European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 25, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday May 25, 1991 the stars and stripes a a Page 21 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers three years ago shortly after our second daughter was born i Learned that my husband of 10 years had been romantically involved with another woman. Ill Call her Patricia. Patricia was and still is an employee of my husbands company. They work closely together and he tells me that she is indispensable. When i first Learned of the affair i asked him to fire her. He swore that the fling was Over so i did no to insist. After months of counselling and a great Deal of Effort we put our marriage Back together. I had no complaints until now. Recently my husband told me he had to attend a three Day conference out of town. I asked if Patricia was going and he said when i told him i would not tolerate him taking that woman on an out of town trip he said he would cancel her plans. I have just Learned that Patricia went on the trip with my husband. In a crushed that he lied to me. What should i do now betrayed in Ontario dear Ontario the Law prohibits a Boss from firing an employee with whom he or she had an affair a a so that a out. If you insist on absolute Fidelity not All wives do sad to say give him the Choice. Either he gives Patricia up and is completely honest with you or he can hang his hat someplace else. Dear Ann Landers in one of your recent columns on the subject of today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby i am at the end of my rope. Actually i am mad at myself because i just came Home from another Boring evening. I am a 74-year-old retired widower with time on my hands. I belong to a Golf club where 1 hang out to Kibitz with the card players. A retired professional Man about my age also a widower also kills time at the club. I Felt sorry for him because he was always alone so i started having lunch with him a then he suggested we have dinner together dutch so 1 said of. Now i can to get rid of him. He is the most Boring person in be Ever met. He talks about himself his investments his assets his this his that and no matter How hard i try to get off his favorite subject himself he manages to get Back on it. I can to get rid of this obnoxious Guy. He Sticks like glue and does no to have one other Friend at the club. If you can solve this problem Abby you Are a Genius. For obvious reasons. I can to sign my name or location. Sign me. A. A a a a a a a a a a a. Trapped dear trapped you could do yourself and your Boring Friend an enormous favor if you sat him Down and told him very frankly that he would not be so lonely if he made a few adopted children searching for their birth parents a concerned Reader raised the question a Are adoptive parents to be considered a interim parents a with today a hype on the search and find scenario 1, too am wondering about this. Almost All the tabloid style to shows about missing persons glorify the parents who surface after the child has grown to adulthood letting them take the bows. As an adoptive Mother of two wonderful children i am resentful that very Little credit is Given to the parents who raised these children nursed them through illness and guided them to a secure adulthood. Birth mothers love to get in front of the camera and Tell their sob stories about the circumstances under which they placed their children for adoption. I would like to think we adoptive parents have been. More than a a interim mothers and fathers. Also 1 would like to see the tabloid style shows let up on this cheap sensationalism. In a Happy to say our adopted children consider us their a real parents what an Odd phrase and they have no interest in finding their birth mothers. If you publish my letter keep me Anonymous. Mrs. X. In Indiana dear mrs. A its unfair to generalize about birth mothers. Many Suiter a lot when they give up their children but they do it because they want that child to have a better life. Adoptive parents however deserve special Praise for their generosity and years of sacrifice. You make an excellent Point about the cheap sensationalism. I too wish they would Cut it out. C creators Syndicate a major changes in his personality. Tell him that nobody wants to listen to a person who talks about nothing but himself and his assets. If he Sall that Well heeled financially he could Benefit enormously from a few sessions with a psychologist. The truth May Hurt but it could also solve your problem. Dear Abby when my husband and i go to a restaurant we Are served such Large portions that we either have to ask for a Doggie bag to take Home what we can t or we leave it on our plates to be thrown out. At times we have ordered Only one meal and an extra plate so we can split the dinner. This Isnit always convenient because we both done to always want to the same thing. A. The few restaurants that offer a lighter fare serve diet foods. Why can t these restaurant owners realize that All people done to like Harvest hands How can we get the restaurant owners to offer Only half portions How about it Abby any suggestions on How to get this problem corrected not that hungry in Orlando dear not that hungry if you Are suggesting that restaurateurs offer half the food at half the Price please read on restaurant owners could not survive on half the profit. 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