European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 11, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday inlay 11, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i have been dating a Man exclusively for the past two and a half years. Both a a Alfred and i have been married before. His daughter is getting married this Spring and i have been told that i am not going to be invited to the wedding. The reasons my presence could create some discomfort and the guests attention might focus on me rather than on the Bride and Groom. A a a a a a a a a a i am very Hurt by this Ann. 1 have a Good relationship with Alfred a daughter and everyone in the family including Alfred sex wife has met me or is aware of my existence. A a a a a we have talked about this for hours and i cannot understand Why he is so insensitive. He even said that if my daughter was being married he would not wish to attend the ceremony. 1 am becoming very angry. Can you help me see this in a different Light anguished in Philadelphia dear Philadelphia my Best Hunch is that Albert and his daughter out of respect for the brides Mother would prefer that you not attend the wedding. You should accept this and not try to bulldoze your Way into a social situation that today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby i clipped this column from the Beacon news in 1969, and its still an excellent piece. Please run it again. Jeri Besco Aurora ill. Dear Jeri its As timely today As it was in 1969, so Here it is dear Abby i just received a letter from my husband in Korea and something you wrote in your column Over a year ago has helped to keep our marriage a True one. I can Best explain by quoting a portion of my husbands letter a Honey do you remember the clipping you sent me from dear Abby a column when i first got Over Here a the one about the Soldier in Korea who wanted to know what to do about his a physical needs while he was overseas. A a. A Well 1 still carry it and in be read it so Many times it s worn to shreds. It has helped to keep me Strong. Its too bad the army does no tissue a copy to every Man overseas. They could sure save a lot of Money on curing venereal disease and keep a lot of Homes from breaking  Abby would you please print it again i want to be sure the one my husband has does no to get too worn to read. Grateful Reader dear Reader with pleasure. Here it is dear Abby my problem is one that bothers thousands of gis so i Hope you will print the answer because it is needed could cause ill will and embarrassment. Dear Ann Landers i am writing about  closet cases who wrote to you about her panic attacks. Please advise the woman that help is just around the Corner. I am referring to the organization designed to help people with the exact symptoms she described to you in her letter. The organization is recovery inc., an excellent support group that is located Quot right in her City. The address is recovery inc., 802 n. Dearborn Chicago Iii. 60610. Please Tell that poor woman to Contact Quot this group at once. In the meantime suggest to her that she take 10 deep breaths exhale slowly when she is having those panic attacks and Tell herself a i am not dying. I am going to get through this. 1 will be just Fine in a few  repeating these sentences will relieve her anxiety in a matter of minutes. I done to wish to discourage the woman from going to a doctor but it has been my experience that the emotional support of the people who attend recovery meetings is the most effective help of All. . From san Antonio dear . In a a great Booster of that organization. Its terrific a and its free. Anyone interested should look in the phone Book or write to the Chicago Headquarters for information. C creators Syndicate a. Badly. I am a happily married Man with a wonderful wife and two Small children Back in the states. In be been in Korea for four months. After living a Normal married life for three years what is a healthy Young Man supposed to do for his physical needs there Are 12 women for every i Over Here and women practically throw themselves at our feet. Done to get me wrong Abby i love my wife but i have a Long hitch Over Here and in a Only human. If you print this please sign me. Jersey dear Jersey assume for a moment that i received the following letter dear Abby i am a happily married woman with a wonderful husband and two Small children. My husband has been in Korea for four months and after living a Normal married life for three years what is a healthy Young woman supposed to do for her physical needs. There Are plenty of men around and when they learn that my husband is in Korea they practically throw themselves at my feet. I love my husband but he a going to be gone a Long time and in a Only human. 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