European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 13, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20 the stars and Stripe wednesday november 13, 1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers Here is a bizarre letter for you. In a 35 and still a Virgin. Granted that a unusual but it gets weirder. In be never had a Man Tell me i a a am attractive. No Man has Ever held my hand or kissed me. In be had several male friends Over the years but no relationship progressed beyond the a a Palm stage. Its not that i did t want a romantic involvement. In fact i went so far As to Tell several men that i was interested hoping it might help. It did no to. On a few occasions in be even invited a Man to dinner and an event. Some accepted but no one Ever asked me Back. In a intelligent Well educated Well travelled a Good conversationalist and a Fine homemaker. I have a successful career and several hobbies. In a a talented Nec dle worker and Potter and have Many outside interests. In be volunteered with organizations and am Active in my Church. In a Well adjusted and have a Loving family. In a dear Abby dear Abby i must take exception to your response to Karen a. Tamura of Cerritos calif., concerning the Vietnam War. You said that National guard units fired into a group of peaceful demonstrators at Kent state University killing four and wounding nine. Mobs Are Seldom  these a a students confronting the National guard at Kent state that Day in 1970 constituted a mob. Their Zeal for a cause led them astray. Four had to die before reason regained the upper hand. They were armed with bricks rocks and clubs and were scarcely in a mood to exercise discretion. It is Ever so easy after the fact to declare what was should not have been. Allan e. Bovey Springfield mass. Dear Allan read on dear Abby for years i have Lumen As i read the sob stories about the a peaceful anti War demonstrators at Kent state. I know Vietnam Wasny to a popular War a i hated it too. It is too bad these demonstrators were killed a but peaceful no 1. These a a peaceful demonstrators burned the Roth building. 2. These a peaceful Quot demonstrators had been ordered to leave but refused. 3. These National guardsmen were about the same age As the a peaceful Quot demonstrators. They were there obeying orders.  you feel your life was threatened if you were a member of a Small group facing a Large crowd who was pelting you with stones and other missiles Small wonder someone panicked and fired. Everyone has heard about the a a peaceful demonstrators who were injured or killed but the Public has never heard about the guardsman who phoned his no movie Star but in a not a dog either. I can to figure out Why not one Guy on this vast planet has Ever been attracted to me. After 35 years of hoping in a becoming depressed. In be managed Well on my own but i m puzzled and bemused by the emptiness of my life. Any ideas a woman in California dear woman with All you have going for you its Odd that you Haven to connected with someone. Its got to be More than Lousy Luck. I suggest that you pose this question to five people who know you Well a Start with one or two at work. Then ask your Clergyman your doctor a relative and a male pal with whom you do Volunteer work or pottery. If you done to get any solid clues go to a Counselor for one or two sessions. There must be a reason for your solitary existence. If you can identify that reason your whole life could change. Good Luck to you dear. C creators Syndicate inc. Young wife and cried As he told her what he had seen and who today at age 48, still has problems As a result of what happened that Day and the subsequent questioning and harassment these innocent Young men were subjected to because of the Kent state riots. No i Wasny to there a but my 22-year-old brother was an Ohio National guardsman protecting his country his state and the taxpayers lives and property. Had it with Kent state in Ohio dear Abby perhaps being attacked with bricks bottles Etc., is a peaceful demonstration to you but those 18-year-old guardsmen were scared into retaliation. Where of where has the truth gone Phyllis Gol Leslin Melbourne Fla. Dear Abby the governor of Ohio did not Send for the state National guard because of a peaceful anti War demonstrators at Kent state in May 1970. Mobs of raging students were roaming the Campus a pillaging and burning everything in sight including whole buildings. Local authorities were terrified and helpless. Blame the issuance of live ammunition to a group of frightened soldiers completely inexperienced in mob control who were being shouted at spit on or hit by bricks and rocks. These guardsmen were no older than the students. Abby please read current accounts unbiased before wrongfully reporting this terrible tragedy. David Paig Puyallup Wash. Dear David and dear readers my source for the explanation of the Vietnam War and reference to Kent state came from the world Book encyclopedia. I Felt that this was an unbiased account and it was in no Way intended to mislead or inflame. Referring to it As a a a peaceful demonstration was my mistake. I now know the truth. C Universal press Syndicate today a crossword across Island Down 1 word with 28 invaders 1 Rich sister of Spain. 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