European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 3, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Today s crossword Page 20 the stars and stripes tuesday december 3,1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i read your column about sex crazed girls several months ago and thought i was pretty Lucky to have a 14-year-old daughter who was fairly Well behaved. Suddenly everything has changed. Last week i received a phone Call from a boys Mother. She played a message that a a Linda had left on the family answering machine for her 16-year-old son. It was sexually explicit and shocking. 1 thanked her very much and told her that i appreciated the Call. When Linda came Home we had a Long talk. I did most of the talking. She listened. All Linda a privileges have been rescinded for an indefinite period including making and receiving phone Calls. I told her that if she defied the new rules just once i would get her a baby Sitter. She will go for counselling As soon As i get a second Job. Linda is basically a Sweet kid who is just beginning to turn Down the wrong path. I am a single Parent and believe that this sort of behaviour must be nipped in the Bud. My friends say in a too Tough. Am i hard line Momma dear hard line better too Tough than not Tough enough but punishment alone wont solve the problem. 1 suggest joint counselling. Better communication Between you and Linda is essential. Obviously there a a Side to this girl you done to know. View this Telephone incident As an Opportunity rather than an embarrassment. It could be the beginning of a genuinely rewarding relationship Between you and your daughter. Dear Ann Landers its 5 o clock in the morning. In be slept two hours in dear Abby dear readers since the Day magic Johnson stepped to the microphone and calmly announced that he tested positive for the aids virus we have been hearing a great Deal about aids. It is no longer a a Gay disease a and As Johnson said a if it could happen to me a it can happen to please read what Anna Quindlen the Brilliant new York times columnist had to say about the subject a in the 10 became a Mill Ness has brought Ltd last year we witnessed the canonization of one aids patient a 23-year-old woman named Kimberly Bergalis who says she did no to do anything she is a Lovely White woman with no sexual history who contracted aids from her dentist. She is what some people like to Call an innocent victim. A with that single adjective we condemn those who get aids from sex and those who get it from dirty Needles As guilty and ultimately unworthy of our help and sympathy. We imply that Gay men get what they de the intensive care waiting room. My sex husband the love of my life is dying. Two of his daughters Are Here too. So is his current Girlfriend. Several other family members left earlier heartsick and exhausted. Not Only do we Grieve but we Are also suffering from feelings of guilt. We All believe that if we had tried harder we might have saved him. I divorced this Man because i loved him too much to watch him drink himself to death. Any outsider would have said he had everything to live for but he let the bottle ruin his life. His liver is shot and the doctors say there is no Chance for recovery. The person in that bed bears no resemblance to the handsome charismatic charmer i married. It is hard to believe that wasted form with tubes and Needles invading his body is the same Man. We tried everything we could to get him to Stop drinking but he somehow Wasny table to put that bottle Down. I Hope every person Man or woman who thinks he drinks a a Little too much will take this letter to heart. That step from being a social Drinker to a drunk is smaller than you think. Sign me a witness in Georgia dear Georgia i can understand your sorrow at watching the suffering and destruction of someone you love but please Stop feeling guilty. There is no Way you or anyone else could have saved your sex husband. Alcoholics cannot be rescued. They must Rescue themselves. I Hope you will share this column with the other family members Tho like you feel that they failed this Man and let him Down. The truth is he let himself Down. Again dear readers alcoholics Anonymous is As close As your Telephone a and its free. C creator Syndicate inc. Serve and people who shoot up May As Well be dead. Its a Little like being sympathetic to the health conscious Jogger who Dies of a heart attack during a stint on the stairmaster but telling the widow of the Couch potato a Well if he Hadnot eaten All those hot dogs this have happened. A How Are All those parents who denigrate queers and a junkies going to explain what happened to magic Johnson How Are All those pious people who like to talk about a innocent victims going to Deal with the lovable basketball Star the All time sports hero who stressed Safe sex when he told the world he was his positive will this finally make them say to their kids it could happen to you a and make them Stop relying solely on chastity and Start dealing with reality a magic Johnson with that engaging personality that athletic legerdemain that Grin a this is what aids looks like. Why can to we learn to Deal with our National tragedy with As much dignity and determination As this Good Man brings to his personal one a Worth clipping from Forbes Magazine a How do you know when you re old when you double your current age and realize you re not going to live that Michael l. 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