European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 30, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday october 30, 1991 the stars and stripes Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am 20 years old and a Sophomore in College. Compared with Many of my Peers in be had it awfully Good. In High school i was Well liked and involved in everything a cheer leading Drill team student Council and sports. I was elected to the Homecoming court. My Home life is Fine. I have two successful Loving parents. Outside of school i was involved with a Church youth group taught sunday school and have done some professional dancing. I entered my freshman year majoring in biology pre Medicine and later that year pledged a sorority. I be never been Short of fun or friends and am the most cheerful Friendly outgoing person you could know. Because of my Bright smile and love of making people laugh you a never guess that i want to die. I done to know when i first became obsessed with dying but every night i lie awake in my bed and beg god for cancer or some other terminal illness. The Way i see it in be had the Best of everything and i want to die Young with All the chips in my Corner. Please understand that in a not suicidal. I would never kill myself. I just wish something would kill me. In be mentioned this to a couple of close friends and they can to understand Why i feel this Way. What a wrong with me Ann Why is it that i want More than anything to die when i have had it All i know very Well that if i put my name and City on this letter my phone will be ringing off the Hook so ill just sign myself death wish Sophomore who needs some answers dear Sophomore since you already have stated that you know some today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby recently i attended the wedding of a Good Friend. Because i am a photojournalist by Trade she asked me if i would videotape her wedding and i gladly agreed. The wedding was Beautiful and the reception went smoothly until the brides father stopped the band to make an announcement. He said he had a a lost his Wallet which contained $1,500 with which he had intended to pay the band. He said if anyone found the Money it could be returned simply by leaving it in the menus lavatory and no questions would be asked. No Money was turned in. The following Day i looked Over the footage i had taken at the reception and was astonished to see that while filming a couples conversation in the background was the bridegroom removing a Wallet from the evening coat of the brides father. Now i done to know what to do. The couple is away for two weeks on their honeymoon. Should i Tell my Friend should i Tell her father or should i just keep it to myself for the brides Sake please do not use my name or thing is wrong with you i wont be labor the Point. You need to find out exactly what is causing you to Harbor such bizarre thoughts. Every Campus has Counselor. 1 urge you to discuss your secret longing with a professional. 1 done to want to get dramatic but a wish can suddenly turn out to be the father of the deed. Please write soon and let me know you re of. Dear Ann Landers this is for the woman who suggested that the word a a step As in Stepmother Stepsister Etc be stricken from the language. As a Stepmother i question the Universal acceptance of her Well meaning proposal to drop the a ugliest four letter word in our language. I love my stepchildren and we have a wonderful relationship. It gets better As the years go by but they Are not my children. They Are the children of my husband and his former wife. When they introduce me As their Stepmother there is never a hint of putting me Down disowning me or disengaging from me. If the word a step Quot were dropped can you imagine a child saying in front of company a i m not your daughter a or a a you re not my Mother How embarrassing and hurtful that would be. The role of the stepparent is challenging enough without inviting trouble so lets leave Well enough alone and Bear with a smile the honorary and honorable title of its perfectly of. Chapel Hill . Dear . A great Many a a Steps mothers fathers daughters sons Etc wrote to say the same thing. They have convinced me that the designation need not be a pejorative and should not be abolished. My thanks to All who wrote. Your letters proved once again that those who have been there Are Best qualified to pass judgment. C creators Syndicate inc. Address. No name no address dear no name Call the brides father and invite him to View the Lovely video you took of his daughters wedding a and you wont have to Tell anybody anything. Dear Abby my husbands brother a wife continuously flirts with my husband. She finds excuses to hug him or be in his face. I have spoken to my husband and asked him not to respond to her flirtations. He has backed off a Little but says he can to help it if she is always coming up to him. Would i be wrong to speak to my sister in Law about this and ask her kindly to stay out of my husband s face jealous in Richmond a. Dear jealous your husband is a grown Man and a free agent. If he wanted to discourage the advances of his sister in Law he could easily do it with a few Well chosen words spoken in Earnest. 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