet this obligation and we simply can to do tax code is obviously unfair when a couple can to afford to get married because of additional taxes and i wont even ask dear Abby to rectify that problem. But do you know of any place or any Way we can be married in a Christian ceremony without haying to declare our marriage for Federal and or state income tax purposes a overtaxed in the . Dear overtaxed i doubt if you could find a Clergyman who would agree to perform a marriage ceremony and conspire of doing the latter. Your opinion please. Undecided in South Carolina dear undecided no doubt the parents of the Bride Are paying for the wedding and your sex wife and her sophisticated husband Wilt be included which they should be. Since you have been the principal provider for your children i assume that you will be paying for the rehearsal dinner. Quot by All Means invite your sex wife and her sophisticated husband. If she were a Classy lady shed offer to share the Cost of the dinner. Since she seems to be copping out done to make an Issue of it. When its All. Over you la be glad you behaved like a gentleman. A \. C creators Syndicate. A. A a. With you to conceal the tact of your marriage in order to assist you in tax evasion. In other words done to expect to find an honest partner for a crooked Deal. Dear Abby will you please clarify the difference Mcween a a social drinkers and an alcoholic i am extremely confused because i love to go out with my co workers for a a drink a and for some reason i end up having More than one a or two and sometimes More. A person in the a program told me that i am an alcoholic even though 1 enjoy drinking Only twice a a a week. A a a. A a a a a a /.�, the reason i am not sure that i am an alcoholic is because i question it a lot a and Isnit it a fact that True alcoholics would be in denial and never question their drinking social Drinker in Scranton a. Dear social Drinker a person who is in the a program is in a position to know the difference Between a social Drinker and an at Coholic. I suggest that you attend a few meetings of a. 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