European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 16, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i read with interest the letter from the Mother in Law who had a Hunch that her songs wife was having an affair. My questions Are Why is this woman at her daughter in Laws House every evening Why is she answering the phone in someone else a House Why does no to she do Volunteer work at a Hospital or cultivate some friends of her own or better yet stay Home and mind her own business i had a similar experience with my Mother in Law. The woman lived across the Street from us and slept in our House every night for six years after her husband died. She disrupted our marriage and interfered with the Way we were raising our children. I put an end to it when i told my husband that his Mother was suffocating me and if he did no to Tell her to butt out of our affairs i was filing for divorce. Been there in the Dakotas dear Dakotas i heard from hundreds of others who also signed themselves a been  the following is from a Canadian soul sister dear Ann Landers that Mother in Law who suspects her son s wife is having an affair while he is working two jobs made me so mad i had to write. Does no to that woman have anything else to do after two years of such a a togetherness ill bet the daughter in Law is ready for an in dear Abby dear Abby i am a 31-year-old married with children woman. I have an embarrassing secret. When i was 20,1 was arrested on a felony charge a transportation of pot into a prison. The charge was dropped to a Misdemeanour and i was Given a one year probation since i had never been in trouble before As an adult. I Haven to been in any trouble since then. I have noticed that on Job applications certain questions Are asked about a any  i done to want to lie on a Job application and risk being caught and later being fired a or even being sent to jail because of lying on the application. So my question is this since my arrest was so Long ago is there a Way for me to have it sealed so that i can put that part of my life behind me and not worry about it following me for the rest of my life please done to print my name or address. Going straight dear going straight in some Stales if the offender was under 21 years of age when the crime was committed and has subsequently proved to be of Good character the record can be expunged destroyed. Consult a lawyer. It May Cost a few Hundred dollars but the peace of mind would be Well Worth the , july 16, 1991 sane Asylum. I know what she s going through because my Mother in Law lived with us and it nearly drove me around the Bend. It got so bad i looked Forward to having surgery so i could spend several Days in the Hospital. Anonymous in Winnipeg dear Anonymous thanks for sitting in my Altair today. You and Dako tas did a splendid Job and i am grateful. Dear Ann Landers i love unlikely coincidences. When Reading your column recently i could t believe my eyes. The letter was about being chosen last when lining up for sports in gym class a and the person writing said that she along with a Martha Benson who had a Glass Eye Quot were always humiliated because nobody wanted them. Your correspondent being a considerate person made up the fictitious name a Martha Benson and put it in quotes. It so happens that my name is Martha Benson and 1 was like the girl in the letter the last to be chosen because my eyesight was so poor no Glass Eye but i did Wear thick glasses starting at the age of 3. I. Will the real Martha Benson please stand up Birmingham Ala dear Martha Benson what a coincidence i am sure this happens More than 1 know. Thanks for being such a Good sport. C creators Syndicate dear Abby in a recent letter from a heartbroken in Lakewood n.j.,�?� the writer was distressed Over the death of her pet from ingesting Antifreeze left on the driveway and cautioned your readers to Hose Down their driveways so that their pets Are not poisoned. Abby unintentional acts of pollution Are not Only dangerous to residents and their pets but have similar impacts on the fish and wildlife who Are on the receiving end of our storm Drain water. Most liquid substances washed into storm drains get dumped untreated into our Rivers and lakes a where a pint of Oil will produce a 1-acre Oil Slick. The Congress and states Are attempting to clean up storm drainage As part of the clean water act. Disposing of Oil Antifreeze paint or paint thinner household cleansers and other substances by dumping them into gutters and storm drains not Only damages the environment but is also a crime. So Abby urge your readers to Call their local Public works department and find out where to dump used Oil and How to properly dispose of other toxic liquids. Remember for most of us the water you Wash away could be someone else a water Supply please done to put anything Down a Gutter or storm Drain that you  want to drink or swim in. Bert Mccollam department of Public works Sacramento Calif. Dear or. Mccollam consider it done. C Universal press Syndicate he stars and stripes today a crossword Page 19 across 1 language of buddhism 5 toothpaste Choice 8 a a a Little acre Quot 12 Stravinsky 13 bread Choice 14 City on the Oka 15 succeed 17 Olive Genus 18 or. 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