European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 24, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 20 Ann Landers the stars and stripes dear Ann Landers bizarre Mother in Law stories Are nothing new to you but mine is causing some serious family problems. Can you help i married a a Carlo two years after i met him. We lived together for a year and Felt that we were Well suited for one another. Carl lived four hours from his parents and we visited them often sometimes spending the weekend there. Several months before our wedding my Mother in Law phoned Carl and told him that items were missing from her Home and she was almost certain that i had taken them Over the weekend. My husband was absolutely positive that 1 would never steal anything and wrote off his mothers phone Call As nonsense. We heard nothing More about this strange accusation until eight months after we were married and had moved across the country. Carlos Mother called me one afternoon and spent nearly an hour on the phone accusing me of stealing items from her Home and scratching her furniture with a a Nail or a knife or some Sharp i was shocked and upset. I told her that 1 had never taken anything from anyone in my life nor would i damage anyone a furniture. I asked for proof that i had done these things. She said a i done to need proof. God saw you do then she Hung up on me. That was five years ago and i Haven to seen her since nor have we communicated. My husband visited her a year ago and said her health is failing. He has asked me to go with him to visit her soon because she is unable to travel and is very eager to see our Young son. I done to want to go Ann. The woman is weird and she gives me the creeps. Please Tell me if i am justified in refusing my husbands request. Quandary in the Northwest dear Abby dear Abby three years ago 1 Lent my daughter and her husband $35,000 so they could Purchase a Home. I told them that they could pay me Back when they were financially Able. No mention was made about after two years there was nothing said about repaying the loan so i asked them when they intended to pay me Back. They just looked at each other then changed the subject. By the Way their combined incomes come close to $100,000 annually. Now they Tell me that they considered the Money a gift and they will not be paying it Back needless to say we Are not speaking. Is there anything i can do to get my Money Back can 1 take them to court beside myself in san Francisco dear beside can you take them to court of course you can but in the absence of a written note stating that the $35,000 was a loan you not Only bought them a House a you quibble the weather for today will Clouds in note thirties Edith a Tohl percent Chance of smote. Agma that Means that ten percent of the area can sex fact 5n0ul.1tte other ninety percent of the area Wahll not get am 5n0ll or figure by o o / a Quot a tuesday december 24, 1991 dear quandary your Mother in Law sounds mentally ill. Id advise you to go and take your son with you and act As if nothing happened. It May be the last time he will be Able to see his grandmother. Your husband will appreciate your generosity of spirit and this favor to him costs you nothing and will strengthen your marriage. Dear Ann Landers i am a 23-year-old successful businesswoman. For the first 18 years of my life i thought 1 was the youngest of six children. When i was 18, my Mother and i got into a typical Quot Mother daughter argument. It ended with me Yelling a i wish you weren to my she answered a a in a not a it turns out my birth Mother is my oldest sister my adoptive parents who Are of course my grandparents gave me a wonderful life and i have no hard feelings toward them. Susan cannot find it in her heart to forgive her Mother for the Way i was told the truth. She has had nothing to do with mom or dad for years. I have forgiven everyone involved for the lies and deception. My parents Are getting older and they Arentt in Good health. They love Susan and want her in their lives. They lost one son in a tragic Accident two years ago and now it seems they have lost a daughter As Well. I feel that this is my fault and i can to find a solution. Can you help feeling at fault Long Island dear Long Island get of that guilt trip. This is not your fault. The Healing must Start with the intervention of a third party. I suggest a Clergyman a Counselor or a close family Friend. Good Luck. A c creators Syndicate bought yourself a headache. Your first order of business Call your lawyer. Dear Abby i am 14 years old and my Best Friend just died. Her name is Beeper. She is a Bird a a Finch to be exact. Beeper died All of a sudden. She Wasny to even sick. Yesterday she was Fine it really hurts to lose a pet without any kind of warning. Some people might think losing a Bird is nothing to feel miserable about but Abby Beeper meant the world to me and 1 can to even weep for her because in a afraid people will laugh. I just had to write to you to express my feelings. I Hope you wont think in a silly. I am really sad. People say a get another Bird a it will help you get Over losing Abby do you think 1 should get another Bird april Solomon dear april yes but done to try to replace Beeper with a Finch that looks like Beeper. A pet a like a human Friend a can never be replaced. C Universal press Syndicate today a crossword amp a amp they re still of pow wait Here f i la bbl amp it Back. Eee you father Suee Waits vol the last my nuts. To Christmas shop always has. 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