European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 14, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                A a Arm Anders dear Ann Landers last year i quit a Good Job that i had held for two years. Now i want my Job Back and would like to know if i have any Legal recourse. Here a what happened a fellow employee began to make sexual comments about me to other employees and customers. He also started a Rumor that i had been having an affair with another employee. When i confronted him he denied everything. 1 checked Back to make sure my information was Correct and several employees verified the fact that he was indeed the one who had started the rumours. My husband was furious and decided to speak to him. Again he stonewalled. This was so upsetting that i decided to quit. I wrote a Long letter of resignation to the president of the firm explaining my reasons for leaving and i described in detail what a hotbed of gossip that office was. Later i Learned that some changes had been made and the lying Skunk was let go. I miss my Job and i want it Back. Now that the trouble making Jerk is no longer there it would be heaven. In a afraid however that after writing such a detailed letter about All the unpleasant things that went on in the place the manager would never take me Back. Please Check with your experts. Is the Law on my Side id sue to get my Job Back if you thought i had a Chance. ,. Second thoughts in new Orleans dear . Every Case is different and you would need an actor dear Abby dear Abby i Hope that by printing this letter it will make other parents do some serious thinking about their relationships with their  neighbors 17-year-old daughter and the daughters 16-year-old Girlfriend spent two hours talking to me about boys and sex. The 17-Yeaf-old is thinking about having sex with her Boyfriend. While i certainly did not encourage it i did talk openly about Safe sex practices and birth control. I also explained Why it would be better if she waited until she was older and More mature. What bothers me the most is Why Arentt these girls talking to their own mothers the girls Are friends of my teen aged soils a that is How they know me. Abby it Isnit my place to talk to them about these things but since in a the Only one they Trust i wont betray them. My sons and i Are very open with each other and we discuss everything they have on their minds. I wish More parents would listen to their kids a even if what the kids say May Shock and dismay them. Parents  judge a they should just be there for their children. Somebody else a mom tuesday May 14, 1991 nay who specializes in labor Law. But even if the Law is on your Side i d advise you to look elsewhere. I suspect that your very Long letter muddied the Waters for All time. 1 doubt that you could be comfortable in a place you bum rapped so unremittingly writing the letter May have lowered your blood pressure but next time instead of mailing such combustible prose put it in the drawer overnight and tear it up the next morning. Dear Ann Landers i just threw my latest copy of a Well known Magazine into the garbage and decided to write to Vou with my beef. Yet another and appeared for an absorbent adult diaper Tor Quot mature females who Are incontinent. A a lure gentleman was hugging the mature woman in a condescending Way As if to say a you poor thing. I love you  the sunday paper had a Coupon for a medication to treat women a yeast infections. Help for pms is advertised not Only in newspapers but on Televik Sion. A a a a a a a a a a a a. A a. A a fair is fair. Why Are women getting so darned much publicity lets hear something about what men need help with. I Hope you will print this letter Ann. Its High time somebody blew the whistle on this sexist stuff. A a a a.  a hissing in hous i on dear Houston you have made an excellent Point. The answer to your question is that men get More respect. Is this fair no it Isnit. Id Welcome some suggestions on How to change things. C creators Syndicate dear mom the neighbors kids arc talking to you because they Are not comfortable talking to their own moms or dads. How Lucky for them that you Are there for them. Dear Abby i am writing to you for advice about a dilemma that i never thought would happen to me. Several months ago i asked a girl to attend the High school prom with me. She did no to say yes but she did no to say no either. A couple of weeks later 1 asked her again and she was very evasive. Fred of her games i asked another girl and she said yes right away. When the first girl found out that i had asked someone else to the prom she became Moody and Distant. Then i found out through the Grapevine that she had bought a prom dress on the Assumption that she was going with  have no sympathy for her. Her indefinite replies left me second guessing so i asked somebody else. Now several people seem to think that i am at fault. The Way i see it since 1 asked her twice without getting a definite response i think i should be allowed to ask somebody else. Am i right self defense dear self defense you Are absolutely right beyond a Shadow of a doubt a. C Universal press Syndicate the stars and stripes today a crossword Page 19 across 1 practice with Rocky 5 projection on a wheel 8 Asiatic weight unit ,12 English composer 13 Wood sorrel 14 bring to ruin 15 admits. 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