European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 13, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday september 13, 1991 the stars and stripes Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i discovered a pair of High heeled shoes in my husbands briefcase. After much questioning a Troy a admitted that he had become terribly depressed when his father passed away 10 years ago and found Comfort in dressing up in women a clothes. When i asked him How often he did this he said a sometimes in be gone for two months without dressing  i now understand so Many things that used to baffle me. For example roys refusal to attend family outings. His Pat excuse was a i have too Many things to do in the  now i know the Man was at Home dressing up. Our sex life has not been very exciting these last few years. 1 have tried to Tell him that i need More attention but his answer is always the same a maybe tomorrow. Right now in a too  i should Tell you that Roy is one of the most respected physicians in this City. We have a very solid marriage and he is a terrific father. But i am confused about what to expect in the future regarding my husbands Cross dressing. He says he a been doing it less frequently but i am not sure this is True. I suggested that he get professional counselling but he insists that sharing his secret with a Counselor would be dangerous. I can see How his medical practice would be damaged i today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby ten years ago i became pregnant with a a Joe so baby. We were going to get married but Joe got into a Jam armed robbery and was sentenced to 10 years in prison. Joe is due to get out in two months. Now the problem. When my baby ill Call him Gary was 8 months old i fell in love with a Man ill Call Tony. Tony and i were married and Gary was raised to believe that Tony is his a a real father. My family and Tony a family know the truth about Gary so a real father but nobody Ever talks about it. Joe smother and sister also know the whole Story. My question should i Tell Gary who his real father is Tony says he will support my decision. In a afraid i will lose Gary a Trust if i Tell him i have lied to him All these years. What do you think silent for 10 years dear silent you had better Tell Gary who his real father is before someone else does. It wont be easy but its far better that he hear it from you than from someone else. When three people know a secret its no longer a secret. Dear Abby my beloved wife of 32 years just died of Colon cancer which had spread to her liver. She was 51 years old the word got out. I also discovered female hormone pills in roys sock drawer. When i asked about them he said they were for his patients. That got me to do More searching. 1 then discovered some vials of a substance that he says he injects in his face to fill up the wrinkles. I also ran into several tubes of Bikini Wax a Box of Home electrolysis Needles and Cata logs that sell flashy women a clothes swimsuits fishnet stockings Black panties and bras. I am confused and panicked. Can you explain what All of this Means i know nothing about Cross dressing and any information you could give me would be very helpful. Also what should i do divorce is absolutely out of the question. I love Roy and 1 would never leave him no matter what. Somewhere in the Southwest dear somewhere Cross dressers often discover in their teen years or earlier that they get pleasure from wearing women s clothes. Many of these males Are happily married and Are not interested in homosexual relationships. When pressures mount the Cross Dresser feels the need to escape from his troubles and dressing up gives him a lift. Roy however goes beyond dressing up. He seems to be into Needles and pills which suggests that there is More involved Here than just Cross dressing. Since he will not go for help i Hope you will. Surely there is a trustworthy Counselor you can talk to about your recent disturbing discovery. Good Luck. C creators Syndicate healthy and Beautiful. My two sons and i Are in total Shock. My wife had some Colon cancer symptoms and was examined by a Colon cancer specialist. The doctor proclaimed a no  she had cancer of the Colon at the time of the examination eight months after the examination the cancer had spread to her liver. It wa1 finally discovered one year later. She lived with intense chemotherapy and pain for 14 months. Abby Tell your readers that if they suspect that they have Colon cancer they should demand a Complete Colon examination a blood test and a second opinion. Lost in Atlanta dear lost i thank you for finding words of advice for others after suffering such a deep personal loss. Dear Abby two weeks ago my husband and i were browsing in an antique shop when we came across a White porcelain figurine. On the Bottom was stamped a made in Usan a and in even finer print were the letters  some people May deny that this occurred but during world War ii i assure you it did. Now we re sorry we did no to buy that White porcelain piece. We would have loved to take a picture of that lettering and Send it to you Abby. If we Ever find another piece we will. 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