European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 20, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday november 20, 1991 the stars and stripes Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am 25 years old and have grown up Reading your column. I want to thank you for your relentless admonition to get counselling. It took me a Long time to get the courage to talk to a mental health professional but because you kept hammering away i did it. I am a paedophile. I know the subject of paedophilia is Gross but this sickness needs to be understood. Ever since i was a child i have had sexual thoughts about children. I always knew this was wrong but i could t help it. From the age of 12 to 17, i molested several neighbourhood kids. I quit when i turned 18 because i knew id a in serious Legal trouble if i were caught. I finally decided i had to put myself in therapy before something terrible happened. There were times when 1 came pretty close. My Counselor works with the sex offenders program in this state. He has been helping me to grow up and place my anger where it belongs. I have been in therapy for 18 months and see a lot of changes in the Way i think and behave. I now choose to avoid putting myself into situations where i might be tempted. I urge anyone who has these feelings to listen to me. You have a sickness. Getting Well requires a tremendous amount of counselling and constant vigilance. You cannot do it on your own. Get help before you ruin some lives and screw up your own. Any City any state dear a.c., . Thanks for a letter that Only a person with the prob it today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby in 1990, you gave the nation s smokers a wonderful gift the week before thanksgiving a column encouraging them to participate in the american cancer society a great american smoke out. Your support helped millions across the country make the decision to quit smoking at least for the Day. Your column was a terrific morale Booster for our 2.5 million american cancer society volunteers in the United states. Would you please run that Lovely smoke out column again and thank you for your continued help in the fight against cancer. Linda s. Haase Assoc. Director of communications american cancer society Illinois dear is. Haase with pleasure dear readers tomorrow nov. 21,1991, will Mark the 15th annual great american smoke out a one Day Campaign to encourage smokers to quit smoking for 24 hours just to prove they can do it. Last year 19 million smokers tried to quit for the Lem could have written. Take my word for it you connected with a lot of child molesters today and 1 thank you. People need to know this is a sickness and if not treated it can and does ruin lives. Dear Ann Landers my husband worked in his father s Small business for 15 years. A a half a Quot salary was very Smalt but he did t complain because his father told him repeatedly that he would inherit the business. Two years ago when i became pregnant with our second child Hal suggested he and his dad form a partnership because we had very Little Money and no health insurance. His father explained that there were sizable tax advantages to the business if things were left As is. Last year my father in Law died suddenly of a heart attack. While grieving for this Man whom we loved we were shocked to learn that his will did not specify what was to happen to the business. Now my husband s brother wants a this share although he never worked there. Over the years this brother had been Given significant sums of Cash in lieu of any stake in the business but this was never written Down. Now that he is being divorced he needs a settlement Money and insists he has a Legal right to half of his fathers estate. An attorney has told us that he is on solid ground. He says a lawsuit would be costly and we would probably lose. Ann print this. Warn your readers to get everything in writing and Clear it with a lawyer or they might end up like us. Broke and heartsick dear friends your letter says it far better than i could. C creators Syndicate inc. Day. This represents 58 percent of the nation s 50 million smokers. Breast cancer used to be the biggest killer for women. But the no. I cause of cancer death among women and men today is lung cancer. Tobacco claims one life every 13 seconds. An estimated 143,000 will die of lung cancer in 1991. And now a word about smoking related diseases a emphysema chronic bronchitis and heart disease this year an estimated 434,000 will die from one of these. A congressional study has reported that health costs from the Adverse effects of smoking have reached a new High of $100 billion a year in increased medical Bills and lost productivity. The loss in death and disability cannot be measured. What about a a secondhand smoke is it damaging to non smokers to be in the presence of those of you who Are smoking yes one non smoker Dies of secondhand smoke for every eight smokers. And studies reveal that the children of smokers Are More prone to lung problems and allergies than Are children of non smokers. For years i have begged my Young readers a if you smoke quit now. If you Don t smoke Don t Start a quitting a cold Turkey is the hardest Way to quit but my readers Tell me it s the most effective and in the Long run the easiest. Those who need help to break their habit Call your local chapter of the american cancer society or Call 800 227-2345 for information. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 bachelors last words 4 City vehicles 8 applaud 12 Mountain pass 13 payment Ter. 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