European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 9, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers this is in response to a a Vancouver who was grateful that her divorced parents did no to bad Mouth each other in front of the kids. I generally agree with that philosophy but there Are circumstances where one must fight Back. My sex wife not Only lied to our children about my support payments but also wrote to my commanding officer and had her attorney write too. Here is what i did 1. I showed those letters to my children and i also showed them the cancelled checks proving what she had written were lies. 2.1 sued that lawyer for libel and slander and i won. The settlement was modest but the personal satisfaction was tremendous. 3. Since my sex wife had told All our Mutual friends that i was always behind with the support checks i photo stated the letters i had written to my commanding officer along with the cancelled checks and i sent these to every person i could think of who knew my a wife. 4. I also sent photocopies to the local county bar ethics committee and her attorney was censured. 5. My sex wife owed Money to a great Many people. When the House we owned jointly went on Sale i tipped off All her creditors As to where and when the settlement hearing was to be held and they All showed up with liens on her share of the House. The Bottom line is that my sex wife now has no dear Abby dear Abby you told a woman that if reconciliation with her estranged son is not successful she and her husband can leave their Money to their favorite Charity or to their local animal shelter. A few years ago i might have said the same thing. But my drive to work takes me through the streets of downtown los Angeles where hundreds of men women and children live scrounge through trash cans for garbage to eat and warm themselves by bonfires they Light in the Street at night. In be seen grown men using the streets for a Public restroom. Given the awesome task of helping such people it grieves me to think of people with Money to give away donating it to animals. The number of children without food people without jobs and families without Homes is growing daily and it appears that the government Isnit going to do much about it at the moment. Female executive dear executive. Must one make a Choice i would Hope the human heart would be big enough to provide ample food and shelter for All gods living creatures. But in a country As wealthy As ours for people to be scrounging in trash Friday August 9, 1991 friends and no Money and our children want nothing to do with her. The Alimony and support payments Are Over. I have a wonderful second wife and a terrific career and All the friends my first wife and i shared Are still my friends. I paid almost $300,000 in Alimony support and tuition and was never so much As a Day late even when i was in Korea Honduras and saudi Arabia. I had to fight Back and i did As vigorously As the air Force in desert storm. Nobody messes with me faithful Reader in mass. Dear Reader you arc also a pretty Good writer thanks for a Well detailed primer on How to handle yourself in the clinches when the fighting gets Nasty. I can see Why nobody messes with you. Dear Ann Landers your Boston correspondent wanted a male heir to carry on the family name and the Best advice your Harvard geneticist could offer was a keep there is one. Sure Way to have a male heir and that is to adopt one of the Many available children Here or abroad. The world already has too Many unwanted children. And consider please what life would be like for a female child whose parents wanted a boy and got her instead. Ill sign this another geneticist in Davis Calif. Dear Davis Well said. For those who Are interested in adoption i suggest either or both of the following National committee for adoption . Box 33366, Washington . 20033, or the adoptive families of America 3333 Highway 100 North Minneapolis Minn. 55422. C creators Syndicate cans for garbage to eat is a National disgrace. Dear Abby i have decided to end our marriage. The reason for our divorce is my wife a marital indiscretions. We Are Well known in town and our family and close friends were utterly shocked when they heard the news. My problem i do not want anyone thinking that i have been a less than decent caring husband and a therr. There was no wrongdoing on my part. My wife although appearing to be a very decent moral woman chose to ignore her vows to a forsake All others a if you get my Drift a and i think you do. I do not wish publicly to libel her. But Mutual friends Are treating me somewhat coldly because i initiated the divorce., at the present time i am not speaking to my wife which is perceived As being cruel. However i feel that this is appropriate in Light of her indiscretions. So should i remain silent and try to ignore my friends cold shoulders a or. X dear or. X whether you want to speak to your wife is your own business but for you to a let people know that she violated her marriage vows will make you look like a cad. It is almost impossible to throw dirt on someone without getting a Little on yourself. 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