European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 22, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday november 22, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers we recently took my son and eight of his friends to a baseball game for his 10th birthday. We parked on the left Side of a one Way Street. One of the Young passengers opened the front door without looking. An oncoming car hit the door which was half open. The boy s leg was caught in the door and got bruised so badly that for a few minutes we thought it might be broken. My wife who is a nurse concluded that the leg was not broken and though offered the option of going Home the child chose to go to the game. He spent the night at our House. The next morning he was walking normally so no medical Bills resulted from this Accident. Our insurance company paid $1,300 in claims for damage to both vehicles. Because of this Accident we will have to pay out of pocket a $250 deductible and a surcharge of $1,200 in added premiums Over the next three years. As the Driver 1 feel some responsibility for not issuing a warning to our Young passengers but i also believe it is not unreasonable to expect a 10-year-old to exercise some caution on his own. After discussing this incident with several friends All agreed that the parents of that child should share in at least some of the Cost. Most Felt that a 50-50 split would be fairest. The child a father however indicated that his friends unanimously concluded that since the child today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby i am a 29-year-old professional woman who is considered attractive. I am Well educated and enjoy a very successful career. I am currently dating a Man my age who has a Job doing manual labor. He works in a warehouse he has Only a High school education which is All he Ever wanted. He loves sports has a great sense of humor and is not terribly ambitious. We never fight or argue and he treats me like a Queen. This current Man in my life is somewhat immature in that he is still very attached to his buddies and enjoys the bar scene a although he does no to have a drinking problem. Two Beers is his limit he loves children and would be a kind and Loyal husband and father. My biological clock is running and 1 would like a family. I love him but my question is can a relationship like this last he wants to marry me but i am concerned that perhaps he is too simple and i might grow bored. Last year i ended a relationship with a Man who wanted to run my life and now 1 fear that in this Case i would be running this Many a life. I have never been treated this Well a Ever. If i do decide to end this relationship How could 1 Ever explain Why on the Fence in Waukegan ill. Was in my custody the total responsibility should be mine and he should not be expected to pay anything. To us the Issue is one of fairness not Legal liability. We would very much appreciate your opinion. Readers in Chapel Hill. N c. Dear Chap sorry i can to support your position. When you take your children a friends in your car you Are responsible for their safety. Thank your Lucky stars the boy Wasny to seriously Hurt. Next time instruct All your Young passengers to stay put until you Tell them they can get out. And keep your Eye on them at All times. The parents of the children in your charge have a right to expect them to be returned Safe and sound. Dear Ann Landers after 20 years of marriage my wife decided to get herself a Job and have her own spending Money. After three months she began to go out with a the gang Quot on Friday nights for some drinks and a few laughs. Well Ann a platonic Friendship turned into a red hot love affair and my wife filed for divorce. In a plenty bitter and i m going to have a hard time trusting another woman. Sign me hurting in Indiana dear hurting was the demise of your marriage the result of too much Trust 1 doubt it. I fear your marriage Wasny tas solid As you thought. If there a a lesson to be Learned its the Hazard of not being tuned in. My condolences mister. C creator Syndicate dear on the Fence a relationship like yours can last Only if you appreciate what a rare jewel you have in a Man who treats you like a Queen and is Loyal caring and steady. Clip this letter and should you decide to end this relationship read it to him. He May not be As Well educated As you but i assure you he will understand and become history. Dear Abby my youngest brother in Law is getting married this Spring. We live on opposite sides of the country but we Are expected to come to this wedding. We simply can t afford to go As a family. My husband thinks he should go anyway even though his wife and kids can t. I disagree with him i say if we can tall go then none of us should go. I already know what the outcome is but 1 would like to know what you think about this problem and How would you resolve it feeling abandoned dear feeling abandoned i do not agree that since All of you can to afford to go to the wedding nobody should go. Since your husbands youngest brother is being married and you can to afford to go with him i think your husband should go without you. By the same Token if someone in your family were being married on the opposite Side of the country and both you and your husband could not Alford to make the trip you should go without him. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 Quot Terr 4 potential syrup 7 West Side Story role 12 a Quot Golden Girt 13 japanese Sash 14 Tot Alad 15 mrs. 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