European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 19, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse / Page 20 Ann Landers the stars and stripes tuesday november 19,1991 today s crossword dear Ann Landers in a tired of Reading letters in your column such As the one from the Man who said he got stuck with Lemons. Men claim women Are after their Money have too Many kids done to want to commit to a relationship or talk about their a husbands All the time. In be also heard men complain that the women they meet Are airheads incapable of carrying on a decent conversation. Let me Tell you what i am not. I am not a drug addict or a drunk. I am not at risk for aids. I am not on welfare. I am not a Bou or a school dropout. I am also not perfect. Now i la Tell you what i am. I am a hard working 30-year-old Divorcee no kids. I live at Home with my parents and my dog. I am smart and pretty. I am fun and have a great sense of humor. I am neat and clean and Well organized. I am a stylish Dresser. I have been divorced for three years and in All this time i have met Only one men who acted As if he might be interested in me. Do you want to know Why in be been passed by because i am overweight. Id love to meet a Nice Guy. But most men go after great bodies and when they discover these women Are idiots they Are disappointed. If men would take the time to find out what son the inside instead of looking Only at the outside they would t run into so Many Lemons. A Chicago peach dear peach the letter you refer to produced a ton of responses. Many women sent photographs and Telephone numbers and asked that 1 Send them on to the Man who wrote. You re right about too Many men being interested in what son the outside but lets face it packaging is of dear Abby dear Abby after Reading the letter you printed concerning All the wonderful benefits of hugging i had to write to express a contrary opinion. Except for my husband Small children and animals i am a person who does not like to be touched and i think i have the right to feel that Way. There is nothing wrong with me and i am sure there Are others who share my feelings. Granted a great Many people feel that a hug can make their Day but a hug can ruin mine. Occasionally someone i know Only casually will hug and even kiss me when i have Given them absolutely no reason to believe 1 would Welcome such familiarity. Not wanting to appear rude i Grimace and Bear it. I done to know How this problem can be resolved since apparently most people done to object. But How is one supposed to know in Advance that someone does not want to be hugged however once i inform a person that i done to like to be touched i Hope that my wishes quibble that pfc Lulu lev a woo. In a a 30imk Ftfe x respect Ihms edit Volt mat pm a a arc a a x want to be. Reco Milieo As orc f 1h sure that if a just be up out Multi it yet a i you dec mme it admit a it Etc 0,pfc old lev x Ulas just 60116 id 1eu. You that woo dropped voila a it allot. Dot Doyle War Lac Tofte a Doc at 50 ice us a loaf prime importance As any retailer will Tell you. A terrific product deserves to be Well presented. The smart woman knows this. Dear Ann Landers. I am 28 years old and adopted. In be been searching for my birth Mother for five years. After my two children were born the desire to find her became an obsession. Four months ago i Learned the name and address of my birth Mother. I realize it May have been wrong but i telephoned her and said a i believe in a the child you gave up for adoption and id love to meet there was a Long silence. Then she said a you have the wrong number a and Hung up. After More checking i obtained proof that this woman is indeed my real Mother. Two weeks ago i sent her a letter saying i would give anything to see her. I enclosed a photo my name address and Telephone number and asked her to Call me any hour of the Day or night. Ann i Haven to heard a word. I always dreamed that one Day my real Mother would throw her arms around me and thank me for finding her. In a so disappointed. What should my next step be nothing is As important to me As meeting this woman face to face. I need your advice. A confused in California dear California after considerable investigating you located the woman who gave birth to you telephoned her and introduced yourself. She said you had the wrong number. You then wrote her a letter enclosed your address and phone number and asked her to Contact you. Weeks have passed and you be heard Zero. Zip. Nothing. Now you ask a what should my next step be a you must Stop fantasizing and accept the fact that she does not want you in her life. It is time to forget her and move on. C creators Syndicate inc. Will be respected. I have even thought of wearing a to shirt with a thank you for not hugging me across the front. Any suggestions just sign me. Hands off dear hands off lest you believe you Are alone in your aversion to being touched let me assure you that you Are not. When a known Hugger approaches you immediately offer your hand inviting the Hugger to accept a firm handshake. Your body language will signal that that a about As close you care to get. There is nothing rude about setting limits. Dear Abby most of us lick postage Stamps. Are they sanitary How about envelopes Henry Loble Helena Mont. Dear Henry maybe yes maybe no. But since you Are concerned use a Damp sponge to moisten postage Stamps As Well As the Flap of the envelope and you wont have to worry about whether they re sanitary. 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