European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 17, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20 a the stars and stripes tuesday december 17, 1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i will get right to the Point. My Boyfriend is very Rich. He is also married. His wife brought Money to the marriage. She worked and saved to get them where they Are today but a a Joe does not love her. He has said Many times that he wishes head met me first and that he thinks about me constantly. His entire family is aware of our relationship. How could his wife not know id like to get off Public assistance. Would i be Safe in asking Joe for a Cut of the pie by threatening to Tell his wife about us i want to do it before someone else does. My children would never go to his wife about Joe and me and neither would his Sisters. But his brother might open up his big Mouth. Joe has taken up a lot of my time and several years of my life. I think in a entitled to some of his Money. What arc my rights m. In Ohio dear Ohio you have no rights. Zip. Zero. Zilch. There is a Legal term for what you have in mind. It is called blackmail. Forget about this shortcut to easy Street and get yourself a real Job Kiddo. Dear Ann Landers i have been dating Quot Andy for four years. We stopped seeing each other for several months but we missed each other and decided to give the relationship a second Chance. Andy is 33 and is trying hard to get a degree. He floundered in College but has settled Down and is Only one semester away from graduation. He is self employed and has had some health problems As a result of today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby this is in regard to the recently published letter from Quot tired in Utah a the lady who proposes to harass her Over-60 husband with Saltpetre to Cool his sexual desires. Your answer made it Clear that this idea Isnit too Swift. Maybe you should follow Jimmy Durante a advice Quot if you can to raise the Bridge lower the  a Well stocked health food store will have a Vitamin called a two manpower a composed primarily of Yogi mine an aphrodisiac made from the ground bark of the african Yoh Imbe tree. It is reputed to be quite effective and might possibly Rev up her sexual motor to the same Speed As that of her underprivileged husband. The woman Power Label cautions that it should not be consumed along with alcohol. Male Yogi mine fan in Jackson Tenn. Dear fan 1 checked out Quot Yoshim Bine in my random House dictionary and found it to be exactly As you described it a an aphrodisiac made from the ground bark of the a childhood illness. Andy can to stand my Mother. He claims she is too controlling and manipulative the same characteristics she despises in him. My Mother and Andy have had some Knockdown drag out verbal Battles and now he is not Welcome at family gatherings. We Are a close family and have frequent get together which creates a problem. If i refuse to show up i catch All kinds of heat. My Mother finally admitted that a big part of the problem is that Andy reminds her of my father. They were divorced when i was 10.1 Haven to seen him since i was 12. In a now 30. My Mother contends that my father is Gay and she is sure that Andy also has homosexual tendencies. I done to know where in the world she got this crazy id a. Andy is straight As a string and so Are All his friends. My Mother keeps warning me that Andy is a loser and if i marry him i will have no future and my life will be miserable. We really do love each other Ann and we Are willing to work hard at making a life together. Can you give me some guidance no Many a land dear no Many a land obviously your Mother is a domineering and overpowering woman who has some unresolved problems of her own. She is also much too involved in the life of her 30-year-old daughter. You need to distance yourself from your Mother for a while and get into a counselling program a first alone then with Andy. The problems with your Mother probably go Back much farther than this., a Good therapist can be enormously help til. Get going and Good Luck. Gem of the Day Why in the world did you marry that nut who wears a Bustle under his suit coat that s not a Bustle. Its his Wallet. C creators Syndicate Yoh Imbe tree. Now a word about aphrodisiacs if you sincerely believe that they will enhance your sexual desires a they might. Dear Abby my problem concerns Christmas gift giving to my children and or grandchildren. Their circumstances Are not alike and i want to be fair. One daughter is divorced with one child. One daughter is married with no children. One daughter and her husband have two children. My question is a should i allot a certain amount of Money for each individual or each family unit and should the fact that one daughter has less than the others enter into the picture is there a fair solution concerned in Florida dear concerned spend approximately the same amount on each of your children and on each of your grandchildren. For those whose need is greater give whatever you wish during the year a but for no special occasion. 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