European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 22, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 14 Ann Landers the stars and stripes Wjk dear readers 1 am on vacation but i have left behind some of my favorite col a urns that you May have missed the first time around. I Hope you enjoy them. Ann Landers dear Ann Landers. In a 35 years old and just gave birth to my second child a boy. My husband was so crazy to have a son he see straight. Our Little girl is now 4. She is hyperactive and very difficult. She pinches hits and bites people. This has been going on for two years and i can to seem to Stop her. Now my husband wants to put the girl up for adoption because he a afraid the boy might pick up her bad habits. We be had some Battles Over this because 1 done to think its the right thing to do. Will you please try to get through to the nut in be never heard of a father wanting to do such a thing. Mother of Prince Philip ii dear Mother Tell your Lunatic husband that children Arentt waffles. You done to throw out the first one just because it dear Abby editors note Abby is on a two week vacation. Following is a selection of some of her favorite past letters dear Abby Judy and 1 have been married for one month and i have already filed for divorce. This is the second marriage for both of us. The problem is Judy a 16-Ycar-old daughter Lynne. Lynne told her Mother that if she stayed married to me she would go live with her father. Judy does no to want Lynne to live with her father because he drinks. Also Lynne threatened to get pregnant just for spite. Judy insists that she loves me. She says she does no to want a divorce and the solution would be for me to move out and get a separate apartment near Here for two years until Lynne is 18. Abby i love Judy More than any woman in be Ever known but what kind of marriage would we have living in separate apartments please Tell me what to do. Unhappy in Virginia dear unhappy move out. But As Long As you love Judy done to push for a divorce until you Are positive that you really want one. Lynne is blackmailing her Mother who can to be blamed for doing what she thinks is Best for her daughter. Both the daughter and Mother need counselling. I recommend it. Dear Abby my husband and i have been invited to a wedding. My husband is unable to attend so i am taking my 16-Ycar-old Cousin. She does not know the Bride. At the last four weddings this Cousin attended she thursday August 22. 1991 does no to turn out the Way you would like. Your daughter needs special attention. Some hyperactive children have emotional problems that can be resolved by tutoring. Others have a chemical imbalance that can be regulated by medication. Take her to the nearest University Hospital for evaluation. But be careful. Too Many kids Are turned into Little junkies because its easier to medicate them than spend the time required to make them feet loved. Dear Ann Landers in a engaged to a Fine Guy who has a hot temper. He has a habit of hitting or kicking things when he gets angry. Last week when his baseball team lost he socked the Wall and sprained his wrist. Today a Motorist Cut him off and he knocked his knee on the dashboard and it bled. What a his problem any advice love him dear love that a Fine Guy is grossly immature. He handles frustration like a pre adolescent. My advice to him is to get some counselling and learn How to Deal with anger. My advice to you is to stay out of his Way until he grows up. C creators Syndicate a caught the brides bouquet. Maybe i should Tell you that she is a very Large and athletic girl who is fast on her feet. I feel that because she is Only 16 and has already caught four Bou cruets she should not make an All out Effort to catch this one. Done to you think she should give the brides friends and relatives a Chance to catch the bouquet no bouquets for Nora dear no bouquets if you want to risk telling a a Large athletic girl who a fast on her feet what to do go ahead. Dear Abby i knew when i married my husband that his first love would always be horses. I never minded being second to a horse but now i think a female biped has put me in third place. This woman is not married. She has horses of her own and she relies on my husband for help and advice about her horses. They seem to spend a lot of time together. I am invited to join them but what fun is there for me when there is nothing but horse talk people who know her say that she has no women friends enjoys the company of men but does no to want the responsibilities of marriage. I love my husband too much to leave him but 1 was much happier before this Horsey Dame came along. My husband keeps telling me that i have nothing to worry about but for the first time in my life i am jealous. Please Tell me what to do. A third place dear third take it from the horses Mouth Yoiiro husband is probably just feeling his Oats. Turn the twosome into a Trio Brush up on your knowledge of horses and you May win by a nose. 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